On Saturday, November 22, 2014 5:30:21 PM UTC+1, hn8 wrote: > > well, I really find it difficult to trust people nowadays as most of them > are driven by their own motives or personal interests , especially those I > am in daily contact. From my experience, you can see the regular actions > for a person to decide whether you can trust him or not. To me , I trust my > family members,my closed friends and of course every new individual I meet > till I discover the opposite. > > if someone ever turns out to be dishonest, then I think I will leave him > peacefully and withdraw from his life. yea simply like this. > Hello Pauline, Hani and all,
My dilemma is though I remain civil with most people I intersect with, I don't trust that easily if it concerns my private matters. I may share my ideas, opinions and thoughts with them, but I keep an open mind mindfully. If I come to trust someone, sometimes it's something intuitive and sometimes after long observations, I won't like to be tricked, lied to or betrayed. I know no one is perfect including me, but if they ask for my trust and promise me they won't fail me, they have to be consistent, or I will do as Hai said he does, keep myself distant though feeling hurt. I have given second chances due to women's weakness to feel guilty of toughening up when they apologize and ask for another chance. Then most likely, they make the same mistakes without surprise. Most people are just used to being careless and selfish. To commit to a relationship no matter it's work, couplehood, marriage or other social networks is a serious matter and should be regarded sacredly and respectfully... However when I travel, I rely on strangers' kindness and hospitality, I have no choice but trusting them and have faith in them to treat me well and not to lead me to danger with my instinct. I have been asked by lots of people who have trust issue which comes first, love, trust or respect. ? What do you all say ? Good night and great week ahead ! Claire -- -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast Study Group" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout.
