A very moving tribute Ian.
Your words leave me with the feeling I knew her personally.  We will all 
miss this great ambassador for our sport.
Gliding certainly does attract some great people.  Count yourself 
amongst the best of them Ian.
> 
> 
> I was not looking forward to the service for a 27 year old girl -
> Lucy's farewell.  When I arrived I thought this may be a little
> different.  There were displays of Lucy's life.  I learnt she was the
> youngest Ski instructor in NZ at the time and topped her year at Law
> at University.  The service started with Lucy singing a traditional
> Maori song then followed a spectacular electronic slide show. Views
> were of where Lucy had been and had seen in her life.  Brett Iggulden
> told us of the life of Lucy who he had known since age 3.  She never
> went to regular school up to age 10 instead traveling around USA in a
> Kombi with her parents. She was a powerful debater and after law
> school went into acting. Regretfully one boyfriend died in a ski
> accident and another drowned in Fiji. Unfortunately she had experience
> with young people funerals and had time to think about her own
> service.   Brett only had boys and Lucy became his "daughter" as she
> would often visit Bellingen and Byron Bay over the next 20 years.  The
> service ended with I think four powerful talks by Lucy looking at us
> straight in the eye.  Messages included how to live our life to the
> fullest  and how having fatal disease turned her life around and was
> something special.  It left us all saying Woo - that was powerful -
> that was some special girl.  She only had praise for all her doctors. 
>   As her father said she never had the opportunity to organise her
> wedding - instead she organised her own very special farewell service.
> Evidently the messages were recorded mid 2003 and as Gavin said he was
> on the video and all of a sudden he was hearing these special messages
> from his daughter and thought this is powerful stuff.  Brad Edwards, 
> Brett Iggulden and Giles Taylor (her Aussie doctor) and myself sat
> around to the wee small hours of the morning - well what are we going
> to do with the rest of our lives?  
> 
> I pass this on to gliding people as until the last VHS club video dies
> in 20 years time we will see Lucy learning to fly or promoting our
> sport on those rainy days. Many people from around the world replied
> back to me and I urge you to email Gavin [EMAIL PROTECTED]  Lucy's
> mum Ann lives separately but sure it will get passed on. I
> particularly noticed how many of those that sent on their kind
> thoughts also had lost a son or daughter and would now feel for Gavin.
> 
> I now have a regret that I did not chat to Lucy a little more when she
> was around as she was a real special girl.  
> 
> Ian McPhee
> Box 657  Byron Bay  NSW  2481  Australia
> Tel +61 (0)2 66 847 642  Mob +61 (0)428 847 642
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> 
> 

ANDREW WRIGHT

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