one more thing..have you tried putting some on your finger?(when shes asleep) and?putting it in the ear (not too far) and rubbing it with the top of the ear flopped over?
Remember they are experts at our behavior so you must be super sneaky like have the stuff on your finger before she wakes up. lots of love with it helps too especially after as I am sure it must hurt...can you give her some goodies? best, michelle, henry and vinnie keeping warm in the beautiful Catskills

