Mike, 

Thanks for your thoughts on this.  As it happens, I agree with you.  
Unfortunately, our baby is going to be having a cochlear
  implant put in very soon.  Once that is turned on he will need to see his 
audiologist and speech therapist a couple of times a week or more for several 
weeks.  After that he will need to see his therapist once a week and will 
hopefully be unrolled in a pre-school type program to work  on his speech needs 
once a week.  There is no way for me to get him there for those things from the 
city we live in now.  We really needed to be moved already.

  I know I could do an apartment, but with three boys we just do not think it 
is fair to put them all in a small apartment if we do not have to.  A rental 
might be an option, but we have looked at that.  The rentals in that part of 
the city tend to have about a dozen people apply for each one and the owner 
picks the best applicant.  As we applied for two rentals before we figured out 
how to finance a house and did not get them, I am not sure we could even find 
one.

  Anyway, that is all to say that we really do have to move and can not just 
wait around until something better comes up.  We may not get the house we love, 
but it is not near a bus line or even near enough to be in what they call zone 
one of our para transit system.  We can not afford the cab fair that I would 
need to make it to all the stuff i need to get the kids and I out and about.  I 
know myself well enough to know that i would become a hermit as I cut that out 
of the budget everytime something was a little tight.

  So we are going to get a house we like for right now that is near a bus line 
in the part of the city we need to be in.  This will mean my husband will then 
cummute about an hour each way to work every day.  We are already making 
comprimises just by moving to the bigger city.  This is about a place to meet 
all of our needs.  Though I am willing to give up being across the street from 
a bus stop in a great neighborhood that meets all of our needs to not be in a 
house i find to be boring.  Truth to be told, it is the yard.  The back yard is 
on the North side of a two story house and nothing grows back there and I do 
not think it will.  i want to grow tomatoes and stuff in my yard.  Apparently 
other people find the same kind of problems with this house as it has been on 
the market for several months.


  Jennifer


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