I feel, if some one wants disabled child, then he/she should adopt a disabled child, cause there are many disabled children, who don't have any caretaker.
On 5/19/15, Gunjan Singh <[email protected]> wrote: > Being a disabled myself I know how much I lack in life, not only in > vital directions but also in the daily tiny-mini things. > Although entirely independent, there are things I can’t see or imagine > which a sighted counterpart would. > How could any disabled would want to selfishly create/produce disabled > babies is leaving me in shocks. > Unfortunately these lesbian ladies have just thought the life/worldly > conducts were the things those could be controlled totaly by human > beings, which is right. > But alongside they also seem to be the weaker people internally. > without any offences to gay relationships,which are natural to some people. > The relation of ease with each other that had led these ladies to same > sex marriage or relationship had impacted them so much that they now > need a child that won’t ask them for more or anything that is > different from them and which they couldn’t provide. > If they think a hearing impaired child would be alike to them, they > are mistaken. > He/she can ask them for things out of their control as he/she grows up. > Can the lesbian mothers too would be able to provide their deaf kid > the jean of gay relationship? > They could also commit the crime of honor killing, if not in the > developed nation. > Everything has a positive side along with the negative side. > It is so difficult for disabled parents or even the non disabled > parents to find out if their baby would have any jean of disability > from some of their ancestors’ jean, and here they are preparing the > babies for a lacking life. > > It is much more criminal deed than the barred ULTRASOUND to find out > the sex of any child inside the womb and the foeticide. > So bar these actually abnormal productions. > Regardless of the status of developing/developed nationality, a > disabled is challenged to equal troubles if located in either > countries. > We can respect ourselves and other disabled but can’t be such cruel to > overlook the difficulties in our lives to gift the coming generation > the same troubles. > Born disabled or unfortunately met any accident is natural but > deliberately is a crime. > > > On 5/19/15, Radha <[email protected]> wrote: >> I second Vamshi byeya's opinion, Certainly should have a legal ban >> which ever country it may be. >> >> On 5/19/15, Vamshi. G <[email protected]> wrote: >>> If having a disabled child deliberately is scientifically possible, >>> then it should be legally barred! This article presents a very true >>> perception about disability instead of untrue and unnecessary >>> pretenses. >>> >>> ...but we cannot change the simple fact >>> that it is better to have five senses than four, however enhanced the >>> loss of one allows the others to be. >>> >>> >>> On 5/18/15, Karnati Srishailam <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> THANK YOU >>>> >>>> On 5/18/15, avinash shahi <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> In the long argument over designer babies, did anyone imagine that >>>>> parents might prefer a designer disability? While we were all worrying >>>>> about the bionic offspring of the super-rich, two deaf lesbians in >>>>> America were going round sperm banks, trying to make a deaf baby. >>>>> http://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/09/gender.uk1 >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> It sounds like the start of a bad joke, except that they have now >>>>> managed it twice, thanks to a friend with five generations of deafness >>>>> in his family. They claim that they are especially well equipped to >>>>> look after a deaf child, which I am sure is true, and had they adopted >>>>> one such child, or 20, we would all be praising their goodness. >>>>> >>>>> The difference, of course, is that no child should be forced inside >>>>> its parents' psychosis - whether they be from a hardline religious >>>>> sect or Deaf Lesbians. The truth is that all of us have to contend >>>>> with our parents, for good or ill, but at least we can't be committed >>>>> at birth to spending the rest of our lives as circus performers or >>>>> bank clerks, or missionaries. We have free will, and the great thing >>>>> about growing up is personal choice. >>>>> >>>>> What choice is there if your parents have already decided that you are >>>>> going to be deaf, and that deafness will be your defining identity, >>>>> just as it has been theirs? This is not the beauty of compatibility, >>>>> it is genetic imperialism. >>>>> >>>>> Deaf people, they say, have heightened senses, and a relationship to >>>>> the world not shared by the hearing population. Fine, I have no >>>>> trouble with that. But identity is going to be a big issue for the >>>>> kids of the Deaf Lesbians, because both women belong to a radical >>>>> group that defines deafness like blackness - not as a disability but >>>>> as cultural difference. >>>>> >>>>> My closest friend is black. She married a white man and their eldest >>>>> child looks like an English rose - pale skin, blond hair, blue eyes. >>>>> Nature does this kind of thing, and it is a celebration of difference >>>>> and sameness all mixed up together. Nobody knows what kind of baby any >>>>> two people will produce - and surely this is a blessing, not a bore? >>>>> Must we control everything? If the answer is yes, we are paranoid. If >>>>> either of the Deaf Lesbians in the US had been in a relationship with >>>>> a man, deaf or hearing, and if they had decided to have a baby, there >>>>> is absolutely no certainty that the baby would have been deaf. You >>>>> take a chance with love; you take a chance with nature, but it is >>>>> those chances and the unexpected possibilities they bring, that give >>>>> life its beauty. >>>>> >>>>> I am always on the side of risk, and always suspicious of control. The >>>>> more controls we have, the less free we become. Parents usually try to >>>>> control their children, and later their children hate them for it, >>>>> while busily repeating the damage themselves. >>>>> >>>>> How would either of the lesbians have felt if their own parents had >>>>> said that heterosexuality was such a beautiful thing that they had to >>>>> screen out any potential gay gene in their children, just to make sure >>>>> they had a good life? >>>>> >>>>> How would any of us feel if the women had both been blind and claimed >>>>> the right to a blind baby? Even if we transform the language of >>>>> disability into a dialectic of alternative functioning, should the >>>>> medical system support parents who want their child to suffer a >>>>> serious handicap? >>>>> >>>>> We can make our world as friendly as possible for people with >>>>> different physical capacities, but we cannot change the simple fact >>>>> that it is better to have five senses than four, however enhanced the >>>>> loss of one allows the others to be. >>>>> >>>>> I believe that hearing, like sight, is a blessing, and if we are >>>>> prepared to use technology to breed children we have deliberately >>>>> disabled, it is not only the language of disability that will have to >>>>> be radically reworked, but our entire moral perspective. >>>>> >>>>> What this case suggests is that we can do what we like to our >>>>> children, even if the consequences of our actions are irreversible. >>>>> >>>>> As lesbians, the two women should know something about choice and >>>>> personal freedom. They both practise as mental health specialists, so >>>>> I hope they have a colleague who will be able to talk it through with >>>>> two kids who turn up in 20 years, explaining that their mothers >>>>> decided that they had to be deaf. >>>>> >>>>> -- >>>>> Avinash Shahi >>>>> Doctoral student at Centre for Law and Governance JNU >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >>>>> of >>>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>>> >>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>> [email protected] >>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>> >>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>>> please >>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> Disclaimer: >>>>> 1. 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