Dude....
can I tell you how scary it is that we've essentially typed the same
thing......
Scott A. Stewart
REAC/PASS-IT
(202)-475-8875
Tony <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
12/19/2006 04:00 PM
Please respond to cf-community
To: CF-Community <[email protected]>
cc: (bcc: Scott A. Stewart/REAC/HHQ/HUD)
Subject: Re: Pet Peeve
finally.
good job.
it may take a few days, but i would imagine that erika
MIGHT push a muffin your way...
On 12/19/06, D F <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Thanks for that. It did give me something to think about.
>
> Socially speaking I would be the first one to admit that I have
shortcomings. Perhaps the way I burst in like you said is one of them.
>
> As I mentioned earlier... my intention was to be a 'part of' -- perhaps
it came out wrong..perhaps I was insensitive to the current discussion and
dynamic of the group. Perhaps a wait and see approach would have served me
better.
>
> But certainly one has to agree that the community response was a tad
over the top, highly innapropriate and inordinatley aggressive and
insulting considering the circumstances.
>
> I like discussing things that for me, have depth and for me anything
else I tend to view as a waste. Maybe this is a social shortcoming as you
say. Hey, I'm not perfect... I'm me. In all my own quirkyness and
oddities...that belong to me and to me alone. I see that I probably should
have started a new topic... I was unaware of the group consciousness here.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> >Why come in with any "intent" other than fellowship?
> >If this was a bar, would you approach and burst into the first
> >conversation that you heard with a speech intending to inflame, that is
> >completly off topic to the conversation?
> >Would you not expect to be flamed (or worse in a bar situation) for it?
> >Do you understand that whatever intent that you've had is completly
lost
> >in the delivery
> >
> >Like I said before you've come across like you're testing us to see if
we
> >are worthy of you.
> >
> >Whatever happened to "Hi, i'm Daniel, I'm a ColdFusion Developer..."
> >
> >Scott A. Stewart
> >REAC/PASS-IT
> >(202)-475-8875
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >D F <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >12/19/2006 02:11 PM
> >Please respond to cf-community
> >
> >
> > To: CF-Community <[email protected]>
> > cc: (bcc: Scott A. Stewart/REAC/HHQ/HUD)
> > Subject: Re: Pet Peeve
> >
> >
> >>i still have no idea why every one is upset?
> >>threads get jacked every 30 minutes around here?
> >>no i didnt read all 50+ posts on the last thread.
> >
> >This is what I'm trying to figure out.
> >
> >And I have asked for specifics as to where I went wrong. But people
would
> >rather gang up simply because it is part of the group mentality. The
> >Simpsons parody this social quirk constantly.
> >
> >In short I have endured a lot of abuse today. if one were objective
enough
> >to look over all the really negative barbs throughout the course of
this
> >thread, the light of truth would shine in.
> >
> >Few people ( maybe one or two ) have provided examples of what their
> >thoughts were...but sadly, many would rather use terms such as
'asshole',
> >'idiot', 'weirdo' etc... rather than knowing the truth or really
knowing
> >my my intention was.
> >
> >I would expect an educated group such as this would have better
comments
> >to make.
>
>
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