In Pursuit of Happiness
  (Better Living From Plato to Prozac)
  Mark Kingwell

If the history of western civilizations thoughts on happiness
is of interest then this is the book to read.  I found a lot
of interesting background and a few new ideas.  Here are some
quotes and comments:

  we cannot judge happiness except on the scale
  of an entire life.

This is a useful concept to differentiate between pleasure
and other short term feelings that are sometimes called
happiness.

At one point the book tried to define happiness by what
it isn't.  I found this "ZEN" like approach complimented
the traditional definitions and provided useful direction.

  Myth 1 - Happiness is easy.
  Myth 2 - You can buy happiness.
  Myth 3 - Happiness is simplicity itself.
  Myth 4 - Happiness is immoral.
  Myth 5 - Happiness is madness.
  Myth 6 - Happiness is elsewhere.
  Myth 7 - Happiness is your birthright.
  Myth 8 - Happiness is fixed.

Our culture seems to accept these myths at times without
noticing the contradictions and flaws.  We think happiness is
related to achieving some goal (elsewhere) or that having
more money is the answer.  Of course, they may play a role
but they are not happiness.
  
Much of the book talks about our expectations and how
that causes problems.  For example, if our culture
defines a unrealistic state of happiness and then encourages
everyone to chase it.. what happens?  We have a lot of
unhappy people thinking happiness is somewhere else.
That is exactly what we have today.

In the end the author doesn't have any grand conclusions
and leaves each of us to find our own answers.  I was
a little disappointed by this and felt we do know a
lot about happiness.  Oh well, each book has a few ideas
and we can harvest those and enjoy them.

If we look at ecology we find it fits here nicely.  The
diversity and chaos is indicated by myth 8 (happiness
is fixed).  The idea of conservation and limits sneaks
in with myth 2 (you can buy happiness).  The idea that
happiness is elsewhere (myth 6) says we can run away from
our problems and not connect to the land.  In other words,
we build happiness under our feet.  The idea that happiness
is easy, wicked, or simple all push us towards irresponsible
actions.  The responsible ecological lifestyle is just
an awareness of how the world works and the limits we all
face.  It isn't hardship and is compatible with our quest
for happiness. This is one viewpoint anyway.

One of the chapters talked about solitude and how most
of us are powerless in the face of large volumes of
information.  This condition has appeared in the last 100
years and requires that we guard our thoughts and attitudes
about happiness.  Unfortunately, the author did not provide
and answers, he just described the problem.

This same idea pops up in many of todays books and i'm
now reading one with the title "Rich Media, Poor Democracy).
A review is coming.

 Feel and be aware of this moment.

jeff

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