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The Value of Giving |
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Between Ignorance and Enlightenment |
In this world, the wealthy are those who give freely to others. The poor are those who covet only for themselves. Generally speaking, it is easier to provide for oneself than it is for others; however, if we do not till the land and sow the seeds, we will never reap the harvest. If we do not practice the virtue of giving, how can we obtain true wealth? There are, however, two manners of giving. Positive giving is the most wonderful way to give, for it can ensure harmonious interpersonal relationships. A lovely smile, an encouraging word, genuine praise, a little charitable service, or simply giving our warm regards to others can not only beautify our lives, but also purify society. From the moment of birth to the moment of death, we are always on the receiving end of someone else's generosity. Our parents give us unconditional love and care; our teachers give us a chance to gain knowledge and achievements. All kinds of people in society provide us with conditions that are conducive to our daily survival. Now, we must take the time and ask ourselves, what have we done for others in return? What have we given to our families, friends, society, and the world? Negative giving, on the other hand, is a common occurrence in society. There are people who give others worries, heartache, embarrassment, and create obstacles without realizing the universal truths in "what goes around comes around" and "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Even if we engage in positive giving, there are different levels of positive giving that we can offer. To give money or material possessions is the easiest to accomplish; to give praise or offer caring words is a virtue of higher attainment. But to give the teachings of the Buddha is the greatest gift of all. The giver will acquire unsurpassed merit, while the receiver will gain truth, confidence, courage, peace, and ultimate freedom. To give unconditionally is the highest virtue and yet the most difficult to achieve. Since it is the only form of true giving, we must strive for it wholeheartedly by cultivating the habit of giving without any expectation or return. We must learn to give from our hearts. In our lives, others have created many favorable conditions for us, and we must return their kindness with the same zealousness. For the only way to bring the value of giving into full effect is to establish good conditions and affinities among the world's people and societies. By giving to others, we not only express our gratitude and appreciation, we also plant the seeds of fruition. |
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