The Ripple Effect of Abortion

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by Fr. Frank Pavone

Abortion harms our entire culture in ways we have 
not even begun to imagine. We may at times be 
tempted to think that we are not individually 
affected by the fact that others legally abort 
their children. But abortion does affect us all, 
personally and directly, whether we are aware of it or not.

The pro-life movement has done much to teach the 
public about the destructive harm that abortion 
does to the unborn child. Most people also have 
been informed about the negative impact abortion 
has on women’s health, as a result of the 
multiple physical and emotional complications of 
the procedure. But taking a brief look at the 
other circles of destruction brought on by 
abortion can be an even more sobering experience.


The Survivors

First of all, what does abortion do to the 
children who survive? Psychologists have now 
discovered “Abortion Survivor Syndrome,” a 
cluster of symptoms that mimic those of the 
soldiers who return from battle, and instead of 
feeling happy that they survived, feel guilty and 
anxious. “Could I have done something to keep my 
army buddy from getting killed? Why was it him and not me?”

Dr. Philip Ney, a Canadian expert and child 
psychiatrist, explains that children eventually 
ask, “I was born because mommy wanted me. What if she stops wanting me?”

The impact of being an abortion survivor should 
not be ignored as we try to understand why 
children shoot other children in schools. We’ve 
taught them to do so when we taught them that 
their lives were disposable. Children will not 
stop killing children until parents stop killing children.

The prospect that one could have been legally 
killed by his or her own parents is also a 
significant obstacle for our young people to hear 
the Gospel message of the Father’s unconditional love for them.


 From Generation to Generation

Abortion leads to more abortion, as well as to 
various forms of child abuse. One of the biggest 
factors that will determine whether someone will 
have an abortion is whether her mother had an 
abortion. The reasons have to do with the way 
abortion affects the maternal bond. It weakens 
and distorts it, and a woman who has an abortion 
faces obstacles in her relationships with later 
children she brings to birth. The act of aborting 
a child, rather than adjusting to the changes 
that childbirth brings, constitutes a failure to 
mature and a regression in one’s development 
toward adult responsibility. This failure to 
mature is one of the contributing causes of child abuse.


The Helpless Cry

Abortion threatens the survival of the human 
species itself, because it introduces a 
distortion into the human response to the 
infant’s helpless cry. When a crying baby awakens 
her parents in the middle of the night, initial 
annoyance quickly gives way to tenderness toward 
the child in need. The very survival of the 
species depends on our overall ability to make 
that transition. Abortion, by definition, is a 
deliberate refusal to hear and respond to the helpless cry.

Dr. Ney writes, “Human response to the helpless 
cry of their young will determine if the human 
species survives. The helpless cry is any sound 
or signal that alerts a person that some creature 
is in distress and cannot help him/herself . . . 
Anyone with any humanity in him or herself must 
react in one way or another. The helpless cry is 
an essential crisis . . . It is an accurate gauge 
of how human we are as individuals and how 
civilized we are collectively. It will determine 
whether we become more free, more mature, and 
more loving, or whether we become insensitive, dehumanized, and hateful.”


Marriage

Abortion destroys marriages and male-female 
relations generally. The woman who has aborted a 
child finds it more difficult to trust the man. 
Her relationship with him led to the unspeakable pain of abortion.

Meanwhile, the man finds in abortion an easy way 
to escape responsibility for his actions. The 
fact that the law does not give fathers a say in 
whether their own unborn children live or die 
means that fathers are less willing to take 
responsibility for those children before and 
after birth, and less willing to bond with them. 
If they are not attached to the baby, moreover, 
they are not as supportive of their partner.


Government

When our government allowed abortion, it became a 
different kind of government than what it was 
founded to be. There are only two forms of 
government. The first acknowledges that God gives 
us our rights, and that government exists to 
secure those rights. In such a framework, 
government can’t tamper with the right to life, 
and can never authorize its destruction.

The second form, however, says that government is 
the source of those rights, and therefore has 
full dominion over life and death. The Pope 
comments on this in Evangelium Vitae: “In this 
way democracy, contradicting its own principles, 
effectively moves toward a form of 
totalitarianism. The State is no longer the 
‘common home’ where all can live together on the 
basis of principles of fundamental equality, but 
is transformed into a tyrant State, which 
arrogates to itself the right to dispose of the 
life of the weakest and most defenseless members. 
. . . When this happens, the process leading to 
the breakdown of a genuinely human coexistence 
and the disintegration of the State itself has 
already begun. . . . This is the death of true freedom” (no. 20).

Abortion has wrought havoc on our political 
system, practically destroying one of our 
national parties and hijacking the 
constitutionally provided method for filling positions on federal courts.

Other effects in law have been described as “the 
abortion distortion.” In various states, for 
example, pro-abortion forces have begun to shut 
down avenues of free speech, such as specialty 
license plate programs or tow banner advertising, 
just to prevent the truth of abortion from being told.


The Church

The well-being of the Church is also at stake 
because of the abortion controversy. The more the 
“ethic” of abortion is embedded in the laws and 
practices of society, the more strained are the 
Church’s relations with government. The Church, 
after all, must interact with government leaders 
on a wide range of programs that serve the people 
and advance the Church’s interests. But as was 
painfully evident in recent controversies over 
whether pro-abortion politicians should be 
allowed to receive Holy Communion or even appear 
on Church property, the constant presence of 
legal abortion­and public officials who are 
willing to keep it legal­will provide a source of continued conflict.

At the same time, positions on abortion are 
reduced, in public commentary, to “political” 
positions. Given the fact that many attorneys who 
advise the Church give unnecessarily restrictive 
legal advice, the bottom line is that there is a 
chilling effect on the freedom of the clergy­and 
others in ministry­to comment on abortion. This 
strains the credibility of the Church, as people 
try to figure out why more leadership is not 
evident from the pulpit on what the bishops 
themselves have called the most fundamental civil rights issue of our day.


The Medical Community

Legal abortion distorts the purpose and slows the 
progress of medicine. Doctors are being reduced 
to their pre-Hippocratic oath days when they were 
seen as dispensers of both life and death. The 
inherent link between the medical profession and 
the care of life is being denied and obscured. 
Moreover, if defects in a child are handled by 
aborting the child, motivation to make medical 
progress in treating such defects is deterred.

At the same time, if embryos can be destroyed, 
they can also be manipulated, experimented on, 
sold, or combined with other species. Bioethical 
oddities of immense proportions are on the horizon.


Security

Ultimately, the economy and security of the 
nation and the world are threatened by abortion. 
Destroying 40 million lives in a generation can’t 
happen without consequences, starting with the 
aging of the population, with fewer younger workers supporting the system.

Moreover, how can we maintain peace between 
nations if we cannot maintain peace between a 
mother and her own child? As Mother Teresa 
warned, “If we say that a mother can kill her own 
child, how can we tell other people not to kill 
each other? . . . The fruit of abortion is nuclear war.”

We have only skimmed the surface here and have 
truly not begun to appreciate the destructive 
power of abortion. May we, as individuals and as 
a society, face up to the truth about abortion 
and its many dimensions before it is too late.

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