Yeah, girls gotta get a job, what's she do all day?
-- Tim Heald [EMAIL PROTECTED] 703-300-3911 -----Original Message----- From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 1:42 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: frustrated... gf with no job and your bitching about money. sounds like a led zepplin song to me dog.. tw On 3/22/06, S. Isaac Dealey <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > 3 kids, 1 ex and 1 girlfriend. And okay, yes, the girlfriend is my > bag, and I support her 'cause she hasn't really worked in the 5 yrs > since we've been together, but I don't believe it's my place to tell > someone to get a job (and the only thing that accomplishes with my ex > is it makes it harder for me to talk to my kids), and she helps me out > by letting me get more work done instead of having to do laundry or > dishes or cook for myself. :) It's not like either of us feel that's > "her place", it's just a convenient arrangement and she's happy to > help me get more hours toward my own goals. > > I've not hired a lawyer in the last 5 years because ::drum-roll:: > can't afford one. How am I supposed to afford a lawyer if I can't > hardly pay the bills I already have? Beyond that I've met numerous > divorced fathers who've spent thousands and thousands of dollars > basically just throwing money down the toilet trying to find an > attorney who either can or will do anything to help them with their > divorce problems. I'm reasonably convinced that if there is such a > person, he's too busy to accept me as a client even if I could afford > his exhorbitant fees ('cause he'll definately be the most expensive > attorney on this planet). > > Got me a vassectomy right after my ex and I split up... I keep it > under my... well, you know where I keep it. :) > > As I've said, a number of stupid decisions made when I was a kid, like > getting married to the wrong woman and not being adamant about waiting > a while to have kids, both of which fed into how I fouled up my chance > to have a degree. > > > Shit man, sounds like you need a better lawyer, not a better job. > > > How many kids you got bro? > > > Maybe need to throw a vestictamy as well. > > > > -- > > Tim Heald > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > 703-300-3911 > > -----Original Message----- > > From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 1:10 PM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: RE: frustrated... > > > You can, but I can't. The difference is that I support a family of 6 > > with 2 separate living spaces (apartments in both cases) on a single > > income. I would LOVE for that to be a luxury, like the Mazerati I'm > > not trying to get myself into, and be able to just say "you know > > what, we don't need 2 homes", but people and laws prevent me from > > making that decision. > > Or for that matter > > from even reducing the cost of the 2nd living space any. > > >> I don't have a degree, and make significantly more than $80K right > >> now. > > >> BTW I lived her eon $60K with two kids and a wife and two car > >> payments. > >> It's not as expensive as some people are making it out to be. I > >> mean, you live in the burbs and ride a train, it isn't that bad. I > >> just went to contract on a house here for 482,600. It's in > >> Columbia MD, So it'll be a commute, compared to the rental we live > >> in in Alexandria. > > >> -- > >> Tim Heald > >> [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> 703-300-3911 > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: Scott Stewart [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 12:34 PM > >> To: CF-Community > >> Subject: RE: frustrated... > > >> Keep looking, I don't have a degree, and while I'm not making $80k > >> I'm doing alright.. > > > > >> Thanks > > >> Scott > > >> Scott A. Stewart > >> Webmaster/ Developer > >> GlobalNet Services, Inc > > >> http://www.gnsi.com > >> 11820 Parklawn Dr > >> Rockville, MD 20852 > >> Voice: (301) 770-9610 x 335 > >> Fax: (301) 770-9611 > > >> The information contained in this message may be privileged, > >> confidential, and protected from disclosure. If the reader of this > >> message is not the intended recipient, or any employee or agent > >> responsible for delivering this message to the intended recipient, > >> you are hereby notified that any dissemination, distribution, or > >> copying of this communication is strictly prohibited. If you have > >> received this communication in error, please notify us immediately > >> by replying to the message and deleting it from your computer. > > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 12:34 PM > >> To: CF-Community > >> Subject: RE: frustrated... > > >>> I'm telling you man, you need to move to DC. The salaries are > >>> much better than that, the killer is the housing costs though. > > >> I'm talking to recruiters about jobs in DC. > > >> I was actually thinking about a company that I contacted directly > >> because I'm personally interested in the company (not because I saw > >> them post a job description), where the hiring manager told me not > >> only that they don't hire people without degrees (with one > >> exception), but that he didn't think my min. DC salary of $80k > >> would be reasonable and that he'd be hard pressed to get me $70k > >> for a full-time job. I can't live on less than $80k in DC! I've > >> checked the market and done the math, and asside from the fact that > >> I can't pay bills there for any less, $80k makes me a bargain in > >> that market! > > >> Admittedly, it doesn't help that I still have 2+ hrs drive to get > >> there and at the moment have no money for relocation. I didn't have > >> any money for relocation when I came to Charlottesville, I got an > >> advance, and then had to take a pay cut to work here, so you can > >> imagine how much I've saved up to help me move from here to DC. But > >> if they discount me for not having a degree, their not paying > >> relocation becomes moot. > > > >> s. isaac dealey 434.293.6201 > >> new epoch : isn't it time for a change? > > >> add features without fixtures with > >> the onTap open source framework > > >> http://www.fusiontap.com > >> http://coldfusion.sys-con.com/author/4806Dealey.htm > > > > > > > >> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > >> ~ > >> > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:201179 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
