Dear Lauk Kru Gaffar:

I would like to thank you  for sharing such an important expression about
our
Khmer folk tales.  Although the society has set a certain standard for us
all to
follow, however most important keys to a healthy living is to keeping
conversation
simple and stay positive. Here are some of my healthy habits that I had
shared with my
friends and families.

Praying for someone
Forgiving everyone
Rejoicing in the midst of the storm
Uplifting a friend
Encouraging a sister, a brother
Respecting everyone
Repenting daily
Volunteering to help someone
Loving yourself and others

Thank you with my warmest regards,

//Perom


On Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 1:23 PM, PuppyXpress <[email protected]> wrote:

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> From: Gaffar Peang-Meth <[email protected]>
> Date: Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 11:11 AM
> Subject: Folk tales fostered Khmer revolt
> To:
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> *PACIFIC DAILY NEWS
> * June 2, 2010
>
> *Folk tales fostered Khmer revolt
> *
> By A. Gaffar Peang-Meth
>
> My columns on culturally embedded behaviors common among the Khmers have
> led some readers to react spontaneously to comments they see as an attack.
>
> But a considered analysis is distinct from an attack, which many have
> appreciated. A Western reader thinks I have dealt with an aspect relevant to
> the situation in which Cambodia finds herself. And so I will expand a bit on
> the same topic today.
>
> Once a regionally powerful empire, the Khmer Empire of Angkor collapsed in
> 1434, its royal capital sacked in 1431 by neighboring Ayudhya to the West.
> Khmer kings moved the capital between Chaktomuk (the "Four Faces" in Phnom
> Penh) and Longvek, aka Lovek, and Oudong until 1866, when King Norodom moved
> his royal court back to Chaktomuk.
>
> When the French colonialists arrived in 1882, Khmer elitist conservatives
> already produced poems, advice and codes of behavior, teaching respect for
> customs, traditions, the establishment and authority.
>
> Years of teaching thus molded ways of thought and a culture that rewards
> unconditional respect, obedience, loyalty and embedded acceptance of
> leader-follower, superior-inferior, patron-client relationships.
>
> Unlike the French revolutionaries, who turned radical and brought down the
> French traditions and institutions, the Khmer revolt took the form of
> amusing folk tales -- revolutionary, as they belittle wealthy aristocrats,
> palace officials, the king, the Buddhist monks; and popular, as they appeal
> to the sentiments and touch the hearts of the people, then and now.
>
> In the folk stories, two insolent boys, A Chey and A Lev, from poor
> families, ride roughshod over the old world, represented by elitist codes of
> behavior called "Chbab Kram," or "Codes of Civility"; "Chbab Srey," or
> "Codes of Conduct for Women"; and "Chbab Koeng Kantrai," that makes the king
> the final and supreme judge. The boys are abetted by "Sophea Tunsay," the
> "Wise Rabbit," wicked, cunning, deceptive, witty and tricky, who acts as
> judge.
>
> A Chey's antics were more sophisticated than A Lev's. A Lev and Sophea
> Tunsay had no scruples about how to attain an end, using wiles and street
> smarts. Here are some excerpts from the tales.
>
>
> To gain revenge against a wealthy aristocrat, the Sethi, whom A Chey
> thought had duped him to choose a flat-bottomed, large basket over a deep,
> smaller basket containing more pulverized rice grains, A Chey begged his
> mother to borrow money from the Sethi and offer him as the Sethi's servant.
> Armed with Buddhist-instilled demeanor -- respectful, acquiescent and
> responsive -- A Chey shamed the Sethi at every turn and nearly bankrupted
> him, materially and mentally.
>
> To the instruction to talk softly, A Chey moved his lips, making
> incomprehensible sounds when he alerting the Sethi his house caught fire; he
> made a fortune betting with palace officials that he could order the king to
> do what he wanted: He begged the king to turn his head just a little and the
> king did. A Chey bet that the king's order forbidding him from entering the
> palace would be reversed: He insulted the Head Buddhist Monk entering the
> palace and the Monk, furious, petitioned the king, who ordered A Chey be
> brought into the palace for questioning.
>
> The unethical A Lev found customs and traditions of no value and sought all
> means to justify the ends. He wanted a wife, so he kidnapped one. He told
> her a marriage proposal takes long, may or may not be accepted, which is a
> waste of time. Elope now, have a traditional wedding later!
>
> In love with an aristocrat's daughter, he concocted an elaborate scheme
> through lies and deception until the aristocrat gave his daughter as A Lev's
> wife.
>
> A Lev desecrated Buddhism. He corrupted a monk by instilling sexual desire
> into the monk and told a neighbor he can find him a woman for a fee. A Lev
> then arranged for the monk and the neighbor, each with their heads covered
> with a cloth, to meet on a dark night, then blackmailed the monk for money.
>
> The rabbit? He played dead in the path of an old woman carrying a basket of
> bananas on her head. Thinking it was her luck to have a rabbit for dinner,
> she picked him up and tossed him into the basket. The rabbit ate his fill
> and jumped off.
>
> A judge rabbit? A crocodile crawled on a path from a dried-up lake, looking
> for a new place with water. He begged an old man driving an ox-cart to
> transport him. Afraid of falling off, he asked the man to tie him to the
> cart. Reaching a lake with water, the crocodile, who hadn't eaten for days,
> demanded the man's ox as the price for tying him too tightly, causing him
> pain. Frightened, the old man proposed to find a judge, for he had done no
> harm to the crocodile.
>
> Bananas in hand, the old man went crying, looking for a judge. A rabbit saw
> the bananas, a conversation ensued and the rabbit agreed to act as judge.
>
> Back at the ox-cart, where the crocodile was waiting, the rabbit asked the
> man and the crocodile to re-enact the scene. After the old man tied the
> crocodile to the cart and the crocodile could no longer move, judge rabbit
> told the man to hack up the ungrateful crocodile for food.
>
> Today's Khmer customs view a rabbit as deceptive, tricky and untrustworthy,
> and a crocodile as ungrateful.
>
> So, the Khmer elitist literature teaches codes of behavior, respect,
> obedience and loyalty; the popular folk tales tell the opposite. A dichotomy
> of personalities emerges: Respectful, obedient, loyal as society requires,
> while A Chey, A Lev and Sophea Tunsay hunker down and wait to surface.
>
> *A. Gaffar Peang-Meth, Ph.D., is retired from the University of Guam,
> where he taught political science for 13 years. Write him at **
> [email protected]* <[email protected]>
>
>
> http://www.guampdn.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/201006020300/OPINION02/6020327
>
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