There are compromises to be made, however you don't always pick the same one.
If you have two people who disagree, one person has to either give up, or just do it. There isn't always some middle ground where the pros and cons can be discussed. People have to be willing discuss them. > -----Original Message----- > From: Gruss Gott [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, August 07, 2006 3:00 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Lebanon: 900 Dead; 1,000,000 Displaced > > But that wasn't my point. That would've been gravy, but it's the > effort that counts. > > For example, let's say you want to buy the new Honda lawn mower with > the Xenoy deck, but are unsure if your spouse will approve. Do you: > > (a.) Buy it and deal with his/her wrath later. > (b.) Tell your spouse you're going to buy it and then do it without > regard for their opinion. > (c.) Discuss it with your spouse, explain the "need" and why this is > the best course of action, and then make a joint decision. > > I don't know about you, but I'm all about (c). > > Let's say you did go with (a). Your spouse couldn't accuse you of > buying something that technically wasn't needed, but they'd still be > pissed. > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Introducing the Fusion Authority Quarterly Update. 80 pages of hard-hitting, up-to-date ColdFusion information by your peers, delivered to your door four times a year. http://www.fusionauthority.com/quarterly Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:212773 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
