Pak Rudy,
Kasus Istri Bapak sama dengan saya. Sekarang saya sedang mengandung anak
ke-2 (sudah bulan kedelapan), ketika hamil anak ke-2 ini, anak pertama saya
umur 9 bulan, dan saya melahirkan caesar. Waktu anak pertama, wah...masalah
seru....saya keram usus (jadi setiap pagi dari jam 5.00 sampai sekita jam
8.00 atau 9.00 saya kesakitan luarbiasa,...terus penyakit maag saya kumat,
dan sangat parah....bayangin Pak betapa menderitanya saya.....dan semuanya
berhenti ketika usia kandungan masuk umur 6 bulan. Nah...waktu saya hamil
lagi anak kedua ini...saya sudah stress dulu...saya pikir pasti saya akan
menderita seperti dulu. Tapi ternyata nggak sama sekali. Waktu saya periksa,
dokter mengatakan kondisi rahim saya baik (walaupun habis caesar), dan
kondisi janin saya juga baik. Tapi memang kemungkinan besar akan melahirkan
dengan caesar juga.
Pak prinsip saya, anak itu adalah Berkat Tuhan yang sangat luar biasa.
Jangan sekali-kali kepikir untuk di buang. Itu nyawa lho, Pak....Nyawa yang
sangat berharga di mata Tuhan (mungkin Pak Rudy pernah membaca artiket ttn
Arbosi yang pernah muncul di mailing list Balita-anda ini). Coba Bapak
periksa ke Dokter dgn seksama, dan Istri Bapak menjalani kehamilan ini degan
hati-hati serta bersandar dan berserah pada Tuhan, saya percaya....Tuhan
akan memberkati kehamilan istri Bapak.
Salam buat istri Bapak.
Mamanya Arya.
-----Original Message-----
From: Rudy Munadi [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: 16 Agustus 2000 11:30
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: [balita-anda] Tanya dong
terima kasih atas saran dan masukannya
tapi bagaimana dengan tingkat keselamatan ibu..?
soalnya hamil pertama istri saya masuk rumah satkit 1 minggu
karena muntah2
tetapi yang kedua kayaknya kandungannya rada kuat ( tidak
muntah muntah).
apakah lebih baik dilanjutkan atau tidak..?
dimana keluarga istri saya minta di buang sedangkan saya
maunya
diteruskan,mangkanya saya mengumpulkan data untuk
menjelaskan ke ortu istri
saya supaya mereka mengerti..tapi disisi lain saya sendiri
jadi bingung
sekarang antara lanjut atau tidak....
tapi biar bagaiman saya ucapkan terima kasih atas semua
masukkannya
-----Original Message-----
From: mamanya Dafi [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: 16 Agustus 2000 7:21
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [balita-anda] Tanya dong
Pak Rudi,
Meskipun menurut dokter saya seseorang bisa hamil lagi
setelah 6 bulan operasi caesar, namun penentuan jarak
kelahiran juga dipengaruhi faktor lain yaitu kondisi
kesehatan dan kondisi alat-alat reproduksi wanita.
Berikut cuplikan artikelnya.
When is the best time to have another?
For many people the decision to have another child is
more about when than whether. And plenty wonder if
there's an ideal spacing between children - for
the adults and the kids. The big question: Is it best
to have children one right after the other so they can
play together and you can get all your child rearing
done in the shortest time, or is it better to put some
distance between the kids?
Researchers have tried to tackle this question, and
while they can't say definitively that every woman
should wait two to three years between births,
many of the studies do settle roughly on that time
frame. And so do most families. According to the Alan
Guttmacher Institute, the average interval
between first and second births is about 30 months for
American women.
Here's a rundown of the studies on ideal baby spacing:
* Waiting 18 to 23 months after the birth of your last
child before conceiving another seems best for the new
baby's health, according to a recent study published
in the New England Journal of Medicine. Doctors found
that babies conceived less than six months after the
birth of a previous child are 40 percent more likely
to be born prematurely or underweight. And those
conceived more than 10 years after their closest
sibling face about double the risk of preterm birth.
* A similar study at the University of California in
San Francisco found that the ideal interval between
babies is 24 to 35 months. Babies conceived sooner had
a higher incidence of low birth weight. Doctors
suspect a mother's body may need that time to recover
from the stress and replenish all the nutrients she
lost as a result of the first pregnancy.
* When your first is under 1 year or over 4 years is
the ideal time in terms of the children's
relationships with their parents, sibling rivalry, and
their own
self-esteem, according to Jeannie Kidwell, a professor
of family studies at the University of Tennessee in
Knoxville. She believes children under one don't
have a sense of their special status yet, and that
those over four have had enough time to enjoy
attention from Mommy and Daddy, plus they now have a
life of their own.
What should I consider when making the decision?
Science doesn't dictate all the choices we make, of
course, especially the ones that involve love and
desire. So here are some other issues to take into
consideration as you wrestle with the idea of
welcoming another baby into your family.
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--- Rudy Munadi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Sebenernya jarak terbaik dari seorang ibu melahirkan
> kembali ( lahir sectio
> ) berapa bulang yach...
> saya mau tanya jika baru 10 bulan (anak saya ) dan
> ibunya sekarang hamil
> satu bulan apakah beresiko tinggi..?
> tolong dong yang punya pengalaman atau yang tau
> artikel atau makalah di
> informasikan ke saya
> thanks
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