Paula,
  You always have the most interesting news regarding options...you have
*really* done your homework!  :)  Because of you, I would *love* to adopt.
It will have to wait until we move again, since the 4 of us (DH, MIL, Alicia
& I) are all crammed into this tiny 3-bedroom manufactured home.

  Peggy
  > If we do adopt again.... it will not be with CHINA (unless we wait until
the
  > situation returns to our having no more than 4 minor children in our
home).
  > That could be a while.
  >
  > But I am passionate about adopting from Haiti and Vietnam.  Plus, while
I am
  > not trying or not even wanting to be pregnant right now - - I cannot
rule
  > out my desire to have another baby biological.  I have decided that if
we
  > adopt, and we are going to be assigned, rather than selecting, a child.
I
  > will not specify gender.  May seem odd given the fact that I have five
girls
  > and one boy, but I figure adopting is jus another way of adding to a
family
  > and I wouldn't want to try to intervene with some magical, awesome
situation
  > where the perfect child for us is another girl; even despite our having
one
  > boy.  However, that said, I would probably choose boy if we went with
Haiti.
  >   The truth, however we don't want to admit this... is that Black Boys
are
  > the last to be chosen for adoption.  If we do adopt from Haiti (and you
can
  > adopt more than one child at a time with that program) I would seriously
  > consider adopting two boys. The Haitian country is terribly poor.
  >
  > So yes, I certainly hope that Walt is inspired.  By doubling up bedrooms
we
  > could easily accomodate 3-4 more children with ease.  The idea of
adopting a
  > sibling group is also a wonderful warm feeling in my heart.
  >
  >
  >
  > Paula



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