> I am curious to know when kids didn't do things like that ;)

so this makes it fine and dandy?

I would say that kids brought up to respect others, and respect other's
property don't do things like that.   My brother didn't, and I didn't.  My
parents brought us up to have COMPASSION for other people, and thats why.
We were brought up to consider other people's feelings.


> When I was a kid my brother hunted me and my friend thought he woods for
an
> hour to shoot us in the ass with a bb gun. I remember some kids breaking
> windows out of construction sites, I never did that but I did have the
> occasional bb through a window sometimes.

Shooting my brother in the ass with a bb gun would probably be a pretty
stupid thing to do,  but I have a brother so I certainly understand it.


> its part of growing up, maybe it was different for girls (but I remember
> when some girls can be more mean and hurtful to others then any guy). When
> you grow up you don't ever tell your kids what you did when you were a kid
> because you try to keep them from making the same mistakes you did. Though
> probably shooting a stranger with a paintball gun is a smidge more
> aggressive then when i was younger but busting into construction sites has
> been a young boys pasttime since my father was a kid.


I would hope that we would teach our kids to do better than we did.  An
eight year old busting windows is different than deliberate destruction by
high school students for the sake of destruction too, I think.  And shooting
poor homeless folks in the face with paintballs and thinking its really
funny is heinous.

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