"Baardwijk, J. van DTO/SLWPD/RZO/BOZO" wrote:
>
> > -----Oorspronkelijk bericht-----
> > Van: Alberto Monteiro [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> > Verzonden: donderdag 30 mei 2002 14:31
> > Aan: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Onderwerp: Re: and so it goes...
>
> > >Mark can be proud of himself: he managed to drive at least three
> > >people away with his misbehaviour (AFAIK, only one other member ever
> > >managed to accomplish that). That is, we *know* of three people who
> > >left -- we do not know how many lurkers also decided to leave because
> > >of Mark's misbehaviour.
> > >
> > Can I sense some kind of _envy_ here? IIRC, _you_ had also made some
> > listmembers leave, and so did JDG.
>
> I did? Who exactly left because of me? I do not remember anyone saying that
> he/she left because of me -- which is something I cannot say about JDG.
I would really rather not see any more "X made Y leave!" stuff posted by
anyone other than the one who left/is leaving. If anyone wants to make
"X made me leave!" their parting shot, that's their business, but the
accusations of past actions are getting tiresome. If you want to
continue, go ahead, but I'll be less likely to feel any sympathy on any
other complaints by those continuing on this subject.
No one "makes" anyone leave. The decision to leave is ultimately made
by the one leaving (or is made for them by outside circumstances). I'm
sad to see people leave, and I'm sadder to see people leave because they
can't deal with a certain person and they can't for some reason ignore
him (or her), but I don't go around screaming at the supposed irritant
about it, and I wish that other people would refrain from doing so as
well.
Julia
