Ram-da and Alpana-ji,
   
  I am sad that I made you sad.
   
  Regards.
   
  Umesh

"Alpana B. Sarangapani" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
      Thanks C'da for covering for us earlier. 
  I feel it would be an insult to Nitin to open a thread like this, even though 
we have taken a brave front, like writing an eulogy, showing up at work after 
two weeks etc., etc. We do it because Nitin wants us to do it - never bend 
yourself unnecessarily in front of others.
  Then again, FOR US it is NOT just another thing that happens in life that is 
healed when time passes by - we have to get another life to get healed. 
  And BTW, that 'one year mourning period' rule that the society puts, is pure 
BS. I decide when my mourning period is over.  
  Umesh-ji, I was thinking of letting you know about the new development, but 
you never asked us. I know you have all the good intentions, but please, not 
like this.
    
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  From: "Ram Sarangapani" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Chan Mahanta" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
CC: [EMAIL PROTECTED], [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally -for 
life?
Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2006 16:47:28 -0600

  
    Thank you C'da for really understanding our feelings.
   
  We understand Umesh means well, but Umesh, both of us still feel deeply hurt, 
whenever Nitin's name crops up, it brings back lots of memories. In essence, it 
is a sensitive subject for us. And we certainly, do not expect the same level 
of sensitivity from everyone around. We hope you understand our feelings. 
   
  Over the past year or so, we have tried to show a brave front, participated 
in Assamnet discussions etc, visited friends, but that should in no way be 
construed to mean that, at least for us, Nitin's case can be treated like some 
other case (far removed from us), and Nitin is 'past history' for both of us 
and we can discuss him in a detatched way. I don't think we will ever reach 
that sense of detatchment and nor do we want to. Nitin is a part of us.  
   
  I did not follow this thread carefully, but fail to see the connection. And 
since you wanted to know, Hardeep S. Grewal of Houston has been indicted for 
Nitin's murder by a Harris County Grand Jury, and is awaiting trial. That is 
basically as much as we know about the case. 
   
  Also, whether, Grewal is convicted or not, sent to prison or not, we, as 
parents, have already lost.
   
  Ram & Alpana
 


  On 12/21/06, Chan Mahanta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:       Umesh:
  
 
  You ought to have exercised some discretion in bringing Nitin's case into 
this discussion.
  
 
  But then again, why am I surprised!
    
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  
 
  At 7:06 PM +0000 12/21/06, umesh sharma wrote:
  Natwar Singh did NOT kill anyone -- Sharma - Yadam team did -- two people 
murdered.     I wonder how the case of Nitin Sarangpani's death in Houston, 
Texas allegedly by an Indian Sikh immigrant whose daughter was his friend and 
he was at her house to drop her off at night -after attending his birthday 
party. Did his being a Marine Reserve help in police investigation? Did the 
girl's father land in jail? http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf   
  Umesh

mc mahant <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  None of these deserve being fed a lifetime in Jail.  Idiotic Brit Penal 
Code-also copied by US--where big fish like" Kanwar" Natwar Singh are branded 
Success Stories and small fry locked uup for life -at what cost!
  mm
    
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    From:  umesh sharma <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To:   [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To:  [email protected]
Subject:  [Assam] IE: Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally - for life? 
Date:  Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:53:26 +0000 (GMT)
  
  http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439           This Sharma 
grandson of former Indian President -Shankar Dayal Sharma (I know his nephew) 
seems to be trigger happy as do his friends. Member of Parliament DP Yadav's 
son who goes to jail with Sharma --is one of the two brothers allegedly 
involved in the murder of Nitish Katara who was dating their sister and had the 
guts too dance with her at her birthday party(as per news reprots).      Here 
is Yadav's main role http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473     
       Umesh           PS: It seems to be true -- birds of  a feather flock 
together  

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