see this stuffed bear? that's Paddington. See that man over there? that's someone you don't want to run into in a dark alley.
On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 14:36:35 -0600, Deanna Schneider <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Really? How do you come up with that? I mean, they're all pretty > innocuous names. Dang, I wish I could remember them. But, I know the > general feeling I got was "that's cute." I guess I don't see how > naming turns into some sort of elitist behavior. > > In our house, even the poor dog has been demoted. She's now "da-doog" > or "woof" instead of her proper name (Scully). Of course, we always > called her "woof-tooth" as a term of endearment. So, I could see why > that would be confusing. > > And, we do jokingly call one horse that Soren has "Stiffy" as it's > made to support 140 pounds of child sitting on it's back, doing > nothing. Standing there. Stiff. (Course, we're not seriously naming it > Stiffy.) > > > > > On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 13:15:55 -0700, dana tierney <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > hmm. Not far from there to "not our kind of people" if you ask me. If > > the child had named the toys himself it would be different. By the > > way, my daughter calls our dog "Hayley" or more usually "puppy." > > > > Dana > > > > On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 14:02:48 -0600, Deanna Schneider > > > > > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > Yep, all the toys that were animalistic or humanistic had names. > > > Grandma, mom and dad seem to be the namers. The kid is only 20 months, > > > so I'm not sure how well he gets the concept of name (Puffy) vs. word > > > for object (the puffer fish). *shrug* > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 12:53:47 -0700, dana tierney <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Question - you are saying that your friend's child's toys all had > > > > names? Who named them? The child, or the parent? If the parent named > > > > the child's toys, that strikes me as over-control. But what do I know? > > > > I call our dog "the dog" or occasionally "the damn dog." > > > > > > > > Dana > > > > > > > > On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 13:33:24 -0600, Deanna Schneider > > > > > > > > > > > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > You know, I was just thinking about this the other day. My son has all > > > > > sorts of stuffed toys and dolls and such. The duck is "duck." The baby > > > > > is "baby." The horse is "horse." Etc. I went over to a friends and > > > > > every thing there was named (not that I remember any of the names). > > > > > So, I got to thinking - are we weird? We haven't given any of his > > > > > things names. > > > > > > > > > > I hadn't thought of it in terms of Eastern/Western philosophies. But, > > > > > we are much more "let it be" than the neighbors. Hm.... maybe we're > > > > > more zen than we knew. ;) Of course, my inital thought was that we're > > > > > bad parents who don't engender enough tender caring to even bother > > > > > giving his toys names! :P > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Tue, 9 Nov 2004 12:56:42 -0600, Gruss Gott <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > Kevin wrote: > > > > > > > Contrast that with Zen Buddhism that is less about controlling > > > > > > > and labelling and more about accepting things as they come. > > > > > > > > > > > > Whoa - that's good. If you'd like to expand on that, I'd like to > > > > > > hear > > > > > > it. It's a perspective I hadn't considered before. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Special thanks to the CF Community Suite Gold Sponsor - CFHosting.net http://www.cfhosting.net Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:135022 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
