When I sent this, I thought to myself, "The only person that will probably reply positively, let alone get it, would be Larry." But of course you are our resident "doctor". :)
Talking is never over-rated. I believe in this wholeheartedly. My relationship with the BF is wonderful. We talk about EVERYTHING. Nothing is out of bounds, and we take the time to sit down and really listen to what each other wants. It's not always what we want to hear, but he's my best friend, and I'm his. A lot of people would poo poo that - but the level of connection we have is fantastic. Of course we both really enjoy the same things including taking time for date nights, sitting at the end of the day with a cocktail, talking about the day or whatever suits our fancy, etc. I've had to not only learn this aspect of a relationship, but find a person that felt it was important too. That talking was important. Understanding one another. I lucked into that. It's a wonder the serenity such a relationship brings. To some it sounds impossible, to others it'll be normal. I've done a lot of growing up over the past couple of years mentally. Figuring out what was important and what wasn't. Life is too short to be grumpy. :) As for the PMS comment - PMS should never be an excuse to treat your partner badly. As a woman, I hate that women use that against men. Of course you could always tell her I'm in love with you Paul ... :P :D On 10/17/07, Larry Lyons <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > >yeh.. > >i cant forward that to my wife who is pms'ing/666 > >she just wouldn't care, ask me if i did any thing on 'her' list. > >ask me who Erika was & if i am in love with her. > >then ask about the job situation and mortgage. > > > >talking is way over rated. > > > Geez from the sounds of it I am wondering if I'm the only one with a > normal relationship with my wife. > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Enterprise web applications, build robust, secure scalable apps today - Try it now ColdFusion Today ColdFusion 8 beta - Build next generation apps Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:244572 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
