I don't post often but this site in priceless. let us pull together and support one another. if it was'nt for this group I would still be in the dark ages..my doc is a good guy but he no way has the knowledge I have learned from you good people.. hope you all have a good day ----- Original Message ----- From: Rob To: [email protected] Sent: Thursday, March 10, 2005 2:25 PM Subject: [CML] Re: What's happened on here?
Nancy mentioned Dane in her post as one of the issues the "Group Of Six" presented to me some months ago. It left a bad enough taste in my mouth at that time and does so even more at the present time to even mention it again. Rob --- In [email protected], "snickersunny" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > Rob, > > When did I ever bring up Dane's name? Interesting. I realize that > Dane is in the battle of his life, and thank God he is doing well. I > wish him no ill will. I'm thrilled that he is doing well and will > soon return to his family and his loved ones. > > I don't belong to any "group of 6" club. I just bonded to a bunch of > incredibly knowledgeable and talented individuals that share my sense > of decency and honesty and care about the well-being of myself and my > family. These individuals helped me through my darkest days of being > dx'd with cml.. and have walked me through the tunnel of dispair and > sadness and helped direct me to the path of acceptance and moving on > with my life. For that, I am eternally grateful. If you want to > slam me for the bond that I have formed with these individuals, go > ahead. It doesn't matter. We just wanted to give input and improve > the group. I'm sorry you feel so threatened. It was never the > intent to do that. Lynn > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Rob <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > First of all please have the human decency to leave Dane out of this > > since he is recovering from a BMT. He has not commented on any of > this > > and is not involved in any of this. > > > > Once again I am sorry the Group Of Six did not like the way the > group > > was operated back then and still does not like the way the group > > operates now. The group is operated for the benefit of all of the > > members not just six. I did consider suggestions that were made but > I > > did not feel that turning the group over to the Group Of Six (or the > > persons they selected as their proxies) was in the best interest of > > the group nor did I think that putting in place the "standards of > > decency" they wanted for the group was appropriate. No one has > > appointed the Group Of Six to determine what the others in the group > > should be able to read and say. It is unfortunate that the same > people > > who complain about disruptions on the list are often the very same > > people who cause the disruptions in the group. > > > > Whether it is one of the small vendettas or the large vendettas > > against me I am getting it from all directions at once. > > > > Rob > > > > --- In [email protected], "hey00nanc" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Carl Davies <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > > > For those of us who appreciate all you have done, we > are > > > sorry you have to live this Kafkaesque nightmare in which > sniveling > > > cowards can file an anonymous complaint against you and torpedo > the > > > list. > > > > > > > > In the spirit of decency and respect for fellow > > > listmembers, I would ask that the individuals who filed the > complaint > > > muster the courage to crawl out from under the cloak of anonymity > and > > > explain your motivation and reasons to the rest of us. > > > ____________________ > > > > > > To Carl and Rob, > > > > > > I want to set a few things straight. A while back, Zavie (I > believe) > > > got a small chat group together with Rob....people that Zavie > seemed > > > to know were not totally happy with the way the list was running. > The > > > group consisted of Zavie, Tracey, Rob, Lynn, John and myself. We > did > > > NOT have any hidden agendas......we told Rob what our complaints > were > > > (and some we had heard from others). People did not like all the > > > bickering on the list and the personal attacks. We knew people > who > > > were leaving the list because of that...or who would no longer > post > > > anything. The list was dwindling away. Also, there was one person > who > > > was dominating the list and others found annoying. I felt that > Rob > > > should have stepped in when Dane made his ugly remark to me. Rob > kept > > > saying we wanted to censor the list and ban people....wrong! We > said > > > have some rules for the list....some standards of decency. > > > > > > Then Rob turned the discussion to him being harassed for 2 years, > with > > > calls in the middle of the night, etc......and revealed who that > > > person was/is......and she is not a major poster on the CML list, > but > > > her identity is known to EVERYONE in this small discussion group. > Of > > > course, we are taking Rob's word that this has actually > occurred. > > > > > > The small group tried to offer suggestions for changes.....Rob > > > mentioned several times about turning the group over to someone > else, > > > and mentioned maybe a cancer center as an option. The group fell > apart > > > (mostly due to frustation that Rob was not open to any of the > > > suggestions that we made).........then Rob posted his 'new > rules'. > > > ________________ > > > > > > This group did not complain about photos on the list or medical > > > articles.....that was a more recent complain on this list by 2 of > the > > > group members individually........so, let's not attribute this to > the > > > group Rob. > > > > > > I will post here for you Carl.....and for anyone else who wants > to > > > know......I had nothing to do with Rob being banned from Yahoo > and > > > know nothing about it............................. > > > > > > and I invite each of the members of that small discussion group > to do > > > the same. Let's clear our names. > > > > > > Someone had to have a bigger vandetta against you than the small > > > issues we were complaining about and trying to resolve....to get > you > > > banned Rob. Who knows.....maybe the 'midnight harasser"! > > > > > > Nancy C. New! Sign up for local CML support group meetings in your local community at http://cml.meetup.com Apply for Commercial Real Estate loans online and submit your deal to dozens of hungry lenders in just minutes. Loan programs for all types of business and commercial real estate. Apply anytime at http://realestatezoo.com CML (Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia Support List) --------------------------------- Part Of CMLHope.Com An International Community Of CML Patients For more information: http://cmlhope.com Post Message: [email protected] Subscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To No Mail/Web: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To Digest: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To Email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] List Help: [EMAIL PROTECTED] CML Group Web Site http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CML Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ADVERTISEMENT ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Links a.. To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CML/ b.. To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] c.. Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Give the gift of life to a sick child. Support St. Jude Children's Research Hospital's 'Thanks & Giving.' http://us.click.yahoo.com/3iazvD/6WnJAA/xGEGAA/8zSolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> New! Sign up for local CML support group meetings in your local community at http://cml.meetup.com Apply for Commercial Real Estate loans online and submit your deal to dozens of hungry lenders in just minutes. Loan programs for all types of business and commercial real estate. Apply anytime at http://realestatezoo.com CML (Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia Support List) --------------------------------- Part Of CMLHope.Com An International Community Of CML Patients For more information: http://cmlhope.com Post Message: [email protected] Subscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To No Mail/Web: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To Digest: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Change To Email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] List Help: [EMAIL PROTECTED] CML Group Web Site http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CML Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CML/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
