John, harsh and abrasive maybe, wrong, no. There is some
misunderstanding - where did I advocate silencing heteros? My
point was that I find it silencing to call someone heterosexist.
By calling the one womans post heterosexist I feel that Dorcy (or
whatever her name is) was trying to shut someone else up.
I was harsh because of the language used in the post indicating
something problematic with assuming that lesbianism is the norm.
I find that homophobic. I appreciate diversity in all its norms.
I'd love to what was wrong anyway, frankly I'm confused. Paige
