Absent bad behavior, the force put on the Lark's bicep is under 10 lbs. How
determined? Swing really fast, compare effort to a 10# barbell curl. My
wife is a great swing partner (and game for the experiment, which we tried
from both sides in "traditional ballroom" hold). Slower/normal swing was <5
lbs.

Obviously bad behavior clampers, leaners and hangers would change the
situation.

-Don

On Sun, Mar 31, 2024, 12:35 PM Joe Harrington via Contra Callers <
contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:

> Another possibility would be either a university dance department or the
> department that does human performance (sports) and/or physical therapy.
> They might have the required gear to analyze dance motions.  But, they will
> probably ask, what problem are you trying to solve?  Once you have the
> information, how will you use it?  (Or, how will it help me get tenure?)
>
> --jh--
>
>
> On Sat, Mar 30, 2024 at 7:36 PM Chris Lahey <cla...@clahey.net> wrote:
>
>> I'm thinking about it, but my likelihood of following through based on
>> interest and difficulty is probably single digit percentages.
>>
>> The main reason is knowledge as Jeff said, but I do think we could
>> improve teaching if we had a deep knowledge of this stuff.
>>
>> On Sat, Mar 30, 2024, 15:45 Joe Harrington <contradancer...@gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Are you actually thinking of doing this?  Why? Would it help anyone
>>> dance better? If someone does this kind of thing for work and could tap
>>> into those resources, it might be practical.  Otherwise, this looks like
>>> the kind of setup that would require significant thought, effort, and
>>> expense.
>>>
>>> One approach would be to green-suit up in a video-game studio, and then
>>> tap into the calculations that the game software uses to create game
>>> motions from human ones.  That wouldn't be measurements of forces directly,
>>> but it would be pretty comprehensive.  You'd know where all the momentum
>>> went and it would calculate transmitted forces through every surface, which
>>> you could sum for the hand and arm, etc.  They might also have force
>>> sensors of some sort.  Somebody must have, at some point in the development
>>> of those systems.
>>>
>>> --jh--
>>>
>>>
>>> On Sat, Mar 30, 2024 at 3:17 PM Chris Lahey <cla...@clahey.net> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Does anyone have any thoughts about how we can measure some of this? I
>>>> can definitely imagine a force pad on someone's back to measure the
>>>> tension, but I'm a bit lost as to how he can measure the ground forces
>>>> (including possibly torque around a vertical axis)?
>>>>
>>>> I think normal force should be easy. That can be built into a pad on
>>>> the ground if nothing else, but friction would be harder.
>>>>
>>>> Unless we had multiple pads each of which had force sensors in all 3
>>>> axes (plus a rotational sensor) does anyone know how much such an apparatus
>>>> would cost to build?
>>>>
>>>> Now that I think about 3 axis force sensors, i wonder if there's much
>>>> lateral or vertical force in the connection point and whether I'd there is
>>>> that feels bad in some natural way.
>>>>
>>>> On Sat, Mar 30, 2024, 13:37 Joe Harrington via Contra Callers <
>>>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Funny thing, I wrote the email below last Sunday and thought, do the
>>>>> world's callers really want a physics calculation on their mailing list?  
>>>>> I
>>>>> decided the better of it and didn't send it.  Ok, I guess I was wrong...
>>>>>
>>>>> What I call support is against centrifugal force, not vertical. Of
>>>>> course, there's no need to lift the other dancer, and it's a really poor
>>>>> idea.
>>>>>
>>>>> As Jeff pointed out, in a fast swing, there's a lot of centrifugal
>>>>> force, as seen from our rotating frame of reference in the swing.  For
>>>>> physics buffs, centrifugal force increases as the square of velocity, so a
>>>>> swing that goes around three times in 8 beats rather than twice (1.5x
>>>>> faster rotation, the first-level "fast swing") has 2.25 times as much
>>>>> outward force to support.  Estimating a 25 cm radius (about 50 cm between
>>>>> the centers of mass of the two dancers, in the middles of their abdomens,
>>>>> which I measured with a tape measure) and a 70 kg (150 lb) dancer, that's
>>>>> an outward force for each of the two bodies of almost 390 Newtons, or
>>>>> nearly 90 pounds.  Much of that will be borne by the friction between the
>>>>> dancer's feet and the floor, but the rest will be held by the supporting
>>>>> dancer(s).  How much depends on how they lean.  For a standard swing (2
>>>>> rotations per 8 beats), it's just under 40 lbs.  Fortunately, you only 
>>>>> have
>>>>> to hold it for four to eight seconds at a time, or actually less as you
>>>>> accelerate and decelerate inside that time, though the peak force will 
>>>>> then
>>>>> be higher.
>>>>>
>>>>> ...and now I add...
>>>>>
>>>>> Despite starting with it above, myself, I think we're somewhat
>>>>> misleading ourselves with this Mv**2/r calculation.
>>>>>
>>>>> The key thing here is that a centrifugal-force calculation
>>>>> (centripetal, actually) makes some assumptions that we dramatically 
>>>>> violate
>>>>> when we dance. We are not rigid bodies. At best, we're collections of many
>>>>> light rigid bodies (our bones) linked by ligaments, tendons, and muscles,
>>>>> and bearing all sorts of other masses that move relative to one another,
>>>>> storing momentum until we can deal with it in the next step.  We
>>>>> effectively pump momentum up from our feet, into our bodies, and down to
>>>>> our feet on each step. We transfer it to the other dancer through our arms
>>>>> and theirs, and their back, if we have a hand there.
>>>>>
>>>>> With that in mind, consider this model of a swing.  Each dancer's
>>>>> upper half is trying to execute rigid circular motion.  Our lower bodies
>>>>> (hips down) are doing something else, and half our mass is down there.  
>>>>> So,
>>>>> drop my estimated 90 lbs to 45 just for that (I'll drop it more in a
>>>>> minute).  The lower half is essentially stepping a figure with 90 or 135
>>>>> degree corners on each beat.  Consider the left foot.  In a standard swing
>>>>> (2x in 8 beats), it is walking a square, directing momentum along the 
>>>>> sides
>>>>> of the square that the upper body picks up and turns into rotation.  Half
>>>>> of each square side brings that leg closer to the middle, the other half
>>>>> takes it farther away.  We land, push off, and do it again and again. That
>>>>> push-off supports the centripetal needs of both legs (through the hip
>>>>> joint) and some of the upper body.  If there is an outward lean off the
>>>>> right foot, additional centripetal support is needed from either the legs
>>>>> or arms.  The right foot is mainly a pivot, while both feet support
>>>>> gravitational weight.
>>>>>
>>>>> Good dancers constantly adjust how far out their left feet land on
>>>>> each step and how hard they push off, simultaneously satisfying both their
>>>>> centripetal needs and the required spin rate.  This lets them control how
>>>>> much inward force they draw from their feet into the upper-body rotation 
>>>>> to
>>>>> supplement the arms.  That reduces the support needed from the arms well
>>>>> below 45 lbs.  It can reduce it to zero.  Tweaking the lean also adjusts
>>>>> where the axis of rotation is, to balance the different masses of the
>>>>> dancers and make their differing force impulses produce matched torque
>>>>> impulses.  Dancers use the beat to step in sync with the other dancer's
>>>>> legs, or these torque impulses would come at different times, and the 
>>>>> swing
>>>>> would wobble and fall apart, as Chris Lacey alluded to.
>>>>>
>>>>> So, yeah, it's complicated, yet even children solve this problem when
>>>>> they swing.  Everyone is an intuitive physicist!  And, each time I think
>>>>> about this kind of thing, I get more amazed at the engineers who make
>>>>> robots.  Has anyone taught a robot to do a contra swing, yet?
>>>>>
>>>>> --jh--
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On Sun, Mar 24, 2024 at 3:24 PM Julian Blechner <
>>>>> juliancallsdan...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi Joe,
>>>>>>
>>>>>> You mean, palms flat on the back of shoulderblades? If so, it's how I
>>>>>> teach it, lots of callers teach it, and this is the first I've heard a
>>>>>> complaint about it.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> That said, you describe: "I've had my elbow bent backward by eager
>>>>>> robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the right place."
>>>>>>
>>>>>> That _sounds like_ what I call "arm clamping". While yes, putting
>>>>>> Robin's hand on the outside of the shoulder also alleviates the clamping,
>>>>>> it's not the only way to fix it. A Robin can lift their elbow. (I just
>>>>>> workshopped the issue with my partner in the living room to test a 
>>>>>> variety
>>>>>> of height and holds out to confirm what you were saying, as well.)
>>>>>>
>>>>>> The other issue is that if both dancers don't have hands flat on the
>>>>>> backs of each other, it's more difficult to maintain an open frame when
>>>>>> swinging. One usually winds up _closer_ when hands are resting on
>>>>>> shoulders, unless one dancer is significantly stronger and the other is
>>>>>> fairly petite.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I know that my right arm will get seriously fatigued and sore if I
>>>>>> have an evening too many times as Lark with Robins providing insufficient
>>>>>> support. And I've heard plenty of dancers say similar.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> That said, all bodies are different. If yours works where the swing
>>>>>> hold works better for you the way you describe, that is what it is, yeah?
>>>>>> But I might recommend considering workshopping swings further, because 
>>>>>> what
>>>>>> you're requesting is counter to prevailing teaching. If I understand
>>>>>> correctly (and it's always possible I'm missing something.)
>>>>>>
>>>>>> In dance,
>>>>>> Julian Blechner
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On Sun, Mar 24, 2024, 1:13 PM Joe Harrington <
>>>>>> contradancer...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Not the standard ballroom, with the robin's arm on top of the
>>>>>>> lark's, but an alternative that I've seen occasionally, but for a 
>>>>>>> number of
>>>>>>> years now, where the robin tries to put their left hand in the same
>>>>>>> location on the lark's back as the lark has their right hand on the 
>>>>>>> robin's
>>>>>>> back.  I know at least one prominent caller who teaches this hold in 
>>>>>>> their
>>>>>>> newbie workshop and tells their dancers that both sides need to do this 
>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>> provide equal support in the swing.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> While I like the principle, the practice can hurt. If the dancers
>>>>>>> are not grossly mismatched in size/arm length, it won't be possible to 
>>>>>>> do
>>>>>>> this without their elbows occupying the same space.  I've had my elbow 
>>>>>>> bent
>>>>>>> backward by eager robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the
>>>>>>> right place.  Even if it doesn't go all the way to pain, it pretty much
>>>>>>> eliminates my ability to provide any support, unless I "fight back" by
>>>>>>> pushing my elbow out and resisting the inward pressure, essentially
>>>>>>> refusing the position.  I'm also focusing entirely on protecting my 
>>>>>>> elbow,
>>>>>>> so it kills any enjoyment in that swing.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Please gently discourage this hold.  If a robin wants to give major
>>>>>>> support in a swing, the symmetric swing holds, the barrel, the one Jeff
>>>>>>> described, or even a mirror of the ballroom where the lark's arm is on 
>>>>>>> top
>>>>>>> are much better opportunities.  A robin whose arm is longer than their
>>>>>>> lark's arm can also reach over or around the shoulder in a ballroom hold
>>>>>>> (robin's arm on top) to add support.  Just don't push down on the 
>>>>>>> shoulder.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> --jh--
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On Fri, Mar 22, 2024 at 9:21 AM Julian Blechner <
>>>>>>> juliancallsdan...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> JJ,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I like your point about the sort of code-switching that the
>>>>>>>> asymmetry of a ballroom hold provides to reinforce what role one is 
>>>>>>>> dancing.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Joe,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I don't understand what you mean about the ballroom hold having
>>>>>>>> elbows occupy the same space. I think I'd need to see it (in person or
>>>>>>>> picture). That said, it raises the broader issue, which is the overall
>>>>>>>> topic, that everyone has different physical needs and finding happy 
>>>>>>>> mediums
>>>>>>>> is our goal for everyone dancing together. Your issue with ballroom 
>>>>>>>> hold
>>>>>>>> handholds as such is a good reminder for me that no one - not even 
>>>>>>>> seasoned
>>>>>>>> callers - can anticipate every need or difference.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> In dance,
>>>>>>>> Julian Blechner
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 10:38 PM JJ <jcg...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Personally for me, the standard ballroom swing helps me to "flip
>>>>>>>>> the switch" in the brain on which side of the swing I'm "supposed to" 
>>>>>>>>> end
>>>>>>>>> on (assuming we're not switching roles back and forth for fun lol). 
>>>>>>>>> If my
>>>>>>>>> left arm is the "pointy arm," I'm ending on the left; if my right arm 
>>>>>>>>> is
>>>>>>>>> the "pointy arm," I'm ending on the right. I don't have to 
>>>>>>>>> consciously tell
>>>>>>>>> myself "I'm the Lark" or "I'm the Robin," my muscle memory just takes 
>>>>>>>>> over
>>>>>>>>> and I just end on whichever side my arm position tells me to 😅.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> I enjoy neutral swings, but if we're not planning on switching
>>>>>>>>> roles without warning through an individual dance, I tend to stick 
>>>>>>>>> with the
>>>>>>>>> traditional ballroom figure.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 22:33 Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>>>>>>>>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> "At the time, it almost never happened that the one in the lady's
>>>>>>>>>> role actually swung like a lady.  I'm not sure when that became the 
>>>>>>>>>> norm."
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> When I started dancing both roles, around 2005, I remember
>>>>>>>>>> initially doing it as you said, with gender-neutral swings with the 
>>>>>>>>>> gents I
>>>>>>>>>> encountered.  I remember being surprised sometime around 2006-2007 
>>>>>>>>>> when I
>>>>>>>>>> ran into a few guys dancing switch who indicated they wanted to do 
>>>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>>>> standard ballroom hold.  By 2008-2009 I think my male friends and I 
>>>>>>>>>> were
>>>>>>>>>> dancing the lady's role in the standard way?
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Jeff
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 10:16 PM Joe Harrington via Contra
>>>>>>>>>> Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> I love the barrel hold, but some of my partners have reacted in
>>>>>>>>>>> a way that indicated it was too intimate for them.  This is 
>>>>>>>>>>> especially true
>>>>>>>>>>> if I have to lean over to do it, as that puts my face pretty close 
>>>>>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>>>>>> theirs (I'm pretty tall).  It's also difficult to do without frontal
>>>>>>>>>>> contact if one or both partners is well on the heavy side.  But, 
>>>>>>>>>>> all that
>>>>>>>>>>> aside, if you and your partner like fast swings, it's a great hold, 
>>>>>>>>>>> more
>>>>>>>>>>> stable than ballroom, with four arms providing support rather than 
>>>>>>>>>>> one.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> In the late 1980s and early 1990s, when guys danced the lady's
>>>>>>>>>>> role (using the terminology of the time for reasons you'll see in a
>>>>>>>>>>> moment), we'd almost universally be offered the "gender-neutral 
>>>>>>>>>>> swing",
>>>>>>>>>>> which is symmetrical and very stable for fast swinging: both right 
>>>>>>>>>>> arms are
>>>>>>>>>>> around the other's back and both left arms go over/around the 
>>>>>>>>>>> other's right
>>>>>>>>>>> arm, bend 90 degrees at the elbow, pass between you, and clasp left 
>>>>>>>>>>> hands
>>>>>>>>>>> around each other's forearms between your bodies.  At the time, it 
>>>>>>>>>>> almost
>>>>>>>>>>> never happened that the one in the lady's role actually swung like 
>>>>>>>>>>> a lady.
>>>>>>>>>>> I'm not sure when that became the norm.  I would occasionally do it 
>>>>>>>>>>> with a
>>>>>>>>>>> particular guy partner whom I liked to dance with.  We practiced it 
>>>>>>>>>>> first
>>>>>>>>>>> and then did it with each other, but we gender-neutral-swung our
>>>>>>>>>>> neighbors.  We got some pretty surprised looks from our neighbors 
>>>>>>>>>>> when we
>>>>>>>>>>> swung each other. At least one guy asked me if that partner and I 
>>>>>>>>>>> were an
>>>>>>>>>>> item.  Times and role terms and what people read into dance behavior
>>>>>>>>>>> change...
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> In general, I'm quite happy to swing with guys in either role
>>>>>>>>>>> when they're happy to swing with me.  But, it's awkward and 
>>>>>>>>>>> uncomfortable
>>>>>>>>>>> in the extreme to be going up an entire line of consecutive frowns, 
>>>>>>>>>>> growls,
>>>>>>>>>>> and looks of disgust as a guy dancing the robbin...enough that I 
>>>>>>>>>>> haven't
>>>>>>>>>>> returned to the dance weekend where that happened in Fall 2022, 
>>>>>>>>>>> even though
>>>>>>>>>>> it was pretty great in other ways.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> The one swing style I really dislike is a modified ballroom
>>>>>>>>>>> position where the robbin tries to put their hand on the lark's 
>>>>>>>>>>> back in the
>>>>>>>>>>> same place where the lark's hand is on theirs.  I know some people 
>>>>>>>>>>> actually
>>>>>>>>>>> teach it this way, I guess as some kind of equality thing.  It's 
>>>>>>>>>>> terrible,
>>>>>>>>>>> because their elbow and the lark's elbow then have to occupy the 
>>>>>>>>>>> same
>>>>>>>>>>> space, which, well, physics.  If I'm the lark and their arm is 
>>>>>>>>>>> outside
>>>>>>>>>>> mine, when they try to provide support, it hyperextends my right 
>>>>>>>>>>> elbow,
>>>>>>>>>>> eliminating any chance I can provide support and sometimes inducing 
>>>>>>>>>>> pain
>>>>>>>>>>> before I can either force my elbow back out, displacing their hand 
>>>>>>>>>>> from my
>>>>>>>>>>> back, or pull my arm up to rest it on their arm in a mirror of the
>>>>>>>>>>> traditional ballroom hold.  I hope we can convince everyone to stop
>>>>>>>>>>> teaching this hold, as it usually doesn't work as intended and it 
>>>>>>>>>>> can hurt
>>>>>>>>>>> the lark.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> One assist that does work in ballroom position and requires no
>>>>>>>>>>> communication is, if the robbin's arm is as long as or longer than 
>>>>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>>>>> lark's, they rest their left arm on the lark's right, extending the 
>>>>>>>>>>> entire
>>>>>>>>>>> length of the arm and then reaching around/over the lark's shoulder 
>>>>>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>>>>>> provide some support on the shoulder blade.  In my case, at least, 
>>>>>>>>>>> if they
>>>>>>>>>>> are short enough that they can't do this, then they're often also 
>>>>>>>>>>> light
>>>>>>>>>>> enough that additional support isn't critical, though it does make 
>>>>>>>>>>> for more
>>>>>>>>>>> connection.  It's important not to press down on the shoulder, 
>>>>>>>>>>> though. Only
>>>>>>>>>>> pull forward.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> --jh--
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 12:52 PM Julian Blechner via Contra
>>>>>>>>>>> Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> At the last couple of dances in the last few days, I thought
>>>>>>>>>>>> about this email thread and observations.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> Short and simple:
>>>>>>>>>>>> A "barrel hold" swing:
>>>>>>>>>>>> - Seemed to provide a little bit more space than a ballroom hold
>>>>>>>>>>>> - One neighbor offered it (by chance) really clearly, as a
>>>>>>>>>>>> lark, with his left arm curved into a sort of "offer a hug" type 
>>>>>>>>>>>> position.
>>>>>>>>>>>> As we engaged in the swing hold, he placed his left arm in place, 
>>>>>>>>>>>> and it
>>>>>>>>>>>> guided things in. It worked pretty well for me, at least as an 
>>>>>>>>>>>> experienced
>>>>>>>>>>>> dancer.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> In dance,
>>>>>>>>>>>> -Julian Blechner
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> On Sat, Mar 16, 2024 at 4:18 PM becky.liddle--- via Contra
>>>>>>>>>>>> Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I can’t answer whether the robin's would always HAVE to go
>>>>>>>>>>>>> above the lark’s in the modified ballroom swing, but I would 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> intuitively
>>>>>>>>>>>>> think that having that rule/understanding might make it easier 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> for dancers
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to make the transition from ballroom to modified ballroom because 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>>>>>>> robin’s arm is always on top in standard ballroom swing. Also, 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the lark’s
>>>>>>>>>>>>> hand is typically cupped upwards with the robin’s hand above the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> lark’s in
>>>>>>>>>>>>> things like a balance or even a handhold in a circle move, so 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> having the
>>>>>>>>>>>>> hand/arm orientations the same in the swing would also seem more 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> intuitive
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to me if I were just learning this swing.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Becky
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> On Mar 16, 2024, at 12:25 PM, Katherine Kitching via Contra
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Hi John, thanks for all your comments. I like this swing at
>>>>>>>>>>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUiXStkCHGs from 0:05 to 0:15
>>>>>>>>>>>>> - for spacing -- and I'm going to introduce it at our next dance! 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>  Though
>>>>>>>>>>>>> what I think Becky found interesting about the variation we're 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> working on
>>>>>>>>>>>>> is that it retains the "pointy hands", which can be useful.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> The one thing that I was confused about when I read your
>>>>>>>>>>>>> message:  you say when you tried the swing variation our group 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> has been
>>>>>>>>>>>>> experimenting with (visual at 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ebotfe2jksbr3dqbjyiuf/Modified-Ballroom-Swing-elbow-hold.jpg?rlkey=ekblzvpc2tk2hkbtfrh9u96au&dl=0
>>>>>>>>>>>>> )
>>>>>>>>>>>>> <https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ebotfe2jksbr3dqbjyiuf/Modified-Ballroom-Swing-elbow-hold.jpg?rlkey=ekblzvpc2tk2hkbtfrh9u96au&dl=0>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> -- you say that you found the grip insufficient, for the arms
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that are holding just above the elbow.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> But in my mind, this hold that me and my partner are doing
>>>>>>>>>>>>> with his left hand my right hand ,  is supposed to be the same as 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the hold
>>>>>>>>>>>>> you use in this video of yours - (but in your case, your left 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> hand and her
>>>>>>>>>>>>> right hand.)
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Maybe I didn't execute it properly, but it is what I intended:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> https://youtu.be/yUbi1B2Edk0?si=HL-3jgI95LtGZBQ_&t=198
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Starts at 3:18.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Thoughts?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Also, is anyone able to answer my question to Winston -
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Is it a given, due to something in the asymmetric nature of
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the hold, that in this video referenced by Allan -
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQ0R5iHT-l8 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> <https://youtu.be/yUbi1B2Edk0?si=HL-3jgI95LtGZBQ_&t=198>   or in 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the photo I shared above via Dropbox, that the Robin's arm will 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> *always* go above the Lark's arm?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Or could the placement of the arms vary depending on the relative 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> height of the two dancing partners?
>>>>>>>>>>>>> (for example with a 6' tall Lark and a 5' tall Robin, would the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Robin's arm still be above the Lark's?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Thanks all!
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Kat K in Halifax
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> John Sweeney via Contra Callers
>>>>>>>>>>>>> <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Thursday, March 14, 2024 7:23 AM
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Hi Kat,
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Yes, I thought you meant something like you show in your
>>>>>>>>>>>>> photo. When you mentioned Jeff's photo I did wonder, as it is 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> what I call a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Foreshortened Hold in my video and brings you closer together 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> rather than
>>>>>>>>>>>>> further apart.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I picked up the Foreshortened Hold from the cover of Zesty
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Contras and love it. I was surprised when I analysed the 600 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> dancers at a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> contra dance at The Flurry and realised that nobody else was 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> using it!
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> We tried your Modified Ballroom Hold Swing and didn't feel
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that it really worked. With my right arm underneath there didn't 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> seem to be
>>>>>>>>>>>>> enough connection to have a really good swing unless Karen 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> gripped my arm.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I felt that my hand might slide down. With my right arm on top 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Karen felt
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that it was pulling on her shoulder even though I wasn't gripping 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> - it was
>>>>>>>>>>>>> just awkward. So, sorry, but I won't be using that one.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Re all the references to sore arms/hands/wrists/etc. The
>>>>>>>>>>>>> biggest problem is that people are told to "give weight". I don't 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> want your
>>>>>>>>>>>>> weight! People misunderstand and lean back or sideways. If people 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> control
>>>>>>>>>>>>> their own weight then all the connection has to do is counter 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> centrifugal
>>>>>>>>>>>>> force and that it not a lot inless you spin really fast.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I always start a Swing lesson by getting the dancers to Buzz
>>>>>>>>>>>>> on the spot BY THEMSELVES. Then when they connect they keep their 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> own
>>>>>>>>>>>>> balance and weight.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I have had major operations on both my shoulders (too much
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Repetitive Strain Injury from another style of dance that is 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> taught badly,
>>>>>>>>>>>>> and then lots of Aerials:
>>>>>>>>>>>>> https://youtu.be/CJnL_Y63AnY?si=RqKHSw5MQmhiuIFT - maybe I
>>>>>>>>>>>>> shouldn't have started doing those in my fifties!). Anyway, I 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> can't afford
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to let people damage my shoulders. With a good partner I can 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Swing at high
>>>>>>>>>>>>> speeds with no problem. Whenever someone leans back or sideways I 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> just slow
>>>>>>>>>>>>> the Swing down and lessen my connection so that they have to take 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> their own
>>>>>>>>>>>>> weight or fall over.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Anyway, if you can get everyone to keep their own weight you
>>>>>>>>>>>>> will find it is much less strain on your arm/hand/wrist.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> The standard Quebecois Swing has the feet interleaved. They
>>>>>>>>>>>>> seem to do it without any problem. It is just a different feel 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> and takes
>>>>>>>>>>>>> some getting used to.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Someone mentioned the challenges with being too close in a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Ceilidh Swing (
>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Ceilidh ) - you
>>>>>>>>>>>>> could always try the Forearm Swing instead (
>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Linked ) - same
>>>>>>>>>>>>> principle, but further apart so no bodily contact.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Happy dancing,
>>>>>>>>>>>>> John
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> John Sweeney, Dancer, England j...@modernjive.com 01233 625
>>>>>>>>>>>>> 362 & 07802 940 574
>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://www.contrafusion.co.uk for Dancing in Kent
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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>>>>>>>>>>>>> becky.liddle--- via Contra Callers
>>>>>>>>>>>>> <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 10:20 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>>> For me, the enforced intimacy is about the proximity of bodies
>>>>>>>>>>>>> and lack of physical air space between them. The huge difference 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> between a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> swing in contra vs., say, agreeing to dance a waltz or a swing 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> dance with
>>>>>>>>>>>>> someone, is that by agreeing to dance you’re agreeing to swing 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> with EVERY
>>>>>>>>>>>>> opposite-role person in the line, not just the person you asked 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to dance.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> That’s a much bigger commitment to physical contact/intimacy than 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> saying
>>>>>>>>>>>>> yes to one person.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> As a side note, before we got rid of a lecherous dancer in our
>>>>>>>>>>>>> group a few years ago, MANY women in our dance group chose their 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> contra
>>>>>>>>>>>>> dance line specifically to avoid having to swing with him. The 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> most
>>>>>>>>>>>>> important intervention was, of course, to establish a code of 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> conduct which
>>>>>>>>>>>>> we used to remove him from the dance group (when it became clear 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> he would
>>>>>>>>>>>>> not agree to change his behaviour). But for women (and others, 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> but it’s
>>>>>>>>>>>>> always been women who have said this to me over the years), when 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> they come
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to a dance not KNOWING whether there MIGHT be a letch in the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> line, it is
>>>>>>>>>>>>> asking quite a lot to expect them to do a ballroom swing with 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> whoever comes
>>>>>>>>>>>>> at them. I am wondering whether the modified ballroom hold might 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> make
>>>>>>>>>>>>> contra feel safer, especially for new dancers.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I’d love to hear what folks who have used both feel about the
>>>>>>>>>>>>> difference.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Becky
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> On Mar 13, 2024, at 4:34 PM, Julian Blechner
>>>>>>>>>>>>> <juliancallsdan...@gmail.com> <juliancallsdan...@gmail.com>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> ballroom hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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>>>>>>>>>>>>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 5:34 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> ballroom hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Is it a matter of the historical social attachment we have in
>>>>>>>>>>>>> our minds with couples dances that use the hold, and romance in 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> our culture?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Is it a physical proximity? (I find ceilidh holds to be
>>>>>>>>>>>>> closer, crossed arms has my hands bearish their belly which has 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> its own
>>>>>>>>>>>>> intimacy to me, though sometimes barrel holds can be done with a 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> bit more
>>>>>>>>>>>>> space - though I wouldn't say the default)
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Is it something else?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Maybe if we looked at the why, it'd give insight to what a
>>>>>>>>>>>>> solution to an alternate swing hold and/or an adjusted mindset 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> might entail?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> In dance,
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Julian Blechner
>>>>>>>>>>>>> He/him
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Western Mass
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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