Hi Pln,
Sorry for the late reply. Its easy to be a silent observer, judging others
and hiding oneself beneath masks and layers, than to reveal oneself. :-)
Q1. Do you/Have you had to share a room with anyone else?
I'd to share room for the first time, when I went out of my town, for higher
studies, after high school. I'd to share the room with 3 other persons.
After that, I continuously kept sharing room with different persons, one or
many, for many years, until I finished college.
I stayed alone in the final year of college, as the college hostel used to
provide single-bed rooms to final year students. During job days, I used to
stay alone.
After leaving job, I again started sharing my apartment with others, as it
was cheaper. I stay alone at my hometown these days.
Q2. What are/were the advantages and disadvantages of this?
I've enjoyed both, living with friends, as well as alone. There was
conflict and uneasiness in the beginning, but it has cleared now, giving way
to harmony, joy and peace.
Its always so hard for me to explain myself, and I know that people have
little time to read what I or anyone else writes. This is why I prefer
silence.
Q3. Are you easily annoyed by other people's noise?
I've been with so many people, having different tastes, and have tried to
adapt, without complaining. They've made me listen to all kinds of music, tv
programmes, etc. lol
I doubt that I'd have married a few of them if I they were not of the same
gender as me LOL. Love is sacrifice.
Q4. Do you enjoy being alone?
People need company to be understood, to share their feelings with others,
to help and to be helped. Its better to *'enjoy loneliness*' when there is
no one to understand you, or with whom you could share your feelings, isn't
it ?
Please forgive me for any mistakes, or if you found anything offending or
upsetting. I've never intended to hurt or cause pain to anyone ever.
*
**This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for
complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the
philosophy is kindness.*
*-Dalai Lama*
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