Hi pln and all, I'd like to write to you too,every time I open Gmail.LOL But,I don't mind my writing on the frontage of Group.ha
Carol,pronunciating as "ke ai",is such a good name. Ha,I try to imagine what kind of girl her is in real world.She must be intelligent and funny as you. What does it mean,"she turned out to be quite the opposite strangely!"? I didn't get it! About My EQ,What do you think about it? I don't know if my EQ is good enough.Nobody measure it for me before. I feel that you are a kind elder friend of mine.And I told you what kind of feeling I have. My life is better than before now.THANKS.LOL I have moved to Chongqing university where I don't need worry about food thing here. And,there are many students having dreams. I have a idea some days ago,trying to figure out where is my way to happiness. Because of I have no rich relatives and powerful friends,I have to be a place where young having dreams,passion,and ideas. After studying English for a long time,I think I should choose a field where I can use my English. I don't think it's a good idea studying English only now for me. A direction is needed. Because of my age is 23 now.And I have a mechanic Engineer bachelor degree of Chongqing university. I hope I can get a opportunity studying on board. That's my dream now.LOL Present! You didn't promise me.I know it.LOL Serdar,best wish to his test. I have taken iBT test before,Hard Time. If there are anything I can help him,I'd love to do it. Best Regards Charles 2009/7/14 pln471 <[email protected]>: > > Hi Charles and all, > > I must be addicted to writing to you everyday!LOL > You know I hate to see my Id shown as the top poster on the home > page...:( > > The English name of my niece is Carol. > It's a very similar pronunciation to Chinese which word by word means > lovable and tender. > I used to make fun of my sister that by naming her daughter that > way,she turned out to be quite the opposite strangely! > > Charles,I underestimated your EQ!LOL > Thank you for your perception of the real me... > > But I didn't promise you a present yet!:) > > Serdar spent his last 7 months in Sydney attending some language > course,so that he can pass ILETS Exam. > He was another one who said,'Why didn't I meet you earlier?' before > you recently...:) > It wasn't some effective course for him unfortunately.:( > > Well,I'm looking forward to his messages,too,but let's just let him > get rid of his jet lag first! > It has to be a very tiring and long journey! > > Nice day to you and all! > Pln > > > On Jul 13, 3:16 pm, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: >> Hi pln and all, >> >> Ha,as I imagined,you are not a strict teacher. >> Also,I think you are always a good friend(with people in any age). >> The unreasonable rules,which you warned me,must be some rules good for >> others. >> You are very kind. >> I know it. >> >> Oh,you have "ordered" a professional helper.Great! >> Your niece know more Chinese language than me,even through I am in china. >> What should I call her? >> >> Libra >> LIBRA, The Croatian People's Party - Liberal Democrats, a political >> party in Croatia. >> Is this LIBRA?LOL >> >> My birthday isn't far away. >> I am looking forward it. >> Present!Present!!LOL >> >> Oh,great!!I like Turkey and Sydney. >> Look forward the writing of him about this traveling. >> Must be interesting!!! >> >> Nice days in coming! >> Best regards >> Charles >> >> 2009/7/12 pln471 <[email protected]>: >> >> >> >> >> >> > Hi Charles Elham and all, >> >> > Oh,no,I'm neither a strict mother(my husband is)nor a strict teacher(I >> > used to be very strict to my children students),but unfortunately a >> > difficult person to be friends with who's got a lot of unreasonable >> > rules...LOL >> > Consider it as a warning,and don't ask me later why I didn't warn you ! >> > LOL >> >> > My 21-year-old niece who's a Chinese language & literature graduate >> > this June has been 'ordered' to help me.;) >> > She's a Libra who was born by a Libra,my eldest sister,who shares your >> > birthday!;) >> >> > Sorry to confuse you! >> > It's just a reminder to a new member,Sedar,who's flying home to Turkey >> > from Sydney today... >> > He's been a silent member reading everything about me without any >> > feedbacks,so I figure it's time for him to start writing something >> > back!LOL >> >> > Nice Sunday to you and everyone else! >> > And Happy Belated 25th Birthday,Elham!!! >> > Pln >> >> > On Jul 11, 5:22 am, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> Hi pln, >> >> >> I feel so sad,because that I am in trouble but I don't want to be normal. >> >> I need support.LOL >> >> >> It's Hard to imagine that you are strict.I don't believe it.LOL >> >> >> Oh,about teaching language to adult. >> >> I think Liyang,who is created CrazyEnglish in china,is doing great >> >> now.He has tricks. >> >> >> If there are any problems of understanding Mandarin,I'll do my best to >> >> explain it in English. >> >> >> BTW,Serdar,a promise is a promise! >> >> I don't understandLOL >> >> What is it? >> >> It's Not to me? >> >> >> Good days to you and all >> >> Charles >> >> >> 2009/7/10 pln471 <[email protected]>: >> >> >> > Hi Charles and all, >> >> >> > I want to thank you for the links you found for me first though I >> >> > haven't found time to browse them yet! >> >> >> > I feel sad,too knowing that I made you feel sad...:( >> >> >> > Please don't be! >> >> > 'Unique' or 'special' aren't exactly the words I usually use to >> >> > describe people I meet. >> >> > For your information once more,I seldom give compliments to others as >> >> > I am actually quite strict and stingy when it comes to praising... >> >> > Let's just say it's a fatal weakness of most Capricorns!LOL >> >> >> > BTW,Serdar,a promise is a promise!;) >> >> > I'm still waiting!LOL >> >> >> > Anyway,nice weekend to you all! >> >> > Pln >> >> >> > On Jul 9, 3:58 am, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> >> Hi Pln, >> >> >> >> Um...I know it's your work to help young.But I still feel sad.LOL >> >> >> I want to be unique and special.LOL >> >> >> >> It's my pleasure to help you. >> >> >> >> About Chinese,My experience is reading and writing as much as you can >> >> >> too. >> >> >> It's no different with English. >> >> >> >> The pronunciation of mandarin(official Chinese language)could be a >> >> >> problem in teaching,which was created based on Beijing dialect and it >> >> >> didn't learn well by most of adult in china(often live in southwest of >> >> >> china being far from Beijing). >> >> >> >> I am lived in Chongqing,so I can't help you this part. >> >> >> >> Also,the young and old in china don't speak the same kind of words. >> >> >> I don't communicate with them very well yet.Many of them always talk >> >> >> about communism, wrote by words we young difficult to read. >> >> >> I love my country and also I worry about it. >> >> >> >> As the process of acquiring English,I think the Chinese TV show like >> >> >> "春节联欢晚会"and"郭德刚相声"are very good.Also,there are some Chinese movies >> >> >> produced in USA. >> >> >> >> About the reading,I don't have a good idea to teach a adult, I am >> >> >> still young and don't have experience of teaching adult. >> >> >> >> There is a website,which is the biggest Chinese news >> >> >> site.http://www.sina.com/ >> >> >> >> The biggest SNS.http://www.xiaonei.com >> >> >> >> I hope it's helpful. >> >> >> >> Good days to you and all >> >> >> Best Regards >> >> >> Charles >> >> >> >> On Thu, Jul 9, 2009 at 6:00 AM, pln471<[email protected]> wrote: >> >> >> >> > Hi Charles and all, >> >> >> >> > I try not to be partial as a fair teacher,but do you really think >> >> >> > it's >> >> >> > possible ?LOL >> >> >> >> > OK.Now you have got a task to help me out here! >> >> >> > I received a phonecall last week to teach martial arts' students in >> >> >> > this town Chinese...anytime soon! >> >> >> >> > I have been teaching my sons and their classmates aged 5 to 8 and a >> >> >> > 15 >> >> >> > year-old boy basic Chinese,and that was all! >> >> >> > How am I going to teach those adults? >> >> >> > With which textbook? >> >> >> > And where to begin with? >> >> >> >> > It is somewhat peculiar to me if you come to think of it that it's >> >> >> > more difficult to teach your own mother tongue than to learn a >> >> >> > foreign >> >> >> > language... >> >> >> > That's my problem to solve now...:( >> >> >> > Any ideas? >> >> >> > It's your turn to help me!LOL >> >> >> >> > Good night,oh no,good morning to you! >> >> >> > Pln >> >> >> >> > On Jul 8, 1:27 pm, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> >> >> Hi Pln , >> >> >> >> >> Um... I am just one of hundreds.Sad!!LOL >> >> >> >> I thought the reason you help me is I am special.LOL >> >> >> >> >> Most of people consider their own profit more.We have to admit it. >> >> >> >> Um...Okay,I'll protect myself more well. >> >> >> >> Fortunately,I always meet good people.They took advantages from me >> >> >> >> but >> >> >> >> helping me latter.Lucky! >> >> >> >> >> I am trying to learn how to motive or inspire others.I think it's >> >> >> >> very >> >> >> >> important. >> >> >> >> um...First,know precisely what they want or need.I think it need >> >> >> >> observation and communication.For example,meeting a person.We figure >> >> >> >> out why are they here first,then ask what can I do for you?Does it >> >> >> >> like this? >> >> >> >> >> About trust,the key point in my opinion is keeping your words,isn't >> >> >> >> it? >> >> >> >> >> Simple! >> >> >> >> >> What does a Great person,a Rich person or a powerful person think >> >> >> >> about it? Curious. >> >> >> >> >> Good days are coming to us!! >> >> >> >> Best Regards >> >> >> >> Charles >> >> >> >> >> On Wed, Jul 8, 2009 at 5:29 PM, pln471<[email protected]> wrote: >> >> >> >> >> > Hi Charles and all, >> >> >> >> >> > I have no idea how many young people I have helped so far...;) >> >> >> >> > My motto is to live and help live. >> >> >> >> > It doesn't really matter to me how many there are,as long as one >> >> >> >> > like >> >> >> >> > you finds me helpful and expresses your happiness to me >> >> >> >> > straight!;) >> >> >> >> >> > People are generally selfish unfortunately. >> >> >> >> > I don't suggest you to come out of your way to meet with their >> >> >> >> > requests or demands unless you feel OK with it and are willing to >> >> >> >> > do >> >> >> >> > it despite their taking you for granted... >> >> >> >> > What I'm trying to warn you is that once you feel you're used,stop >> >> >> >> > what you do. >> >> >> >> > Friends are difficult to find,but you can't feel used to gain >> >> >> >> > friendship because it isn't...:( >> >> >> >> >> > To successfully motivate people,you need to know precisely what >> >> >> >> > they >> >> >> >> > want from you or to win their trust and respect,that is their >> >> >> >> > heart.;) >> >> >> >> > People like to feel valued and that you are in the same boat with >> >> >> >> > them. >> >> >> >> >> > Well,that's my 2 cents only! >> >> >> >> > I hope other members here can share with us their own findings!!! >> >> >> >> >> > Great day to us all! >> >> >> >> > Pln >> >> >> >> >> > On Jul 7, 4:21 pm, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> >> >> >> Hi Pln, >> >> >> >> >> >> I have read Warren's 5 articles,which make me more >> >> >> >> >> confidence.:)I have >> >> >> >> >> studied English as exactly the way he introduced to us for a >> >> >> >> >> year.Great! >> >> >> >> >> >> Certainly,my life is better having you around.I can feel the >> >> >> >> >> changes >> >> >> >> >> of my life after writing to you.Have you helped a lot of young >> >> >> >> >> like >> >> >> >> >> me?I guess it must be a bunch of. >> >> >> >> >> >> Even through I am good at figuring out the purpose of others,I >> >> >> >> >> am not >> >> >> >> >> a proactive person yet.I don't know how to influence >> >> >> >> >> others.There are >> >> >> >> >> always some problems when I am trying to influence others to do >> >> >> >> >> something. >> >> >> >> >> From the experience done by ours to me,I figure out some >> >> >> >> >> skills.First,making others believe what he do can get >> >> >> >> >> repay.Second,attracting others with something he desire and then >> >> >> >> >> implying he can get it if you do something.Third,they have to do >> >> >> >> >> it.etc >> >> >> >> >> >> What I am doing for connections is lowing my need and asking few >> >> >> >> >> help >> >> >> >> >> from others and give them more(I am good at computer >> >> >> >> >> things,which can >> >> >> >> >> help people surrounding me).But,I don't think I can still develop >> >> >> >> >> connections like this in work place.LOL >> >> >> >> >> >> About the responding earlier time,let me recall,I read >> >> >> >> >> dictionaries >> >> >> >> >> and professional essays only during those time,which is >> >> >> >> >> difficult for >> >> >> >> >> me.LOLSo I make myself bad mood and waste many time.LOL During >> >> >> >> >> those >> >> >> >> >> time,I read and listen english material without tutor because I >> >> >> >> >> believed myself too much and I didn't go out to find >> >> >> >> >> one.Bad!!LOLLOLLOL >> >> >> >> >> >> Thank you very much for the materials.They are >> >> ... >> >> read more >>- Hide quoted text - >> >> - Show quoted text - > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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