*"You gave eloquent answers to my questions,but how honest? I can't say.;) As for sth you're terrible at,my guess would be being humble!lol" * You are right! I regret being neither honest nor humble.
No one else is. No one wants me to be honest. Truth and honesty died long back. No one has the courage to be honest, or accept honesty. "It has always been a mystery to me how men can feel themselves honoured by the humiliation of their fellow beings. " "Before the throne of the Almighty, man will be judged not by his acts but by his intentions. For God alone reads our hearts." - M K Gandhi *"Elham,being married does change a woman's life more than it does to a man...sadly to say." *Mother is the first school of a child. As soon as a child is born, he/ she gets a taste of this male-dominant society. Boys are not supposed to wash, clean, cook or help their mothers in any way. When these boys grow up and get married, the idea of women being the lesser sex gets deeply rooted in them. You are right that after marriage, a woman's life changes much more than that of a man. A man's life becomes more luxurious and pleasant while a woman's life becomes tougher. Even if wife is the bread winner, and the husband sits idle, the wife is supposed to be responsible for washing, cleaning, cooking, taking care of kids and house-hold responsibilities. It is women who need permission from their husbands for everything, not men. Men are, as women have made them. They are themselves responsible for their plight. Each woman has a choice : to rule or to serve. Men are much weaker than women, emotionally or mentally. "I have worshipped woman as the living embodiment of the spirit of service and sacrifice." "Man can never be a woman's equal in the spirit of selfless service with which nature has endowed her. " "Fear has its use but cowardice has none." "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. " *-Gandhi *regards anu* * --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/english_learners?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
