*In the name of The kindest * Hello , I hope every body have good times these days.
Yes, I agree with you that being married changes a woman's life more than a man especially when they have children. Fortunately I have no children at the time and we have scheduled not to give birth to any child !!! until 5 or 6 years after our marriage. Yes, we want to go abroad for studying and working but Ali and I first have to improve our english skills especially Ali whose English level is lower than me. Yes yes you are right for the difficulties but i think and i believe that God will help us. And i really ask you to give good information to me about living for example in Australia. I hope everything to proceed as we wish and nothing occurs as obstacle. but i think we will probably stay here for the next 2 years since my M.S. studying will finish next year and also Ali has to serve in military service as other men in iran and it lasts about 2 years , but I think we must use this 2 year opportunity both for saving money and also improving our English skills. If truth be told, I always think of my parents and my only brother. I will really miss them if i don't see them for a week and i don't know what I can do when I live abroad and just I can see then for example twice a year. this thing always put me in a doubt. I had first decided to go to another country for studying and i still also think about it but as you know, my field of studying is a technical one and just studying and studying doesn't make me a professional one in my field except for becoming a university professor and that is not the thing which i wish, I have to and i want to work inorder to practice all the things that I have learnt during these long years of studying and I am informed that Australia is now a good place for software Engineers so I think It's bether for us to Travel to Australia and live some years there in order to both improve our English and also work, and after acquring enough skills, I or Ali can start Phd over there or in another country. What do you think? Do you have any good suggestion for us ? Thanks in advance *Elham* 2008/11/21 pln471 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Hi Everybody and those who took part in this discussion, > > Anu,I think my dream job should change to the Secretary of the State > in the US!lol > You gave eloquent answers to my questions,but how honest?I can't > say.;) > As for sth you're terrible at,my guess would be being humble!lol > > Zulfi,may I ask what you do for a living?In what line of business > would you like to work for? > You sound like a PEOPLE person.Do you gossip or chitchat a lot at work? > lol > If most people of your expertise or age are underpaid like you,don't > think too much about it as long as you enjoy your job. > Otherwise,try your best to get a job abroad where they pay more. > > Leidy,it's quite nervy and challenging to work as an interpreter.I > know it as a fact because I am occaisionally asked to. > Of course,the reward is the be highly-paid after the hard work!;) > Besides being well-paid,the working period is usually short which is > great,isn't it? > Being in a multicultural working environment is really exciting for > me,too! > > Briana,you gave detailed replies to my questions! Thanks a lot! > To compromise or not to compromise is a question of LIFE. > As long as you can live with yourself,who's to judge?;) > There are always nicer people or better opportunities waiting around > the corners for you to open up your eyes! > keep trying,and you won't be disappointed. > > Elham,being married does change a woman's life more than it does to a > man...sadly to say.You seem to have done a great job balancing these 2 > roles of yours. > Do you still intend to continue your studies abroad with your husband > in the future?I remember you wrote about it sometime ago somewhere.;) > You'll be fine at whatever you do because you're devoted and single- > minded.Am I right?;) > > I hope I haven't left out anything that I didn't mention.Thank you all > for your participation in this thread. > Nice weekend to you all! > > On 20 Lis, 15:32, "Elham Moazzen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > *In the name of God > > > > *Hello > > My dream job is becoming a good Software Engineer, a professional one. > and > > now i am trying to achieve it. > > It's about one year that i have leaved the company where i worked in > because > > of my master degree courses. I think it would be good if we could both > study > > and work and not to have a limited time in which all we can do is > studying. > > I am married and i have some responsibilities about home so i can not > study > > full time like my colleagues so sometimes studying becomes to some extent > > difficult for me, but fortunately i have passed the first year > successfully > > and my hubby always helps me. > > I am good at addressing my emotional feelings. everybody says that i > express > > myself well. I am also good at studying, i enjoy it. My hubby always says > > that I are very good as his friend and as his wife. (oh! how much i > > appreciated myself) > > I am terrible at being patient when i am angry !!!!!!!!! WOW > > > > Thank you very much > > please correct my mistakes in writing. > > > > *Elham* > > > > > > > > On Fri, Nov 7, 2008 at 5:18 PM, pln471 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > Hi all frequent cafe goers! > > > > > Some questions to keep both your fingers and mind busy. > > > > > a)your dream job > > > b)what you like about your jobs/studies > > > c)what you find difficult about your job/studies > > > d)something you're good at > > > e)something you're terrible at > > > > > Awaiting any feedbacks with patience!;)- Ukryj cytowany tekst - > > > > - Pokaż cytowany tekst - > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/english_learners?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
