wow. I've been through this on the other side and I am really not sure I agree. Oh... the child would be btter off with both of them unless there's major issues sure. But this all-out war stuff? I can't see telling a young child that mommy or daddy is evil. But hey, I know nothing about any of the situations discussed here. I'l just saying -- sometimes you really can come to a civil agreement. Honest.
>hmmm how can I say this without sounding like an ass? I don't think I can, >but those that /know/ me know better, so I am not too worried. > >I was just up feeding Phoenix and this thread kept popping into my head, >probably because I can relate to it. Now, I know absolutely nothing about >the situation, other than what was posted in the initial topic. > >The "isn't technology grand" argument is bullshit. A picture is worth a >thousand words they say? What's a hug worth? >IMO, your wife.. ex.. whatever you want to call her is selfish. god this >pisses me the f*ck off, only because I went through it all. I spent /over/ >$20,000 to make sure it didn't happen to me. My ex cried this bullshit >argument (she's from the uk) when were separated. Wanted to take my son back >to the UK with her.. but don't worry, I'll get to see him for... wait for >it... 3 months out of the year while he's on summer break. Well isn't that >absolutely effin grand? Oh and I would get to see him on the web cam daily.. >and talk via phone and... and.. it's all bullshit. > >This thinking a child is better off with one parent than having access to >both is bullshit, and at least the courts are finally starting to see that, >as well. Unless you are an unfit parent... well then all bets are off.. If >you can't take care of your kid.. or you abuse them.. then they are better >off w/o you... until you get /your/ shit sorted. > >The way I see it, since you already let your wife leave with your child, you >really have no other choice but to follow, that is if you want to be a >fixture in your child's life.. to have /some/ say of how she is brought up. > >Call me an asshole, for saying it.. I don't care.. but I went through /all/ >of this. I fought hard so that my ex could not leave the country to go to >her "support system". What about the support system of the child.. isn't >that made up of (starting with) the TWO of you? > >My ex would happily (and has on several occasions) admit that leaving would >not have been in Talon's best interest. and ps, we get on great now. It took >a while to get here.. but the situation is /so/ much better for our son. > >Sell your shit, pack your shit up and get moving. At this point in the >"game" your ex is not your friend, she is looking out for herself. Oh she >may think she is putting your daughters needs first, but that just ain't the >truth. Her judgment is clouded. > >Go. Move. You have no choice now, unless you are going to fight to bring her >back to where you are now. Your daughter needs both of you. > >i'm done. > >On 3/17/07, Robert Munn <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Deploy Web Applications Quickly across the enterprise with ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2 Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJU Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:230580 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
