In a message dated 6/12/2009 3:14:51 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [email protected] writes:
In our world there are 2 categories of individual: 1-A category of individual to make its name by crushing and lower to those around him to help him appear instead to recognize the efforts of others, instead of investing and make real sacrifices for the build it. One important way to appear quickly without too much effort. An individual is not a "thing" nor an "animal", so using "its" is not proper to describe him or her. Nevertheless, I agree with your statement that one should not try to pull others down in order to become the champion; especially the leader of a political party should not have to oppress his/her members or lie to them so that he can stay in power forever. Some political leaders are so sensitive to critics and paranoid; any suggestions or critics to challenge his leadership will be met with reprisals. That is not acceptable. No followers would stick with that kind of leaders forever. ======= 2 - Another category are those who invest, makes more of sacrifice concentrate his efforts to support and encourage those around them to participate for a common goal. Building on a solid foundation is a slower but more secure. It is a good theory. However, investing in an organization that look like "Swiss cheese" is not practical and self-destructive. Good products tend to have good reputation and dominate the marketplace; organizations that sell bad products will be bankrupted or swallowed by the better ones. ======== I hope that when this statement was presented, Sanando is not quite healthy, if so, Sanando should proudly present his excuses in public. If not, the 1st category of individuals seems compatible with his profile, and in addition, he is a person who simply misunderstanding, irresponsible acts assess without knowing the consequence of his act, the statement discussed in this forum will give more credit to those who are in the process of destroying our nation by trying to deny freedom and the right to speak of our people including Sanando himself. I would not worry about what Mr. Sonando said or how he said it. But, I would worry about "the truth" in what he had to say. I doubt that he was "not healthy" when he made the statements. I thought he spoke his mind and really meant it. He must stand behind his statements and if it was not true then SRP had nothing to worry about. Keep on doing the same thing but don't expect to yield any different results. Note that I have no difficulty to see constructive criticism, which are present in order to make correction for our common good. But, I don't think that it's intelligent to present the criticism pretending a frank one then use it to attack anyone, at any time and under any circumstance. An intelligent and responsible person, must be able to assess the consequence of his act. Best Regards, Sokha Ly It also depends on the attitude of the individuals who are being criticized. Some look for the positive side of the criticisms and "respond" accordingly; others have their mind closed and "react". 2009/6/11 Kunthara Teav <[email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) > Hi Pretty, The best thing for SRP just ignore and count Mr Sonando as an old confusing man he get lost by his frustration don't know what to do and where to go. Best regards, Thara Teav --- On Thu, 6/11/09, [email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) <[email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) > wrote: From: [email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) <[email protected]> Subject: Fwd: [SAMRAINSYPARTY-For] My Analysis on Mr. Man Sonando To: [email protected]_ (mailto:[email protected]) Date: Thursday, June 11, 2009, 3:48 AM - From: PrettyMa <_pretty.ma_ (http://pretty.ma/) @_sympatico.ca_ (http://sympatico.ca/) > Subject: [SAMRAINSYPARTY-For] My Analysis on Mr. Man Sonando To: [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) Cc: "Sichantha Ouk" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , "Mong Heng" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, "Lyaun Hay" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, "Ros Lida" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , "Bolin Davith" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, "BUNKORN YUN" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/m%20c/[email protected]) , "polo chun" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, "Naline Pea" <[email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) >, [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) , [email protected]_ (http://us.mc1100.mail.yahoo.com/mc/[email protected]) Date: Wednesday, June 10, 2009, 10:52 AM Dear Colleagues & Friends, I could not believe what I was listening to Mr. Mam Sonando last Monday night, June 8, 2009. It was shocking to hear such a vicious personal attack against the Right Honourable Sam Rainsy and the party by a man whom I thought to be somewhat patriotic. I was once thought of him rather highly, although I never really get a chance to meet or hear him. He disappointed me big time. What is he trying achieve in using his broadcasting facility to blitz attacks on the official opposition when the country is in need of one? In the interest of whom or what parties he was trying to do? Mr. Sonando's choices of words were really poor and sounded childish at time. He pretended to be intelligent, a lot more than Sam Rainsy as he called our leader "Akvichea" (uneducated). As his personal attack went on you began to realize how shallow his arguments were, unsupportable, short-sighted, and they showed his tremendous lack of judgment and ability to think critically on issue as complex as Cambodian politics. He did not understood the failure of some major parties that came before Sam Rainsy, including many over the years. Who and what parties benefit most from this attack on SRP? And is that part of overall solutions he wanted to offer country on what he proclaimed to be a winning solution? When the country is in dire need of a unifying nationalisitic forces, he chose to do the opposite. It is mind boggling. What he was offering to the listeners was something more like Alice from the Wonderland - rosy, uncomplecated, matters that he think he can solve by bringing all little parties into one. Just like that, done. He didn't understand the human behavioural aspect to the game, including all the leaders/players involved. He overlooked importan factor such as the disappearance of KNLP, or the broken Funcinpec/Rannaridh party which almost got wiped out from past election. Did he ever understand that there are men who think less of the nation, but only thirst for personal power and a quick rich scheme? Just look around he will find plenty, including some who has gone into retirement, already. Furthermore, he forgot that the CPP is loaded with cash, tree's money, donours, loans, crooked businessmen, radios, TVs, so the playing field is not at the same level. We managed to do do well despite all the odds stacked up against us, included impulsive yet unrealistic mindede people like Mr. Mam. As for the 50+1 formula, he could have better understood the significant of that strategy going forward. He should dig deep into the roots of the Cambodian political problems, understood the players's characters and their past and present behaviours. The jiggling for position, posts, re-alignment here and there not on principles or values, but on personal gain. Let's look at all the mess our country has been in since a coalition gov't was created, Funcinpec/CPP, and what exactly good came out of their perfect marriage? Look at the last general election, the marriage still stand despite of all the up and down between the two. Without the 50+1 formula, you can be sure that CPP and Funcinpec will continue to loot the country for ever. He could have seen that coming easily. Another missing fact. But now, the country has a real choice. It is down to two formidable parties. For the first time, we provide Cambodia and our people a real alternative to the CPP-ruling party. As for Mr. Mam, he should embrace this concept with a nationalistic sense of urgency by being a REALIST, not by trying to destroy a credible party which has built itself successfully over the span of 15 years or so. It takes time to plant, water and grow - to build trust and to know who your friends are. We have grown and continue to grow despite the fact that many circumstances set against us. We ran against a big money vote-buying machine, the CPP. What Mr. Mam Sonando should be doing in his capacity is to use his talent and his supposedly love for the country to help enhancing people's knowledge and understanding of how democracy works in practicality, in a country such as America or Canada. He should encourage people to think of how a system of check-an-balance works, and what people need to do or reflect in order to improve or having one. He should talk about getting people involved in the political process and how to go about doing it. He can not dream of having a democracy like USA when he did not understand the fact that Cambodia is not USA, nor the process of democracy has taken roots as yet. He should be realistic and be more thoughtful by help encouraging all the tiny disgruntle parties to rally behind a us in order to grow and win together, to offset the balance of power and to keep democracy moving forward from where it was and what it is now. He should not use his personal forum and radio station to attack an nationalist force and in this case a very formidable and yet official opposition party. In my opinion, he did not do himself, nor his countrymen any favour by being unti-nationalists when the country is in need of a stronger opposition to the current regime. Unfortunately, since he is and never has been a leader of any political party, it is understandable for the way he argued his case. However, one fine day in hindsight he will get to appreciate what this party has done, what it stands for and what it aims to achieve in its quest for forever justice, freedoms and liberty for all Cambodians, inside as well as abroad. As long as people like Mr. Mam Sonando continues to be unrealistic of their view and political practices, then the road to freedoms and democratic reforms will be somewhat hindered than we would actually like to see. But, we will move on as a movement of hope and change. I wish that our dear Mam Sonando remains neutral, politically realistic and engage in a forum of more or less unifying, not the way he conducted himself on the air on that Monday. He is more than a man to many ordinary Cambodians, and I do wish to see him stay above his poor phrases and judgment for the betterment of all people, including Mr. Mam Sonando, himself. I still hope. Truly Yours, Pretty ____________________________________ Make your summer sizzle with _fast and easy recipes_ (http://food.aol.com/grilling?ncid=emlcntusfood00000003) for the grill. **************Download the AOL Classifieds Toolbar for local deals at your fingertips. 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