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Subject: Re: Digest dream-flow.v001.n154
Date: Wed, 22 Sep 1999 21:19:57 EDT
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In a message dated 9/15/99 20:22:26 PM Mountain Daylight Time,
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I wonder if this is so much about HIM. Maybe it is more about you.
Dream Title Unfaithful fiancee. By Lady4life
Date of Dream september 10, 3 or 4am
Dream recently, I had a dream that took place at a
nearby park that I used to play at as a child. The park looked much
different it was cleaned up and looked nice again.>> What do you recall
about yourself at that time in your young life? Are there things hanging on
in you now, that need to be cleaned up? Do you need to revisit this time,
and bring yourself up to date? or is it something you need to let go?
<< A group of friends of
mine were chatting at the park including my fiancee.>> Do you recognize them
as friends of yours now? What can you think of that would connect them to
your time in the park? Is there some 'childish' undercurrent in all this?
Any 'park' is rather temporary.
<< For some unknown
reason I had to leave to go home and I told everyone that I would return in
a short while.>> Was the 'home' you went to the home of your childhood, or
your present home?
<< Upon my return, I noticed my fiancee was talking to an
oriental girl, about my age, who oddly enough had the same first name as
mine. >> do you know any Orientals? What does the term mean to you? Is it
something unknown; foreign?
I thought nothing of it because he is free to talk to whoever he
pleases. >> This is a very adult attitude. It does not fit into the park
theme, does it?
<<... She then asked me if I
thought he was really single, because he was too nice of a guy to be
available. I was shocked when she asked me this because I knew we were
engaged and obviously she didn't. I asked her if he had said he was single.
She said "yes, and I think he was flirting with me." >> Suppose the
"Oriental" is a part of yourself that you are not too much in touch with. Do
you allow yourself to suspect that he, or even you, might not prefer to be
single?
<< I said, "single, is that what
you are? Is that what you want to be? Is that what you tell girls you
are?" he didn't say anything, or even express any emotions.>> Actually, he IS
single, isn't he? And so are you. You have made certain commitments, but
they have not been consecrated nor consummated. Does it seem strange that
you would become so furious, at the report of a stranger? After all, you did
not know WHAT he did, and you gave him no chance to respond. If you had
approached him in real life like that, how would he have behaved? Really, is
flirting that bad?
<> What would he have done at this point, in real life? (If you think about
this, you may see that this Dream is not about him! It may be your
projection.)
<< a friend of mine who is a couple of years younger than me. >> Do you
suppose your own masculine side is underdeveloped? "young?"
<< I started packing Vance's things into boxes. >> This is very telling. HE
did not show up and claim he wanted to leave! YOU are packing him up!
<< Vance and the oriental girl were at, and to my surprise talking and
laughing and basically flirting. I told Vance that if he didn't get his
things out of my house that !>>
Who is it you want to get rid of? Is a part of yourself uncomfortable, and
looking for any excuse to detach?
Comments by Dreamer when I woke up I was still in a horrible state of
mind, I didn't know if what I drempt was real or not. it felt so real that
I couldn't tell dream from reality. I can't even express how real it felt.>>
This is very important. When you think about it, would you (after the shock
wears off) feel relieved to be alone, with the opportunity to start over?
Perhaps by learning more about who YOU are, and what you really want?
I can only comment according to my own experiences. Take what is worth
keeping, and blow the rest away.
Blessings. Joan
Permission to Comment yes_share_comments
Permission Comments Please, if there is anyone who can make sence and
or any interpretations, it would be appreciated greatly. This has my mind
so messed up. Thank you.
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Subject: Re: Digest dream-flow.v001.n157, and 159
Date: Thu, 23 Sep 1999 00:10:03 EDT
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frogbark drm-peace had alin to the right of the middle of the farm if you had
avoided becoming "tall"
chain drm- peace had lain to the right of the fence if you had avoided
becoming "just'
#159
no title drm-peace had lain to the right of the warehouse if you had avoided
"painting"
helpless dream-peace had lain to the right of the house if you had avoided
becoming "kept"
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