I am so sorry to hear the news. I wouldnt wait or him to file for divorce. I know it will be a hard decision but if he used you as a consolation prize he could do it again. I would look into getting some counseling to help you deal with the issues. I am here for ya if you need to talk. I have been through divorce myself wasnt easy but I made it through it and you can as well. ((((((((hugs)))))))))))))
Kate Dale --- On Mon, 1/24/11, amanda christopher <[email protected]> wrote: From: amanda christopher <[email protected]> Subject: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Monday, January 24, 2011, 6:49 PM My husband of over six years left for good last night. Rented a car and packed it tight, took his puppy and moved to Michigan to be with another woman. I'm so numb right now Im unsure what to do. I havent been on in several days and the reason is, when he told me it was over I tried to overdose and had to be admitted to the hospital. I got out saturday night.I hadnt even gotten to the car when he told me he was leaving the next day. He tells me he loves me and cares for me but he has to see what is between him and her. They dated for two years and broke up eight years ago. He claims he thought she was dead and after learning differently he has to see if they are in the past or still in love. He said that after seven years together he had grown to love me but that I had been a consolation prize because he couldnt have her. He tells me to wait for him, that he may come back to me one day. Im a fool of course because I will probably wait forever. Im so scared, Im not sure how to go on. He controlled and handled everything. I have no income, Im trying to get my disabilty. My mother and stepfather live across the hall. Its a duplex and the deed is in my name. They say they will handle the bills, theyve been paying them for awhile now anyway. Im so lost at least I have my chis. He also left his foxhound. Nine years old the poor thing seems lost as well. I just need you to know whats going on in my life. You guys online are my only friends. .
