It is not whether the advise is good or bad, that is a matter again of opinion, but in polite society, there are ways of offering advise that do not attack or offend.
________________________________ From: enjaelove <[email protected]> To: [email protected]; [email protected] Sent: Monday, January 23, 2012 10:09 AM Subject: RE:RE: Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot Not really Judy, it's just that Diana's reply to Lynda seemed cruel in my opinion. I felt sorry for what I perceived as a harsh response to a new person. I am fairly quiet on here because I, too, have received critical replies to my posts. Nesa ________________________________ >From : Judy Moon >Subject : RE: Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot > >Someone can’t take good advice! > >Judy Moon, a prayer warrior for Christ >"May grace and spiritual peace be yours from God our Father >and from the Lord Jesus Christ." >Jewell, Mary, Martha, Dakota, Becky, Nicky, Gabby, Joy (dogs) >Dark Angel, Peter, Paul, Leah, Sarah, Tag, Ruth, Esther (cats) >Libby, the parrot > >From:[email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf >Of enjaelove >Sent: Sunday, January 22, 2012 11:01 PM >To: [email protected]; [email protected] >Subject: RE:Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot > > >Whoa! That WAS harsh! Please don't think all of us will respond to you this >way. You have a legitimate concern. The breed has a reputation for tending >toward a yappy, cranky nature. >I understand you to say that you're simply concerned and want advice. > >I had similar concerns about Jake. But at 23 months, he is a curious, happy >boy. Neither yappy nor nippy. > >________________________________ > >From : C.M. >>Subject : Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot >> >>After reading this message, I'm sorry I posted my question. >> >> >>From:diana roller >>To: "[email protected]" >>Sent: Sunday, January 22, 2012 4:08 PM >>Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot >> >> >>Just because she doesnt like people in her face does not mean that she needs >>to be disciplined. Dogs have an instinct as to what people they can trust. >>Also, has anyone taken the time with her to socialize her ~ gently and over a >>period of time, NOT JUST A SNAP ON THE NOSE?????? It sounds like you are >>being way too impatiant with her as well as expecting too much too soon. Dogs >>are like kids, each personality is different. Maybe she just needs a little >>extra loving and gentle care. >>I will take her off your hands if you like. I hate to see you both so upset. >>Sincerely, Diana >> >> >>From:sheila >>To: [email protected] >>Sent: Sunday, January 22, 2012 5:02 AM >>Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot >> >> >>Yeah, I think you are over reacting. Itsy will do this because she does not >>like being startled or bothered when she is sleeping. I always make it a >>point to say her name name and here girl, come on girl time to go out. She >>is fine then. Don't get your feelings hurt, it is not personal, it is a >>reaction. >> >>I guess my point is that not all things fit all dogs. Sounds to me like she >>just does not want to be bothered while she is resting. Not all dogs will >>always be alike. >> >>Ask yourself how she is otherwise? Is this the only time she does that? >> >>Sheila >> >>-----Original Message----- >>From: Lynda >>Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2012 9:41 PM >>To: [email protected] >>Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] cranky behaviot >> >>Hi Everyone, >>I'm noticing some behavior in Charlotte (3 mos chi), that I have never >>experienced and do not like. My other 2 dogs are sweet, well behaved, >>loving, even tempered loves. I've worked with them & they are such wonderful >>dogs-well trained & very respectable. (altho they've trained me well too) >>LOL >>I've noticed when I lean over to kiss Charlotte when she's sleeping she >>snaps @ my face The first time she did this I was shocked! Did it again and >>couldn't believe it-my feelings were hurt. Then I went to move her & she >>growled. I gave her a 'no' command each time but she doesn't even react to >>the command. I tapped her nose once & said 'no', but she just curled up >>when back to sleep. I will not accept this behavior so I make a point of >>'bothering' her sometimes when she's sleeping so we can work on this. >>Anybody have any other ideas? >>Lynda >> >>------------------------------------ >> >>Yahoo! Groups Links >> >> > > >________________________________ > >No virus found in this message. >Checked by AVG - www.avg.com >Version: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4760 - Release Date: 01/22/12
