> Dana wrote: > In dysfunctional families, the husband sees himself as the absolute > individual power within the family system. He strongly believes that
Here's the question I'm NOT asking: "Given that we know Joe Blow smacks his wife around, what can say about his life that may have caused him to do that?" Everything you've posted addresses that question. That's psychoanalysis and to use my car insurance analogy it'd be like saying this: "Gruss speeds a lot because he feels that it gives him a sense of power. He needs that because at an early age he lost his father and blah, blah, blah." The car insurance guys aren't going to ask a bunch of psychologists who's a speeder, they're going to ask actuaries and actuaries are going to get hard data: age, sex, marital status, etc. I'm not trying to annoy you - I respect your opinion, but I can't believe in a probabilistic profile you refuse to define. Can't you just skip all of the links and mumbo jumbo and post the simple bullets? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Find out how CFTicket can increase your company's customer support efficiency by 100% http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=49 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:154151 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
