You are doing the same thing here. Don't accuse others while you are
doing the same thing.
Read your writing.


On Jan 23, 9:09 am, sophan <[email protected]> wrote:
> Dear Everyone;
>
> I don't understand why there are endless arguments and privacy attacks
> in here by our Khmer compatriots who have used their anonymous
> nickname such as thisbugone, heng sombath, pierre hendri etc. If I was
> not wrong, Rattanakiri is Dr. Narrankiri Tith (but please correct me).
> My letter to the Phnom Penh Post is not about my dorm stay or personal/
> private life. It is about part of my opinion to fully exercise our
> citizen rights and freedom of expression in a democratic nation. The
> letters are also filtered and edited by the PPP before they were
> published. Why do they choose this private life to argue here? Is it
> called privacy attacking or knowledge improvement? I want to see any
> possible approaches which we (Khmers) can bring productive outcomes to
> our community and nation rather than malicious speech.
>
> Otherwise, if someone wants to know what is exactly operating inside
> the dorm please click this 
> link:http://www.eastwestcenter.org/about-ewc/housing/student-housing/
> and don't forget to read the "Resident Conduct Code". Look at the
> picture and the room inside this 
> link:http://www.eastwestcenter.org/about-ewc/housing/housing-facilities/
> There are 12 floors. The 9th and 10th floor is for male students only,
> and the 5th and 6th floor for female only. The rests are for mix and
> couples. When I was a monk, I stayed in the 9th floor. During that
> time, many Cambodian-Americans living in Hawaii took turn to bring
> food and pacchai boun (four necessities) to offer to me almost every
> week. I am really grateful and appreciate with their Saddha
> (dedication) and Panna (wisdom) in Buddhism.
>
> Overall, I am appreciate and grateful with everyone who have expressed
> concerns about me in both personal life and academic study.
>
> Sincerely,
>
> Sophan
>
> On Jan 23, 8:54 am, Pierre Henri de Poipet <[email protected]>
> wrote:
>
>
>
> > It's not fine for monks to live in the dorm with females, only for normal 
> > guys like us.
> > How can we party, listen to AC/DC, drink Bud, smoke, watch porn and eat 
> > dinner or score if monks are around ?
>
> > Joe, from Poipet
>
> > ________________________________
> > De : thisbugone <[email protected]>
> > À : [email protected]
> > Envoyé le : Ven 22 Janvier 2010, 16 h 57 min 45 s
> > Objet : Re: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post
>
> > Off campus housing is not the same as the dorm.  What kind of pills are you 
> > taking while writing the email below?  If one chose to be a monk one must 
> > follows by its religion.  
>
> > On Thu, Jan 21, 2010 at 8:55 PM, rattanakiri <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> >  I went to college once. I know these co-ed international student dorms are 
> > like an apartment building. Everyone has his or her own room. This is far 
> > from what you have implied. Even if he decided to live off campus, it is 
> > the same setting. Each apartment complex is going to females and males 
> > residence. Where do you think he should stay? Freshmen dorm?
>
> > >>Heng Sombat wrote:
>
> > >>>Hey Rattankiri,
>
> > >>>>You miss the whole picture here.   Monks are subjected to be a pure 
> > >>>>person
> > >>>>that we all respect and trust during his period of serving his monkship
> > >>>>regardless young or old.  If you claim that it is fine for a monk to 
> > >>>>live in
> > >>>>the same dorm with female(s), I must say that you have lost track and 
> > >>>>you do
> > >>>>not have any believes in Buddhism.  Or you are pretending to be 
> > >>>>Buddhism. Or
> > >>>>you are an idiot just like what "thisbugone" said.  Please check with 
> > >>>>your
> > >>>>parents about Buddhism before you response.
>
> > >>>>Sombat
>
> > >>>>-----Original Message-----
> > >>>>From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On 
> > >>>>Behalf
> > >>>>Of thisbugone
> > >>>>Sent: Saturday, January 16, 2010 11:23 AM
> > >>>>To: [email protected]
> > >>>>Subject: Re: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post
>
> > >>>>Monk and women can stay together lol. You must be an idiot!
>
> > >>>>On Saturday, January 16, 2010, rattanakiri <[email protected]> 
> > >>>>wrote:
>
> > >>>>>Some people may not realize it but speak ill of someone including 
> > >>>>>making a
>
> > >>harsh and quick judgement unfairly on someone is unbecoming a buddisht.  
> > >>Remember, Buddha teaching speak rightly only.
>
> > >>>>>In a poor country like Cambodia, monastery life is a way out of poverty
>
> > >>and a chance for a proper education.  In fact, many celebrated Khmer 
> > >>leaders
> > >>>>and scholars owed their career to their days in as a monk.  I think not 
> > >>>>any
> > >>>>Cambodians would  be shocked if a monk rejoins his civilian life. 
> > >>>>Cambodian
> > >>>>buddhists offer money, food to monks in order to receive good karma,
> > >>>>blessing.  Should the monks refund the money, foods back if he returns 
> > >>>>to
> > >>>>civilian life.  Would you expect the monk perform a return of good 
> > >>>>karma,
> > >>>>blessing back to heaven from those people?  Give me a break.
>
> > >>>>>Savouth Chea wrote:
>
> > >>>>>>Aloha,
>
> > >>>>>>As a resident of Hawaii, which Sophan Seng claims he represents, I 
> > >>>>>>wanted
>
> > >>to share my observations, thoughts, and also questions about his motives.
> > >>>> Unfortunately, I didn't like what I saw of him, and I only foresee 
> > >>>> further
> > >>>>disruption.
>
> > >>>>>Sophan Seng came to Hawaii to further his education back in 2006.  The
>
> > >>first time he set foot in Hawaii, I introduced him to some Cambodian
> > >>>>community members since he was a Khmer new  to the island.  Some knew 
> > >>>>his
> > >>>>background from the past and had their opinions (good but mostly bad), 
> > >>>>but I
> > >>>>tried not to take people's word for it.  As months progressed, however, 
> > >>>>I
> > >>>>came to see that the warnings I had heard were true.  First, he used the
> > >>>>Buddhist religion to advance himself rather than becoming a monk 
> > >>>>selflessly
> > >>>>in dedication to Buddha.  How do I know this?  While attending the
> > >>>>University of Hawaii, he lived in a co-educational dormitory.  One may 
> > >>>>think
> > >>>>this is not a big deal nowadays, but should a monk put himself in the
> > >>>>company and living quarters of females?  Is this appropriate?   He often
> > >>>>flirted with young female members of our community and made 
> > >>>>inappropriate
> > >>>>comments - causing some of our youth and their parents to become very 
> > >>>>upset!
> > >>>> He was affiliated with a so-called ‘temple’ in Hawaii, and performed
> > >>>>Buddhist ceremonies.  That was reasonable because he was a monk, right? 
> > >>>> But
> > >>>>in 2009, he visited Cambodia from Hawaii, ostensibly still a monk, but 
> > >>>>came
> > >>>>back to the United States only a couple of months later with a wife!  
> > >>>>Prior
> > >>>>to his trip back to Cambodia, he told members of the community in Hawaii
> > >>>>that he was going there to represent and gain support for the temple 
> > >>>>and the
> > >>>>Buddhist religion.  The ‘temple committee’ gave him $400, and some
> > >>>>individual people also gave him money, since he was a monk and/or 
> > >>>>student.
> > >>>> Poor him, right?  When  he came back with a wife, people were shocked. 
> > >>>>  Did
> > >>>>he care?  Apparently not.  He did not attempt to explain himself nor
> > >>>>apologize for using the monies to go back to Cambodia to get married.  
> > >>>>No,
> > >>>>he used religion for personal gain.  Sad but true.
>
> > >>>>>To people that do not know him, Sophan Seng represents himself as a
>
> > >>‘community facilitator.’  To be a facilitator, ideally one has to be
> > >>>>neutral, or at least try to maintain neutrality.  Instead,  he openly
> > >>>>expresses his opinion about Cambodian politics.  In fact, even as a 
> > >>>>monk,
> > >>>>whose studies are supposed to focus on learning and internalizing 
> > >>>>Buddhist
> > >>>>principles and the path to peace, he chose to pursue a degree in 
> > >>>>/political
> > >>>>science/.   Most if not all of the articles he has written to the Phnom 
> > >>>>Penh
> > >>>>Post (PPP) discuss politics.  At the close of each of his articles, he
> > >>>>signed "Sophan Seng, University Hawaii at Manoa, United States," or
> > >>>>"Cambodian Students of Aloha" (the University's student organization).  
> > >>>> This might indicate that his opinions echo those of other Khmer at the
> > >>>>University of Hawaii.  They do not.   Again, he is not representing the
> > >>>>university, Khmer in Hawaii, or the United States of America.  He used 
> > >>>>these
> > >>>>closures to make himself look good with outside parties.  Not all Khmer 
> > >>>>in
> > >>>>Hawaii (or elsewhere in the United States) agree with him.
>
> > >>>>>In his previous correspondence, Sophan stated, “If you want to know me
>
> > >>more, go to these links.”  The links he provided,
> > >>http://www2.hawaii.edu/~csaloha/officers.html
> > >>>><http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html> and
> > >>http://www2.hawaii.edu/~sophan/<http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Esophan/>, are
> > >>>>links that were self-created  -- using the university- related resources
> > >>>>(originally created for the use of the student group as a whole) for
> > >>>>personal gain, again.  Was the information he put on the site  approved 
> > >>>>by
> > >>>>the majority of the students in the organization?  Has anyone else
> > >>>>affiliated with the CSAloha used this site for personal boasting?  No.  
> > >>>>Not
> > >>>>even the founders, myself or Mr. Chanthoeun To, ever considered using 
> > >>>>this
> > >>>>site to toot our own horns.  The purpose of CSAloha, ‘…does not 
> > >>>>represent
> > >>>>any political or religious ideologies both on/off campus.’  Yet he used 
> > >>>>the
> > >>>>university-based name/group to send articles about politics to PPP and 
> > >>>>other
> > >>>>media.  Like Mr. Heng Sombat mentioned in his email, ‘He just wanted his
> > >>>>name to be read in Phnom Penh Post.’
>
> > >>>>>Most of the articles he wrote to the PPP from Hawaii attacked the 
> > >>>>>current
>
> > >>Cambodian government and sided with opposition political parties.  Hmmm . 
> > >>.
> > >>>>. Sophan, when you were in Cambodia, did you write any articles to the 
> > >>>>PPP?
> > >>>> Or did you simply enjoy yourself there and then come back to the 
> > >>>> safety of
> > >>>>the U.S. to criticize Cambodia?  Why attack the government of your own
> > >>>>country?  Do you just use your country for personal gain as well?  
> > >>>>Samdech
> > >>>>Hun Sen has been a Prime Minister for years.  He
>
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