Thank you Marsha. Exactly. When I read things like this letter it 
breaks my heart, but I also realise I can relate to getting upset 
over my babies pottying in the wrong place, etc...
  The difference between people who give their pets up for these 
reasons is obvious - we care.
  I would never give my dogs up for anything. The reality that there 
are people out there who purchase a puppy as a "toy" then get bored 
with it or neglect it sickens me.
  This post was meant to open our eyes, I know everyone here loves 
their babies, but there are people out there who treat them as 
disposible items. It was meant to inform not hurt anyones feelings.
Cyndie

--- In [email protected], "marsha" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> I am not sure if you are referring to Cyndie's original post or to 
my reply, but either way, I loved the post and appreciate it. 
Sometimes it takes something sad to make us realize how important 
things are to us or to encourage us to take extra time with our 
loved ones. This "letter" should make us stop for a moment and think 
about things. For instance, how many times have each of us at one 
point or another gotten upset with a pup for pottying in the wrong 
place. Even the best of us have during a stressful point. How many 
of us have maybe had an outside dog that we failed to give the 
attention to that it deserved? The shelter story is reality. Too 
many animals are put to sleep each year for just this reason, and it 
is our responsibility as "dog lovers" to use this kind of thing to 
show that reality to people. I can understand if you are depressed 
about it....but not offended by it.
> 
> I am grieving over Chip right now, and that sadness has renewed in 
me a determination to spend more time with all my pets and make sure 
each of them know they are loved. I have just finished re-arranging 
their sleeping area to make it more of a family atmosphere. I am 
determined they will no longer sleep in a small utility room. They 
deserve better. Chip deserved better than my short attention giving 
as I hurried in and out of the house!
> 
> Cyndie, I thank you for this post. Yes I cried. My daughter 
refused to listen to the rest of it, and I choked up as I tried to 
read it to my son, but still, it was something that needs to be 
passed because we must make others realize that it is a reality. And 
that puppies and other animals DO FEEL love and loss. The only 
people this should offend are those who have done just what the 
letter speaks of. Being depressed is different from being offended. 
If you have become depressed, that shows you care.
> 
> Marsha
> 
> 
> 
> Subject: Re: {SPAMFILTER} [Chihuahuas] "Dear Mom and Dad"
> 
> 
>   I FOUND THIS EMAIL REALLY DISTURBING...WE ALL KNOW ALL OF US 
HERE ARE DOG LOVERS..SO WHY MAKE US SAD BY POSTING THINGS LIKE 
THESE....I ALSO HAVE LOST 2 PUPPIES AND READING THINGS LIKE THIS 
DOESNT HELP..IM SORRY IF I OFFEND THE SENDER.
>     ----- Original Message ----- 
>     From: marsha 
>     To: [email protected] 
>     Sent: Friday, November 04, 2005 7:56 PM
>     Subject: Re: {SPAMFILTER} [Chihuahuas] "Dear Mom and Dad"
> 
> 
> 
>     The first line nearly knocked me off my feet. I buried one of 
my dogs a couple of hours ago. He wasn't a chi, just a mutt rescue 
found when he was only 3 weeks old. As the runt of a very large 
litter, his momma abandoned him to try to care for the larger 
healthier ones. We bottle fed him till he was weaned, and he was 
such a great dog. I have been sitting here crying my eyes out, and 
then the first line of this was a shocker. So sad to think that, 
here I am crying over a "stray mutt" that left paw prints on my 
heart, while some people have no problem at all with just abusing or 
killing a dog that only loves them unconditionally. 
> 
>     In memory of Chip www.dogster.com/?112110.
>     Marsha
> 
> 
>         
>       Dear Mom and Dad,
> 
>             I died today.  You got tired of me and took me to the 
shelter.  They were overcrowded and I drew an unlucky number.  I am 
in a black plastic bag in a landfill now.  Some other puppy will get 
the barely used leash you left.  My collar was dirty and too small, 
but the lady took it off before she sent me to the great beyond. 
>             Would I still be at home if I hadn't chewed your 
shoe?  I didn't know what it was, but it was leather, and it was on 
the floor.  I was just playing.  You forgot to get puppy toys. 
> 
>             Would I still be at home if I had been housebroken?  
Rubbing my nose in what I did only made me ashamed that I had to go 
at all.  There are books and obedience teachers that would have 
taught you how to teach me to go to the door. 
> 
>             Would I still be at home if I hadn't brought fleas 
into the house?  Without anti-flea medicine, I couldn't get them off 
of me after you left me in the yard for days. 
> 
>             Would I still be at home if I hadn't barked?  I was 
only saying, "I'm scared, I'm lonely, I'm here!  I want to be your 
best friend." 
> 
>             Would I still be at home if I had made you happy?  
Hitting me didn't make me learn how. 
> 
>             Would I still be at home if you had taken the time to 
care for me and to teach manners to me?  You didn't pay attention to 
me after the first week or so, but I spent all my time waiting for 
you to love me.   
> 
>             I died today. 
> 
>             Love, 
>             Your Puppy
> 
>             -author unknown-
>            
> 
> 
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