It's not the lack of respect that gets to me (at least not with this issue),
it's the willful, casual and unthinking usage of the language. It's crept into
normal usage without anyone thinking of what it means and how/when to use it. If
someone says Fuck because something they're working on is not going right,
because they're frustrated or something has gone very wrong, then it's called
for (or worse language). Just using it as a normal part of language without
thought is what upsets me.
"how are you doing?"   "fuckin A"
No thought, just thrown out there. But that's the point of all this and a lot of
my gripes. People don't think. Not about what they say. Not about the meaning of
their words. Not about their world. Not about anything past
food/money/sex/sleep/doom 3. Language is just a symptom.

> When I ride into work (I take public transportation) and some kids are
> passing "mother fuckers" around it's not the words that bother me: it's the
> lack of respect and sense of community that using the words in that manner
> convey.  I would consider the same thing with your situation: the words
> themselves wouldn't bother me, but the lack of respect for others (who could
> be bothered) would bother me.
>
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