Thanks Cheri, that makes sense.

:)

Linda

On Wednesday, November 16, 2016 at 9:24:13 AM UTC-8, Cheri Mello wrote:
>
> You don't sign the release you don't get to see your matches. And your 
> matches don't see you.
>
> Cheri Mello
> Listowner, Azores-Gen
> Researching: Vila Franca, Ponta Garca, Ribeira Quente, Ribeira das 
> Tainhas, Achada
>
> On Wed, Nov 16, 2016 at 9:21 AM, linda <[email protected] <javascript:>> 
> wrote:
>
>> Thanks Cheri for this thought provoking post.  
>>
>> It made me think about the green release form that's provided with the 
>> kits.  Would you explain the advantages and disadvantages of signing-- or 
>> not signing-- it?
>>
>> thanks so much!
>>
>> :)
>>
>> Linda
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> On Tuesday, November 15, 2016 at 2:47:55 PM UTC-8, Cheri Mello wrote:
>>>
>>> (Cross posted to Azores, Madeira, IslandRoutes)
>>>
>>> Janine Cloud, who works at Family Tree DNA, said, 
>>> "DNA testing has opened a lot of doors. Some of those doors are closets."
>>>
>>> We like to use DNA testing to confirm our paper trail and find new 
>>> cousins. We like to help others too. It's a great tool. However, sometimes 
>>> it uncovers things we don't know about - those skeletons in the closet. If 
>>> you have a skeleton in the closet you don't know about, don't DNA test. If 
>>> you were ever stationed overseas and had a girlfriend there and lost 
>>> contact and don't know what condition you left her in, and you don't want 
>>> to know, don't DNA test. 
>>>
>>> Most of us don't know about the skeletons or we weren't with a woman 
>>> overseas. We just go about our genealogy and do DNA testing.
>>>
>>> Bill Griffeth, of "The Closing Bell" (a New York Stock Exchange show on 
>>> American television) was one of our speakers. He got into genealogy in 2003 
>>> along with his cousin. They took trips across the United States together 
>>> researching their common Griffeth line. About 3 years ago, his cousin took 
>>> a DNA test. He asked Bill to do the same. When Bill finally got around to 
>>> it, he didn't match his cousin. He wasn't even in the same haplogroup.
>>>
>>> (NOTE: The only science in this book has to do with YDNA testing. 
>>> There's not much science in it at all. You only need to understand that the 
>>> men in the story took a YDNA test (traces their father's father's father's 
>>> line only - the Griffeth line). And that haplogroups place you on the tree 
>>> of mankind).
>>>
>>> Bill had the DNA company (FTDNA) retest. Then he bought another test 
>>> through National Genographic (he didn't realize FTDNA processes those tests 
>>> too). All the same result. Then he had his only brother, who is 16 years 
>>> older, do a DNA test. The brother matched the cousin.
>>>
>>> Bill was able to sit down with his 90-something year old mother and talk 
>>> to her. It was difficult for her to tell him everything. So some of it he 
>>> had to leave alone. He did research on who his biological father was, who 
>>> he calls "Gene Wyman" in the story (Gene because of he's genetically 
>>> related, Wyman because it's the Y-chromosome passed through men). His 
>>> father is deceased and Bill has some half siblings out there.
>>>
>>> It was a very interesting story. I finished the book before I landed. I 
>>> just read straight through it. If you are interested in someone's DNA 
>>> journey, see if your public library has it (or if you can download it on 
>>> one of your readers). "A Stranger in my Genes," by Bill Griffeth, published 
>>> by the New England Historic and Genealogical Society.
>>>
>>> Cheri
>>>
>>>
>>> Cheri Mello
>>> Listowner, Azores-Gen
>>> Researching: Vila Franca, Ponta Garca, Ribeira Quente, Ribeira das 
>>> Tainhas, Achada
>>>
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