There's also the surprise factor. If it seems random (regardless of the
actual randomness) it seems less like you have a post it note on your
computer that says "buy flowers on Friday" and seems more like you were
thinking about her.
At 05:15 PM 5/11/2001 -0500, you wrote:
>Jennifer,
>
>I see your point about the pseudo-randomness.
>And if you always do it on the same day, then forget, there's an unfulfilled
>expectation.
><sigh>
>Another pseudo-random point-winner is rubbing neck and shoulders, or feet.
>I'm only a barely-skilled amateur massager, but it's appreciated.
>Funny thing, tho' - a neck or foot massage usually seems to turn into a
>full-body massage 8-)
>
>Chris, keep her guessing (what you did, that is!)
>
>Ben
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: Chris Montgomery [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
>Sent: Friday, May 11, 2001 2:20 PM
>To: CF-Community
>Subject: RE: dating [was RE: Majordomo]
>
>
>Y'know, doing something like that always backfired for me. If I brought my
>sweetie flowers unexpectedly, she always wondered what I had done wrong that
>she didn't know about (yet). And I was always innocent (honest)!
>
>Chris
>
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Jennifer [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> > Sent: Friday, May 11, 2001 1:38 PM
>
> >... I think I should tell you if you bring her flowers
> > not on a schedule, she'll feel more special than
> > if you always bring them on Fridays.
>
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