RE: [Chihuahuas] Comments - was- Re: In Memory

[Tawnya]

I agree that
the boy needs help, but this is not likely a helpful response.  He needs
intensive counseling, perhaps even as an inpatient if Marsha feels that he is a
threat to himself or others.  He needs to learn how to control his anger…but
Marsha lashing out at him in anger would not be an appropriate way for her to
role model appropriate anger management.  JMO and yes, I have 4 children….

 



Tawnya Bowman

 Better than yesterday, but not as good as tomorrow



 









From: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com [mailto:Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Norma Jean
Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006
3:10 PM
To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Chihuahuas] Comments - was- Re: In Memory



 



Nonnie....No you do not have anything to apologize
for and I, for one, am glad you spoke up for the innocent little animal that
probably never harmed a living soul  its whole life. I, too, was appalled
when I read the original post telling us what happened. Everyone seems to be
more concerned about offending the human and over looking what the
innocent animal went through. 





Before anyone on here tells ME to think twice and
read my email over a couple times before I send it let me assure you I not only
thought once, twice, three times but more like 4-6 times so I do not regret
this post and also I have no intention of replying to any posts that is
responsive to this. I just don't feel Nonnie should be talked down to the way
she has been just because she thought of the poor little helpless animal
instead of a young man that apparently can't control his anger and needs help
desperately. I only hope his mother sees this as a definite cry to help before
it is to late...normajean





 





 





 





 





 





 







Nonnie
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:







I really don't think I said anything out
of line to be honest with you.  I will say this ... according to Marsha's
own statement she knew that there was a potential problem in her home and had
problems with her son before this incident.    I am sure she is
very horrified over what happened and there is no win in this situation because
I'm sure Marsha is torn in both directions.





 





No parent wants to see bad in their
child.  No matter what their child does they stick by them.  I'm
different.... and its probably easy for me to say this objectively because I
have not had a child and its really easy to faults in other people's children
and be amazed that the parents do nothing to remedy the situation.  So
many kids are out of control and parents just don't know what to do or do
nothing because doing something would cause more problems until the situation
is so bad that they MUST do something.





 





I think enough said about this
situation.  It needs to rest.





 





Nonnie & the Punk & Darla





 





-----Original Message-----
From: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Connie major
Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006
3:33 PM
To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Chihuahuas] Comments - was- Re: In Memory

well maybe you should of thought ahead before opening your mouth and
speaking

Nonnie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: 



no I wouldn't have my dogs around my
horses because that would be an accident waiting to happen.  I don't bring
the Punk with me to the stable.  If he is out of the little fenced yard I
have, he is either in my arms or at the end of the leash.  I always take
precautions with all my animals.





 





My horses do NOT get in the trailer
without legwraps and head bumpers even though my trailer is the tallest you can
get.  Precautions.  We change tires every 3 years although they are
not worn out just in case of dry rot.  Safety first.





 





I am someone who looks ahead and minimizes
any and all potential risks to my animals.





 





Nonnie





-----Original Message-----
From: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Kay Lewis
Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006
9:45 AM
To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [Chihuahuas] Comments - was- Re: In Memory

Nonnie, again I suggest you think twice and read twice before sending.
Oh and put on glasses so you can see what awful
crap your writing.
I suggest silence at this point.  This is a
bad enough situation
without you going off like some half crocked
crazie woman...

You don't have children, so don't say a word until
you have walked a
mile in a mothers shoes.  So let's discuss
what you can understand. 

If one of your horses stomps one of your dogs,
what are you going to
do....  shoot the horse?



--- In Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com,
"Nonnie" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> SOrry but that was my first reaction.  I
know she is hurting losing her
> little dog but I would never tolerate
something like that in my
home.  Get
> the kid some help or something.  I just
can't imagine someone doing
that to
> the Punk.  They wouldn't be alive... kid
or no kid.  To me the
animals come
> first.  I never had children, chose not
to have children.  The Punk
& Darla
> and my horses are my children and are so
loved its not funny.  I was
> horrified when I read that post.
>  
> I find kids today and not just in this
situation but in all
situations seem
> to lack manners and decorum.  I don't
know what society can do about
it.  I
> was never raised this way and wouldn't think
of acting the way kids do
> today.
>  
> I am very sorry Marsha lost her little
chihuahua and I hope she
takes steps
> to deal with her son and never let it happen
again.  If she has
other dogs
> protect them.
>  
> Nonnie & the Punk & Darla
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com]
On
> Behalf Of Kay Lewis
> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 7:29 AM
> To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [Chihuahuas] Re: In Memory
> 
> 
> Nonnie,
> I really think you need to rethink your
comments and apologize, and in
> the future think twice before typing and then
read twice before
> hitting the send button.  Right now
Marsha needs strength and our
> prayers to get through what is going on in
her life. Smart comments
> are not helpful and are not needed.
> 
> Marsha,
> I know there are no words any of us can say
that will bring you
> comfort at this time, but do know your in our
hearts and prayers.
> I'm thankful that Honey went quickly and I'm
praying that you find
> the professional help you need with your son.
> I'm so sorry this has happened.
> Kay
> 
> --- In Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com,
"Nonnie" <nonnie_nt@> wrote:
> >
> > OH MY GOD.... IS YOUR SON STILL ALIVE!!!
IF HE WERE HERE HE WOULD
> NOT BE.
> >  
> > THE PUNK who says my mom would have
killed the kid.
> > 
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com]
On
> > Behalf Of marsha Taylor
> > Sent: Tuesday, March 21, 2006 10:10 PM
> > To: Undisclosed-Recipient:;
> > Subject: [Chihuahuas] In Memory
> > 
> > 
> >  
> > IN MEMORY
> > HONEY
> > April 10, 2002-
> > March 21, 2006
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> son got
> > mad because he was barking, and kicked
him. I am in total shock
> right now.
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