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Message for the day 11-11-2011
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The one who is constantly spreading the fragrance of virtues is a spiritual
rose.
Expression: When I am able to keep myself connected with my specialities,
I am able to experience the inner beauty. Like a rose,
I keep spreading the fragrance of my virtues to all I come into
contact with. So I am also able to get the love, good feelings and
good wishes from everyone, thus enriching my own life.
Experience: When I have the consciousness of being a trustee, I am able
to look within and get in touch with my own internal treasures. It
gives me the consciousness of having respect for myself without
developing any ego. I have no negative feelings both when these
treasures are not used or when situations demand more than what I
feel I have.
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Soul Sustenance 11-11-2011
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Anger Management And Prevention
How often has your anger ever made any positive difference to situations?
Probably never.
Have you ever noticed that when you get angry with someone it seems
to push them away, they go into hiding, they go underground, and then it’s
not possible to influence them and help them to change.
Then some people think, that if you don’t get angry about anything and with
anyone you might as well lie down and be a doormat, one on which
anyone can walk over. Well you could if you think doormat is a role
you would like to play, but it’s not compulsory. You could be
assertive (confidently aggressive in a positive sense or
self-assured) instead of angry. You are fortunate to have an intellect that
knows the way to differentiate between right and wrong, you are
human so you have the ability to be understanding and compassionate
(merciful), and you have a unique contribution to make to this game
called life. So why not ‘do something’ to help situations become
better by applying the qualities of generosity, kindness and mercy
instead of becoming angry? If you care about the situation so much what are
you waiting for? Trouble is, the angry person is a bit like the
‘compulsive complainer’ about situations. If you complain (get
upset) about situations it means you have an image of how you would
prefer things to be but you are not prepared to actually do
something about it.
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