Actually my wife and I separated, went through the Year, divorced and two years
later re-married. Other than that "respondent remarketh not".
Regards,
Scott
Loïc ROYER <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dear Scott,
Have you ever felt in love? and have you ever been married?!
I can assure you that the "repugnance" for your wife will quickly grow-up if
you just feel boried and because she will become the every-day obstacle to your
life!
Personaly I have never felt this "repugnance" toward my ex-wife. I always
respect and appreciate her. but when I realized I was in love with someone else
(and not just for a temporary pleasure time) I have prefered to talk with her
about this. She is not baha'i but in fact it took us more than 2 years before
deciding to divorce.
Waiting for this "repugnance" between wife and husband look to me the worst
way to divorce.
I clearly believe we have to think well before to get married, because it's
for our whole life. but if it appears we have made a mistake, the divorce is a
possibility given to arrange things for both, and I don't think we have to wait
to feel "repugnance" one for the other...
Loïc
----- Original Message -----
From: Scott Saylors
To: Baha'i Studies
Sent: Sunday, January 07, 2007 7:38 PM
Subject: Re: Year of patience
Loïc ROYER <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Dear Scott,
I didn't thought about this, but it looks very important indeed.
but once the separation is effective, and one or the other is in love with
someone else, the dignity of both is lost...
So I believe this is one more reason to consider that regarding the year of
patience, soonest is the best!
Loïc
By BOTH parties observing the year, regardless of the cause of the
separation, dignity is preserved. I would note also that the only real reason
for divorce is feeling 'repugnance' toward one's partner. If the repugnance is
only because one 'loves someone else', is that valid? (n a Bahai sense).
Regards,
Scott
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