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From: "Dan Minette" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Brin-L" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Thursday, March 28, 2002 10:28 PM
Subject: Re: Civility request


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> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "Brin-L" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Thursday, March 28, 2002 10:13 PM
> Subject: Re: Civility request
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> > << f*** usually referrs to the forceable taking of someone sexually.
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> >
> >
> > Nooooo..."rape" refers to forcibly having sex with someone. The "f" word
> just
> > means having sex. No force implied.
> >
>
> So, you are saying that if a guy yells "f" you, after someone cuts him off
> in traffic, he is indicating his desire to make love to the other driver?
> Maybe force isn't indicated, but hostility is certainly implied.

You are applying context incorrectly here. F*** as an expletive has a broad
number of connotations (including hostility) that have nothing to do with
sex except in a mildly symbolic way. I dont actually imagine being sodomized
every time I hear the word directed at me aggressively.


> For
> example, take the difference between I'd love to make love to you, my love
> and "I'm gonna f*** u b****.  Which, BTW, is an indication of the
> degradation of attitudes toward women expressed in MoTown and hip hop.
>

Making love implies exactly that, an act of love. F***ing is sex, plain old
"I'm horny and I need some release" sex. You can pile other implications on
top of it, but they do have to be added.
Context is everything with the word F***.

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