Neutering frequently help with the marking but it takes a while for the
testosterone levels to decrease - months
a good vet makes the process pretty pain free and handles the dogs gently

On Jan 27, 2008 10:08 AM, Vickie Benavides <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

>   Cheryl, I can't thank you enough for what you just told me. I cried as I
> was reading. This little guy was thrown up against a wall and kicked and how
> he turned out to be so good and sweet is way beyond me. If thats why he is
> marking, I can deal with it. Do you think if I got him neutered he will do
> it less? I don't want him to breed my little female anyway. And yet I am
> also afraid that if I take him to get neutered, what will be in his mind,
> that people are  always going  hurt him? What was scaring me when I had the
> thought of giving him up was the fear of some one not caring for him and
> loving him as much as I do. Besides
> I have the support of my husband to keep him so I don't think he will be
> going anywhere now. If I really love him I will keep him right?
> Thanks again sooo very much.
> Vickie
>
> *Cheryl Harrison <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>* wrote:
>
>  Vickie,
> Don't give up on your little man.  I have one that does the same thing.  I
> pulled him out of the pound.  His "mom" had turned him in after having him
> for a year (she pulled him from the pound when he was a baby) because she
> said she "didn't have time for him".  That really meant "I can't deal with
> his marking and his separation issues".
> Well, let me tell you, Harley is the sweetest little man I've ever met.
> All my other Chi's love him and he loves them.  But yes, he does mark
> everything.  But a friend of mine explained it very well.  She told me that
> he only did it because he was insecure and afraid that he would be taken
> back to the pound.  When she told me that, suddenly I could no longer be
> angry at him for being insecure!
> Lots of folks on our group make wonderful belly bands to keep the boy
> folks from marking.  And there are more smarts on this group than you can
> ever hope for, so if it's a suggestion you need, you've come to the right
> place.
> Just PLEASE don't ditch your little boy just because he doesn't have house
> manners.  He really can't help it.  And it really shouldn't be a death
> sentence.  But it might be if you pass him on to someone else.
> Okay, I'll get off my soap box now.
> But PLEASE don't be too harsh on your little guy just because he's afraid
> he'll be sent away...
>
>
> Cheryl Harrison
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