Thank you so much, Lok Kru.

//Perom

On Wed, Jun 2, 2010 at 4:36 AM, Gaffar Peang-Meth <[email protected]>wrote:

>
> Dear Lok Perom: Just an attempt to provoke thought. Regards, Gaffar
>
>
>  On Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 7:52 PM, Perom Uch 
> <[email protected]>wrote:
>
>> Dear Lauk Kru Gaffar:
>>
>> I would like to thank you  for sharing such an important expression about
>> our
>> Khmer folk tales.  Although the society has set a certain standard for us
>> all to
>> follow, however most important keys to a healthy living is to keeping
>> conversation
>> simple and stay positive. Here are some of my healthy habits that I had
>> shared with my
>> friends and families.
>>
>> Praying for someone
>> Forgiving everyone
>> Rejoicing in the midst of the storm
>> Uplifting a friend
>> Encouraging a sister, a brother
>> Respecting everyone
>> Repenting daily
>> Volunteering to help someone
>> Loving yourself and others
>>
>> Thank you with my warmest regards,
>>
>> //Perom
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 1:23 PM, PuppyXpress <[email protected]> wrote:
>>
>>>
>>>
>>>  ---------- Forwarded message ----------
>>> From: Gaffar Peang-Meth <[email protected]>
>>> Date: Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 11:11 AM
>>> Subject: Folk tales fostered Khmer revolt
>>> To:
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> *PACIFIC DAILY NEWS
>>> * June 2, 2010
>>>
>>> *Folk tales fostered Khmer revolt
>>> *
>>> By A. Gaffar Peang-Meth
>>>
>>> My columns on culturally embedded behaviors common among the Khmers have
>>> led some readers to react spontaneously to comments they see as an attack.
>>>
>>> But a considered analysis is distinct from an attack, which many have
>>> appreciated. A Western reader thinks I have dealt with an aspect relevant to
>>> the situation in which Cambodia finds herself. And so I will expand a bit on
>>> the same topic today.
>>>
>>> Once a regionally powerful empire, the Khmer Empire of Angkor collapsed
>>> in 1434, its royal capital sacked in 1431 by neighboring Ayudhya to the
>>> West. Khmer kings moved the capital between Chaktomuk (the "Four Faces" in
>>> Phnom Penh) and Longvek, aka Lovek, and Oudong until 1866, when King Norodom
>>> moved his royal court back to Chaktomuk.
>>>
>>> When the French colonialists arrived in 1882, Khmer elitist conservatives
>>> already produced poems, advice and codes of behavior, teaching respect for
>>> customs, traditions, the establishment and authority.
>>>
>>> Years of teaching thus molded ways of thought and a culture that rewards
>>> unconditional respect, obedience, loyalty and embedded acceptance of
>>> leader-follower, superior-inferior, patron-client relationships.
>>>
>>> Unlike the French revolutionaries, who turned radical and brought down
>>> the French traditions and institutions, the Khmer revolt took the form of
>>> amusing folk tales -- revolutionary, as they belittle wealthy aristocrats,
>>> palace officials, the king, the Buddhist monks; and popular, as they appeal
>>> to the sentiments and touch the hearts of the people, then and now.
>>>
>>> In the folk stories, two insolent boys, A Chey and A Lev, from poor
>>> families, ride roughshod over the old world, represented by elitist codes of
>>> behavior called "Chbab Kram," or "Codes of Civility"; "Chbab Srey," or
>>> "Codes of Conduct for Women"; and "Chbab Koeng Kantrai," that makes the king
>>> the final and supreme judge. The boys are abetted by "Sophea Tunsay," the
>>> "Wise Rabbit," wicked, cunning, deceptive, witty and tricky, who acts as
>>> judge.
>>>
>>> A Chey's antics were more sophisticated than A Lev's. A Lev and Sophea
>>> Tunsay had no scruples about how to attain an end, using wiles and street
>>> smarts. Here are some excerpts from the tales.
>>>
>>>
>>> To gain revenge against a wealthy aristocrat, the Sethi, whom A Chey
>>> thought had duped him to choose a flat-bottomed, large basket over a deep,
>>> smaller basket containing more pulverized rice grains, A Chey begged his
>>> mother to borrow money from the Sethi and offer him as the Sethi's servant.
>>> Armed with Buddhist-instilled demeanor -- respectful, acquiescent and
>>> responsive -- A Chey shamed the Sethi at every turn and nearly bankrupted
>>> him, materially and mentally.
>>>
>>> To the instruction to talk softly, A Chey moved his lips, making
>>> incomprehensible sounds when he alerting the Sethi his house caught fire; he
>>> made a fortune betting with palace officials that he could order the king to
>>> do what he wanted: He begged the king to turn his head just a little and the
>>> king did. A Chey bet that the king's order forbidding him from entering the
>>> palace would be reversed: He insulted the Head Buddhist Monk entering the
>>> palace and the Monk, furious, petitioned the king, who ordered A Chey be
>>> brought into the palace for questioning.
>>>
>>> The unethical A Lev found customs and traditions of no value and sought
>>> all means to justify the ends. He wanted a wife, so he kidnapped one. He
>>> told her a marriage proposal takes long, may or may not be accepted, which
>>> is a waste of time. Elope now, have a traditional wedding later!
>>>
>>> In love with an aristocrat's daughter, he concocted an elaborate scheme
>>> through lies and deception until the aristocrat gave his daughter as A Lev's
>>> wife.
>>>
>>> A Lev desecrated Buddhism. He corrupted a monk by instilling sexual
>>> desire into the monk and told a neighbor he can find him a woman for a fee.
>>> A Lev then arranged for the monk and the neighbor, each with their heads
>>> covered with a cloth, to meet on a dark night, then blackmailed the monk for
>>> money.
>>>
>>> The rabbit? He played dead in the path of an old woman carrying a basket
>>> of bananas on her head. Thinking it was her luck to have a rabbit for
>>> dinner, she picked him up and tossed him into the basket. The rabbit ate his
>>> fill and jumped off.
>>>
>>> A judge rabbit? A crocodile crawled on a path from a dried-up lake,
>>> looking for a new place with water. He begged an old man driving an ox-cart
>>> to transport him. Afraid of falling off, he asked the man to tie him to the
>>> cart. Reaching a lake with water, the crocodile, who hadn't eaten for days,
>>> demanded the man's ox as the price for tying him too tightly, causing him
>>> pain. Frightened, the old man proposed to find a judge, for he had done no
>>> harm to the crocodile.
>>>
>>> Bananas in hand, the old man went crying, looking for a judge. A rabbit
>>> saw the bananas, a conversation ensued and the rabbit agreed to act as
>>> judge.
>>>
>>> Back at the ox-cart, where the crocodile was waiting, the rabbit asked
>>> the man and the crocodile to re-enact the scene. After the old man tied the
>>> crocodile to the cart and the crocodile could no longer move, judge rabbit
>>> told the man to hack up the ungrateful crocodile for food.
>>>
>>> Today's Khmer customs view a rabbit as deceptive, tricky and
>>> untrustworthy, and a crocodile as ungrateful.
>>>
>>> So, the Khmer elitist literature teaches codes of behavior, respect,
>>> obedience and loyalty; the popular folk tales tell the opposite. A dichotomy
>>> of personalities emerges: Respectful, obedient, loyal as society requires,
>>> while A Chey, A Lev and Sophea Tunsay hunker down and wait to surface.
>>>
>>> *A. Gaffar Peang-Meth, Ph.D., is retired from the University of Guam,
>>> where he taught political science for 13 years. Write him at **
>>> [email protected]* <[email protected]>
>>>
>>>
>>> http://www.guampdn.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/201006020300/OPINION02/6020327
>>>
>>>
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>> http://www.khmernavy.com/
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>> http://www.thinkmassmedia.com/PUINT01.html
>> http://ibuddhi.blogspot.com/2007_12_01_archive.html
>>
>
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