The reference Sam made to California was sort of off the topic; yes,
California does have a law stating that children born to a marriage are
the legal children of the husband of said marriage.  Since Errol Flynn
wasn't married to the woman in question, the anecdote is immaterial.

Now, let's address the "unfairness" of the law.  

In Judaic Law, only children born of Jewish mothers are Jewish; the joke
that goes with that law is "only the mother knows for sure."  But at the
time that law began, it was far from a joke.  Wars were still fought
hand-to-hand then, and raping & pillaging were an accepted part of
warfare -- "to the victor go the spoils" did NOT mean just property.  Was
every child generated by the rape of an enemy woman by a Jewish soldier
to result in a Jewish child?  No Way!!  The Jews didn't need any more
mouths to feed, and they couldn't raise the child without the mother and
the mother wouldn't be likely to raise the child with Jewish traditions!
So that's the first reason that to be Jewish your mother had to be
Jewish.  The second reason was that sometimes the Jews lost battle and
there towns were overrun; the women were "spoils" and they were as likely
to conceive from rape as from marital sex.  So how to prove the child was
or was not Jewish??  Easy:  The father didn't matter, because any child
born to a Jewish woman was, by definition, Jewish.

How about modern, or earlier, law?  Well there are two main ways to look
at it.

In most states east of the Mississippi River, and many in the mid-West, a
woman and her children are legal chattels of the husband; she couldn't
own property, there was no guarantee that she would inherit anything upon
the husband's death because the firstborn son was the normal -- often
under law in the case where there was no will -- one to inherit.  Under
conditions like that, the husband would WANT all children born to his
wife to be legally his children.  If they were not legally his children,
he no long had the power of life & death over them; if they were not
*his* children, his wife might stand to inherit in the absense of any
other legitimate heirs!  So one reason for making certain that all
children born in a marriage belonged to the husband was a matter of
control remaining in the hands of the man/husband/"father."

Later, after women had kicked enough ascii during the westward expansion
to have a small amount of power, it became very important for the
children of a marriage to be legally the husband's.  There was the matter
of inheritance still, but it was also as much a matter of who was
responsible for those children should a divorce result.  Even without
divorce, many "permission slips" for all sorts of things from school to
medical treatment required the signature of the FATHER.  If the children
of a marriage were not, by law, the children of the husband he could not
give permission of any sort... not a "Good Thing"(tm)

There's another VERY GOOD reason for making the husband the legal father
of all children born to his wife (and often within X number of months
after a divorce) was that technology didn't give us any way of really
truly for certain sure to within 99% of certainty knowing who the father
was, or at least wasn't.  Even ten years ago DNA wasn't far enough along
to say with certainty who the father of a child was; even excluding
someone from parenthood wasn't that easy.

Children HAVE to have a legal father whenever it is possible.  The way
our systems are set up, fathers are responsible for caring for their
children.  If a husband could simply say "Hey, they're not MY kids" then
who would support the children?  You & Me -- the taxpayers!!

Here in Ohio I believe the law is still in effect -- one effort to
protect children which I agree with.  What would be the consequences of
conception through rape where the pregnancy is not terminated, if there
were no legal responsibility for the husband to children born to his
wife?  Hell, it used to be in some states that a man could divorce his
wife based upon the fact that she "allowed" herself to become pregnant as
the consequence of rape; those were, of course, very often the same
states that required a woman to obtain a huband's permission to terminate
any pregnancy.  Do you men see any level of "unfairness" in that
scenario?

I do know that here in Ohio a man can be named as father to a child born
outside of marriage, by the mother putting the man's name on the birth
certificate.  However, the man then has the choice of accepting legal
fatherhood (and its responsibilities) or challenging parentage and having
the DNA work done by the court to prove/disprove his parentage.  That
would seem to protect most of those in need of protection.

Even if the law were changed, to allow a husband to disown children born
of his wife, then who is gonna take care of the kids?  Welfare won't do
it anymore, dear people!  The taxpayers don't get hooked with the tab for
childcare, but we do end up getting hooked with the tabs as a consequence
of children being raised in horrid conditions of poverty and/or crime,
the tabs as a consequence of criminal acts by the children as children
and adults, the tabs for the loss of property values when slums grow and
taxbase and income to the city/county/state where those children reside,
and with the tabs for whatever Federal intervention program is "hot" at
the moment.

The possibility that he may be declared the legal father of children born
to his wife just might make a man think a little harder about why he
wants to get married and who he wants to be married to.  But it's not
likely ...

====

On Sun, 19 Jan 2003 22:28:06 -0500, Samuel W. Heywood wrote:

in reference to:

>>> In the state of Michigan, USA, all children born during a legal
>>> marriage are the legal children of the husband even if it can be
>>> proved that he is not the father. If your wife gives birth, you
>>> are the legal father.
<snip>

> Many other states have the same kind of unfair law as Michigan.
> I believe that my state, Virginia is one of them.  In the state of
> California, the screen actor Errol Flynn lost a paternity suit brought
> against him by a woman who claimed that the actor was the father of her
> child.  The actor and his legal counsel were able to prove most
> conclusively that he could not have been the father. 



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