Do you think there are places where we have to cut loose and not care about that?
I'm not a big party person but isn't parties where people cut loose and just behave like themselves? I'm not trying to be defensive as much as trying to see if there are times where you let your hair down and stop worrying about impressions? On 12/8/05, Jillian Koskie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Relax Bill... it's not about being flawless or trusting. No need to be > defensive. > > All I am saying is that, like it or not, we're all constantly making an > impression. > > > I think anyone on this list knows I'm competent at what i do. There > > are times we all stop worrying about appearances and just be > > ourselves. I do that here. Others do that when they go out drinking. > > Or when they hang out with friends. To me these are my friends and > > I'm > > going to just relax and be myself flaws and all. > > > > I'm a good person, i have a big heart. I'm VERY good at what i do in > > the top percentile ranking on all the tests I've taken for it. I am > > unique. I am an asset. Some of the worlds most successful people were > > dyslexic. So when I'm doing things that are non-personal then i do > > have to spend a good deal of time rereading comments because i do > > find > > myself making mistakes. If someone does not like how i spell in the > > part of my life that i consider personal then so be it. I have no > > trouble finding work. > > > > I totally get what you're saying that i have to keep up my image. But > > do you not agree we all have to have time to just be ourselves? Maybe > > you will say this is not the place to relax since my next boss could > > be on this list. And maybe you are right but this list is my > > sanctuary. CFCOM has helped me through everything important in my > > life > > since i was 17. Getting married, divorced, wife leaving me, best > > friend killing himself, work trouble, scumbag bosses, my boss > > impersonating me on cfjobs to try replacing me, etc etc. I trust the > > people here with all that i am. And perhaps i should not be so > > trusting because it could turn around and bite me in the ass. > > > > But that is a character flaw i am too nice, i am too trusting, i am > > too forgiving. My life has been a list of things that would not have > > happened if i was not such a trusting and forgiving person. Hell i > > hold no harsh feelings to my ex-wife (btw divorce was final last week > > guys yay!). > > > > > > > > > > > > On 12/8/05, Jillian Koskie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > My father would (in my opinion, correctly) argue that you are always > > making an impression on people. And an impression that 'I couldn't > > care less because you guys aren't important' isn't the one I'd like to > > step forward with. > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Find out how CFTicket can increase your company's customer support efficiency by 100% http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=49 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:186643 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
