Amanda, I am so sorry for the trouble you are going through. This is an awful thing for someone to do to anyone. My step-father did that to my mother after 26 years of marriage. He said goodbye on their anniversary! She had no income of her own and nowhere to go. He paid her $80.00 a week until she got her SSI. He moved on with another woman and she waited until she died. I couldn't stand seeing her wait.
I am not one to give anyone advice because I haven't had a picture perfect life. I just thought you could drawl a conclusion from my mom's story. She died young because of heart failure but she wasted too much time waiting and being bitter. No one but your husband came answer the whys. But in the end you are better off not living as second best. I don't know you but I do know you are better than someone consolation prize. Carol and Crew On Mon, Jan 24, 2011 at 1:49 PM, amanda christopher < [email protected]> wrote: > > > *My husband of over six years left for good last night. Rented a car and > packed it tight, took his puppy and moved to Michigan to be with another > woman. I'm so numb right now Im unsure what to do. I havent been on in > several days and the reason is, when he told me it was over I tried to > overdose and had to be admitted to the hospital. I got out saturday night.I > hadnt even gotten to the car when he told me he was leaving the next day. He > tells me he loves me and cares for me but he has to see what is between him > and her. They dated for two years and broke up eight years ago. He claims he > thought she was dead and after learning differently he has to see if they > are in the past or still in love. He said that after seven years together he > had grown to love me but that I had been a consolation prize because he > couldnt have her. He tells me to wait for him, that he may come back to me > one day. Im a fool of course because I will probably wait forever. Im so > scared, Im not sure how to go on. He controlled and handled everything. I > have no income, Im trying to get my disabilty. My mother and stepfather live > across the hall. Its a duplex and the deed is in my name. They say they will > handle the bills, theyve been paying them for awhile now anyway. Im so lost > at least I have my chis. He also left his foxhound. Nine years old the poor > thing seems lost as well. I just need you to know whats going on in my life. > You guys online are my only friends. > * > > . > > > > -- *Carol* *Muchacha, Bella Rose, Chibbie, Blue, Cooper, Ruth Anne, Gracie, * *ChiChi, Granny and Holly Noel*
