>>>>> "Ian" == Ian Jackson <ijack...@chiark.greenend.org.uk> writes:
Ian> I know that you do not _set out_ reinforce Ron's position of
Ian> power over his victims. That is not your goal. You are trying
Ian> to come to an amicable settlement. You are trying to get
Ian> everyone to be nice.
Ian> But when people are being oppressed, it is quite wrong to make
Ian> the feelings of the perpetrator a primary consideration. First
Ian> help the victims, by relieving them from the grasp of their
Ian> oppressor.
I disagree with the idea that this situation is about an aggressor and
victims.
I agree such situations exist. I do not think this situation currently
is such a situation.
That is key to my position.
I do not think engaging furthure on this point will serve this
discussion.
