Hi Patrice,

Thinking about the Code of conduct.

When I attended an Akimbo thing (Seth Godin’s community), I got "Community 
Practices <https://akimbo.com/communitypractices>" in the pre-event info. This 
way at the event we could "jump right in”.

Kindly,
Thomas Perret


> On 12. Oct 2023, at 11.18, Patrice Pederson via OSList <[email protected]> 
> wrote:
> 
> Apologies for the radio silence! I did send quite a long response, but 
> apparently it was rejected because my attachments (the "invitation") were too 
> large. But that rejection email hid in an overflowing email. 
> 
> But I do want to tell you all how deeply grateful for all of the thought and 
> consideration that you are putting into this event. I really felt oh-so-far 
> out on a limb just a few days ago, and now I feel wonderfully supported! 
> 
> As for the Code of Conduct, I absolutely love everything you wrote Birgitt, 
> and love what you wrote Peggy. The phrase "safe spaces" is actually a bit 
> triggering to me, because I actually think that safety and growth are 
> juxtaposed. And at the same time, while this event is my baby, I have a large 
> planning committee for whom this event feels extremely radical. One of our 
> partners is an inter-governmental body 
> <https://www.state.gov/international-religious-freedom-or-belief-alliance/> 
> comprised of 43 nations. Moreover, we have just pivoted from a one-to-three 
> invitation method, to promoting the event publicly on social media. So an 
> application to participate and the code of conduct are the only guardrails we 
> have for my partners to not feel completely out of control. 
> 
> But we haven't yet nailed down the exact content of the code, so I am *very* 
> open to suggestions. Our seed document (which is used by the International 
> Religious Freedom Roundtable) was six single-spaced pages long with 
> addendums! But in our last meeting we agreed that ours should be no more than 
> five memorable bullet points. Basically, I want the participants to realize, 
> in advance, that literally every single person there is going to disagree 
> with them about something, and most of them are going to disagree with their 
> most deeply held personal beliefs, and that's the whole point. Even in the 
> previously mentioned Roundtable with all of the rules, fights break out 
> semi-regularly--and this is among adults who work in this field 
> professionally! The law of two feet is a great way to frame it. At the 
> Roundtable we say that "we work on an opt-in basis" (ie, if you don't agree 
> with someone, just don't support their initiative), and yet still with the 
> fights. 
> 
> Bottom line, we need to have something, but I want to frame it with a lens of 
> personal responsibility--both about giving and receiving offense. Very open 
> to suggestions on wording here. 
> 
> [It's funny, re-reading my own words two days later I do feel different. 
> Peggy's words were quite powerful. I also realized that these young people 
> are quite different from the old guard in the religious freedom space. 80% of 
> them are peacemakers. They're not in it to defend their own religion against 
> others' threats. So I am feeling pretty good about that. We do need to have 
> something which we call a Code of Conduct, but maybe that is just an 
> explanation of the law of two feet/clicks. IDK, or maybe seven days will just 
> fly by with me buried in email and I won't get around to it!]
> 
> As for your other comments about thinking past the Summit, this is exactly 
> what we are trying to do. I am always saying "we are building a movement, not 
> just a meeting." We already launched a secure chat platform for participants 
> to communicate before, during, and after the event. We have and are massively 
> upgrading a resources directory for jobs, internships, other events, and 
> trainings that people can participate in after. And we have various avenues 
> for ongoing support of initiatives that either spring from or develop through 
> the event. This is the part that I have given 1,000x more thought to than the 
> actual event (which is perhaps why I may be making mistakes like having 
> everyone in one room). 
> 
> But I'm not sure that I understand what you mean by all one room actually. 
> We'd all be in the same room for the opening "circle," but then after that in 
> 50 breakout rooms. What am I missing? 
> 
> Line suggested gathering together every six hours or so . I am liking that 
> idea but haven't yet given it sufficient thought. 
> 
> As for tech support, we are recruiting volunteers to help with that--more at 
> the beginning while we get things nailed down, and then we'll have small 
> backup teams in Manilla/Bangkok, Erbil/Sri Jayawardenepura Kotte, and 
> London/Lagos. My husband is a tech genius, and he and I will both be online 
> for the first 15 hours, and then when he sleeps we have one other technical 
> member of the planning committee who will be on duty, and then while I sleep 
> the lovely Maria from above will facilitate from Spain. Either my husband or 
> I will be online the whole time. 
> 
> I am still very much figuring out what facilitation will look like for this 
> event, and I am sure that Maria will know a lot about that, but I am very 
> open to suggestions on that as well! The "take a nap" approach sounds quite 
> appealing at the moment! 
> 
> Some people asked to see the "invitation." Here  
> <https://www.facebook.com/FoRBsFuture/posts/pfbid0KEiYZceMaMvgBvTh8FDXioriXpidTtG1QWd7apqXCXhJwnxa2W4MsJsH1KcGJfGrl?notif_id=1696919462475645&notif_t=feedback_reaction_generic&ref=notif>is
>  what we posted to Facebook/Instagram the other day. 
> 
> I'm open to any and all other suggestions. And thank you all again so much! I 
> really deeply appreciate it!!
> 
> Sincerely,
> Patrice
> 
> On Tue, Oct 10, 2023 at 3:02 PM Peggy Holman <[email protected] 
> <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>> Birgitt - Kudos for all of the wonderful guidance! I particularly agree that 
>> a Code of Conduct beyond the Law of Two Feet is a distraction. 
>> Patrice - if people want a code of conduct, I suggest providing some 
>> language around the Law of Two Feet. At heart, the Law of Two Feet is an 
>> invitation to take responsibility for what you love. I find people are quite 
>> willing to work through their differences when connecting around something 
>> that matters to them.
>> 
>> You can speak to the Law of Two Feet as a foot of passion and a foot of 
>> responsibility. With passion, you may have a good time or yell a lot but not 
>> much gets done. With responsibility, things may get done but meaning is 
>> missing. Together, passion and responsibility lead to important things 
>> happening.
>> 
>> You can speak to the Law of Two Feet as guidance to move from a group if you 
>> are not learning, contributing, having a good time, or need to cool off. It 
>> is also guidance to stand for what you believe in. Whatever moves you.
>> 
>> I find the Law of Two Feet and the principles that emerge from it create a 
>> welcoming space, where people feel they can show up authentically, express 
>> themselves, and connect with others. Those conditions send a message to 
>> those present that they belong. Because that combination — I can be myself 
>> and belong — violence just doesn’t happen. I have been in groups where no 
>> doubt many people carried weapons. In using Open Space since 1996, I have 
>> never seen violence.
>> 
>> 
>> On another subject, I believe Patrice said they have 50 breakout spaces. 
>> That means over the several days they can handle way more than 50 topics.
>> 
>> Like you, Birgitt, my experience is the number of sessions per group size 
>> drops as the group gets larger. My assumption has been that that is because 
>> someone else posts something similar to what they were thinking of. 
>> Different from you, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a group of 100 post 60-80 
>> topics! I tend to estimate 1/3 of people post something in a group of 100. 
>> As an example, the session I just did in Philadelphia had 120 people with 
>> one day in Open Space. We had about 30 topics announced and after some 
>> combining, 25 sessions held.  (Notes are here 
>> <https://journalismthatmatters.org/engagingemergence/session-notes/>.) By 
>> the time there are 1,000 people, it is more like 200 sessions — about 20% of 
>> participants. I find fewer people post a session in an online OS. I don’t 
>> know why that is the case.
>> 
>> I did a 2-day, 3 hours/per day online OS in 2021 — during the pandemic — 
>> with 350 people. Largely because of the limits of 100 people in a 
>> Google-doc, which we used for notes, we split into three cohorts. The way we 
>> did it was to open with everyone in one Zoom space to do the welcome, 
>> including speaking to the purpose and the OS principles and law. Then we 
>> asked people to move to one of three spaces to announce and post topics. We 
>> split them loosely by last name (A-F, G-M, O-Z+). By loosely, we let people 
>> know that if they were there with a friend or weren’t comfortable with 
>> technology, they were welcome to go where it was best for them. We created a 
>> landing page with the Zoom links and links to the three agenda walls so that 
>> people could move to any session they wanted. We came back together as a 
>> whole group for evening news.
>> 
>> We had a process host and a tech host for each of the three Zoom spaces. Our 
>> team did a walkthrough beforehand to work through anything we hadn’t 
>> anticipated. It all was incredibly smooth.
>> 
>> We considered QiqoChat, which I agree is a terrific platform for support 
>> beyond just the event. Because we were dealing with a low threshold for tech 
>> skills, we opted for Zoom, which we figured they had used before and Google 
>> Docs. And we set them up in Groups.io <http://groups.io/> for ongoing 
>> connection.
>> 
>> The session notes are all in this website: 
>> https://reimaginingbookstores.org/.
>> 
>> Patrice, I hope some of this is useful to you. Do let us know how things go.
>> 
>> Warmly,
>> Peggy
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>>> On Oct 10, 2023, at 11:40 AM, Birgitt Williams via OSList 
>>> <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>>> 
>>> Hi Patrice,
>>> I've looked through the website. Love what you say (and the graphic) about 
>>> OST. I understand you have facilitated a number of OST events in the past 
>>> and that your reach out for support is that this one is for a larger group 
>>> than you have previously worked with...and that it is online. Probably you 
>>> have past experience with offering OST online. Online certainly requires 
>>> additional skills, planning.
>>> 
>>> I find that the OST format, exactly as outlined in Harrison's Open Space: a 
>>> User's Guide, is the best formula to tap into the field of infinite 
>>> possibilities. I believe that underpinning the field of possibilities is 
>>> the field of love. Making adjustments to the OST format, adding things, has 
>>> an effect on accessing that field of love. I have a mantra for myself of 
>>> "don't put up blocks to love" when I am preparing for my OST meetings.
>>> 
>>> With larger groups in an online environment, I prefer to use Qiqochat 
>>> because of the added features that I value. You  are fortunate that your 
>>> husband is your tech guru and thus the risk of technology problems is 
>>> greatly reduced.
>>> 
>>> With larger groups online, I have looked at the dynamics of people posting 
>>> topics and fully participating. In my experience, voices get silenced (by 
>>> personal choice) when there are a lot of people. I find that about 100 
>>> people in the group, maybe less, has more people involved in posting 
>>> topics. A group of 100 might post 60-80 topics. For this reason, I prefer 
>>> to have concurrent OST meetings with about 100 in a zoom room, having the 
>>> opening, posting topics. They can all be part of the same summit. Then in 
>>> each zoom room of posted topics, people do head off to break out rooms. 
>>> With less people, greater and hopefully lasting connections get made. If I 
>>> read your information correctly, you are anticipating 50 topics. With 1000 
>>> people, there should be many more than that. It may be the least likely 
>>> topic that makes the biggest difference.
>>> 
>>> I go back to Peggy's advice about the importance of a clear and compelling 
>>> purpose (theme) for the meeting. If you get that right, the rest sorts 
>>> itself out within the simple structure offered by OST. I read through the 
>>> website, and couldn't find the specific purpose (theme) for your OST 
>>> summit. Examples of themes are "issues and opportunities for freedom of 
>>> religion and beliefs for youth"; "opportunities gained from our diversity 
>>> to strengthen freedom of religion and beliefs for youth"; and the one that 
>>> I think is most suitable in view of your desire to create a movement is 
>>> "issues and opportunities for developing and sustaining a movement for 
>>> religion and beliefs for youth". It is important to know what your central 
>>> attractor field is, what people are being invited to. 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> I am particularly attracted to OST events that are intended to make a 
>>> change in the future. I have studied the outcomes of OST events for some 
>>> decades now, those that have long lasting effects, and those that might 
>>> have those effects but they are not visible. I am less interested 
>>> personally, in evaluating an event based on the wonderful comments that 
>>> participants always make at the end of an OST in the closing circle. This 
>>> is a bias I have. What are people saying, what matters to them, four months 
>>> after the OST event? If set up well, that long term effect is much more 
>>> likely.
>>> 
>>> Thank you for asking for suggestions. I have offered what I have. I wish 
>>> you great success. 
>>> Warmly,
>>> Birgitt
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
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>>> On Mon, Oct 9, 2023 at 10:45 PM Patrice Pederson <[email protected] 
>>> <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>>>> Wow. I so appreciate all of the thought and consideration that you Birgitt 
>>>> and others have given to this! What an incredible community!!
>>>> 
>>>> As for the Code of Conduct, I absolutely love everything you wrote 
>>>> Birgitt. The phrase "safe spaces" is actually a bit triggering to me, 
>>>> because I actually think that safety and growth are juxtaposed. And at the 
>>>> same time, while this event is my baby, I have a large planning committee 
>>>> for whom this event feels extremely radical. One of our partners is an 
>>>> inter-governmental body 
>>>> <https://www.state.gov/international-religious-freedom-or-belief-alliance/>
>>>>  comprised of 43 nations. Moreover, we have just pivoted from a 
>>>> one-to-three invitation method, to promoting the event publicly on social 
>>>> media. So an application to participate and the code of conduct are the 
>>>> only guardrails we have for my partners to not feel completely out of 
>>>> control. 
>>>> 
>>>> But we haven't yet nailed down the exact content of the code, so I am 
>>>> *very* open to suggestions. Our seed document (which is used by the 
>>>> International Religious Freedom Roundtable) was six single-spaced pages 
>>>> long with addendums! But in our last meeting we agreed that ours should be 
>>>> no more than five memorable bullet points. Basically, I want the 
>>>> participants to realize, in advance, that literally every single person 
>>>> there is going to disagree with them about something, and most of them are 
>>>> going to disagree with their most deeply held personal beliefs, and that's 
>>>> the whole point. Even in the previously mentioned Roundtable with all of 
>>>> the rules, fights break out semi-regularly--and this is among adults who 
>>>> work in this field professionally! The law of two feet is a great way to 
>>>> frame it. At the Roundtable we say that "we work on an opt-in basis" (ie, 
>>>> if you don't agree with someone, just don't support their initiative), and 
>>>> yet still with the fights. 
>>>> 
>>>> Bottom line, we need to have something, but I want to frame it with a lens 
>>>> of personal responsibility--both about giving and receiving offense. Very 
>>>> open to suggestions on wording here. 
>>>> 
>>>> As for your other comments, this is exactly what we are trying to do. I am 
>>>> always saying "we are building a movement, not just a meeting." We already 
>>>> launched a secure chat platform for participants to communicate before, 
>>>> during, and after the event. We have and are massively upgrading a 
>>>> resources directory for jobs, internships, other events, and trainings 
>>>> that people can participate in after. And we have various avenues for 
>>>> ongoing support of initiatives that either spring from or develop through 
>>>> the event. This is the part that I have given 1,000x more thought to than 
>>>> the actual event (which is perhaps why I may be making mistakes like 
>>>> having everyone in one room). 
>>>> 
>>>> But I'm not sure that I understand what you mean by all one room actually. 
>>>> We'd all be in the same room for the opening "circle," but then after that 
>>>> in 50 breakout rooms. What am I missing? 
>>>> 
>>>> As for tech support, we are recruiting volunteers to help with that--more 
>>>> at the beginning while we get things nailed down, and then we'll have 
>>>> small backup teams in Manilla/Bangkok, Erbil/Sri Jayawardenepura Kotte, 
>>>> and London/Lagos. My husband is a tech genius, and he and I will both be 
>>>> online for the first 15 hours, and then when he sleeps we have one other 
>>>> technical member of the planning committee who will be on duty, and then 
>>>> while I sleep the lovely Maria from above will facilitate from Spain. 
>>>> Either my husband or I will be online the whole time. 
>>>> 
>>>> I am still very much figuring out what facilitation will look like for 
>>>> this event, and I am sure that Maria will know a lot about that, but I am 
>>>> very open to suggestions on that as well!
>>>> 
>>>> I'm attaching our Instagram campaign which we are launching tonight (late 
>>>> yes, but like I mentioned we recently pivoted invitation strategies). And 
>>>> for more information, our website is pretty good, https://forbsfuture.org/ 
>>>> 
>>>> I'm open to any and all other suggestions! 
>>>> 
>>>> Thank you!
>>>> Patrice
>>>> 
>>>> On Mon, Oct 9, 2023 at 3:41 PM Birgitt Williams via OSList 
>>>> <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>>>>> Hi Patrice,
>>>>> I have followed the thread about your 24 hour summit using Open Space 
>>>>> Technology as your method. I'll offer my perspective.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Ditch the Code of Conduct--it doesn't belong in an OST meeting. It is 
>>>>> usually counter-productive in any participatory meeting as it closes the 
>>>>> space. Instead, include something in your opening that emphasizes that it 
>>>>> is up to each person to see to their own safety within the meeting. If 
>>>>> they are not learning something, nor contributing, use the Law of Two 
>>>>> Feet (Law of Mobility) to be somewhere that they are contributing, are 
>>>>> learning. You could include that in this meeting method, self-leadership 
>>>>> is expected and the Law of Two Feet applies if a person isn't feeling 
>>>>> safe in a particular topic group. People are capable of looking after 
>>>>> their own safety with the Law of Two Feet. In my experience, a 
>>>>> facilitator cannot guarantee safe space for anyone. As soon as two people 
>>>>> are together, there is no guarantee of safe space. The Law of Two Feet 
>>>>> places the responsibility for feeling safe, with the person themselves. 
>>>>> 
>>>>> You still have time to create a good wrap around for your OST-Rather than 
>>>>> planning for it as an event, plan for it to be more than that. If it were 
>>>>> me setting out to do what you are doing, I would talk to Lucas Cioffi 
>>>>> <http://[email protected]/> at QiqoChat. He has a wonderful product that 
>>>>> includes a wrap around the OST meeting. He can set up a garden for 
>>>>> butterflies and bumblebees to find each other. His product can be 
>>>>> organized for people to stay connected, have chats, keep adding to their 
>>>>> topics, and so much more. It is my assumption that you want to create 
>>>>> something that makes the greatest difference possible, and not limit the 
>>>>> outcomes unnecessarily. Lucas can help you think this through. 
>>>>> 
>>>>> Why all the people in one OST room? - I am wondering what you want to 
>>>>> accomplish by doing so. Why not have a few OST rooms available with 
>>>>> separate meetings of the summit taking place simulteneously ie 60-100 
>>>>> people per room. The set up you are creating all depends on what you are 
>>>>> setting out to accomplish. Please do share. I don't think you have yet 
>>>>> shared the invitation that people have been sent. I would like to see 
>>>>> what they are being invited to.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Technology - I see you asking for a co-facilitator for part of what you 
>>>>> are doing with this OST. How are you providing the tech support as well 
>>>>> as the facilitation support? We usually have some people responsible for 
>>>>> the tech support and others responsible for the facilitation. What have 
>>>>> you got sorted? 
>>>>> 
>>>>> From what I have seen you post, you have your arms around an event with a 
>>>>> lot of potential to create positive outcomes for the participants and in 
>>>>> the world. I am not sure, from what I have read, that you are making the 
>>>>> most of your opportunity for longer term outcomes...something 
>>>>> sustainable, not just an event.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Please tell us more about your behind the scenes thinking.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Warmly,
>>>>> Birgitt
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> Birgitt Williams
>>>>> Senior consultant-author-mentor to leaders and consultants  
>>>>> Specialist in organizational and systemic transformation, leadership 
>>>>> development, and the benefits of nourishing  a culture of leadership.
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>>>>> On Mon, Oct 9, 2023 at 12:08 AM Patrice Pederson via OSList 
>>>>> <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>>>>>> Yes we are working on a Code of Conduct that everyone must agree to in 
>>>>>> advance. For this event that could get serious. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> So, I need even more help. I had someone who was going to be able to 
>>>>>> take over facilitating while I sleep for a few hours who was perfect. 
>>>>>> She has been on my planning committee for all of these months, so she 
>>>>>> knows all of the things. She was actually trained by Harrison Owen in 
>>>>>> OST. And she lives on the other side of the planet from me. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> But she lives in Israel and her whole world is in chaos now. And we're 
>>>>>> 11 days out from the event. Oh yeah, and I have no budget to hire 
>>>>>> anyone. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Is there anyone out there who would be willing to step in sometime 
>>>>>> between 11pm-7am PDT on the morning of the 20th? I have a baby so I 
>>>>>> don't need much sleep. But I'll want some shut-eye to be sharp for the 
>>>>>> closing circle. 
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Thanks!
>>>>>> Patrice
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> On Sun, Oct 8, 2023 at 7:14 AM Funda Oral via OSList 
>>>>>> <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
>>>>>>> Dear Patrice,
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> This is not insane at all. Thanks for taking responsibility to bring up 
>>>>>>> such a crucial discussion and organizing this event.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> I took part in the following 24 hours virtual event in 2022 and i have 
>>>>>>> participated in several preparatory meetings before the actual event.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Future of Work 24 Hours 2022 — Unimagined Possibilities
>>>>>>> https://qiqochat.com/e/2022fow24hrs
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> I will be happy to share my experiences with you. 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Lucas Cioffi, the creator of QiqoChat, is very experienced about 
>>>>>>> various virtual open space meetings. 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> In addition, in your case, I would mention  a few "safe space" rules in 
>>>>>>> addition to OST principles: Respectful language, no stereotypes and 
>>>>>>> prejudices, no mockery,don't exclude, don't embarrass, no gossip, no 
>>>>>>> discriminatory jokes,no sexualised language, fast in encouragement and 
>>>>>>> appreciation, slow in criticism, Take as much time to listen as to talk.
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Good Luck,
>>>>>>> Funda Oral
>>>>>>> https://sites.google.com/view/fundaoraltoussaint/main-page?authuser=0
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>  
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> Le ven. 6 oct. 2023 à 08:23, Patrice Pederson via OSList 
>>>>>>> <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> a écrit :
>>>>>>>> Hello everyone! 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> I'm a first time poster. I asked a couple questions in a facebook 
>>>>>>>> group and was told about this group. I do have a couple of specific 
>>>>>>>> questions, but honestly I mostly need a little reassurance that what I 
>>>>>>>> am attempting to do is not completely insane. And if it is, then maybe 
>>>>>>>> some ideas for how to mitigate the damage? 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> I've committed to literally everyone in my professional field to host 
>>>>>>>> a Global Youth Summit for Freedom of Religion or Belief.  
>>>>>>>> <http://email.mail.firstfreedomfoundation.org/c/eJwcybFqwzAQANCvOW0NJ8mxo0GDa2MChYbQ0KFLsa27yMWuhKQY-velXd7ynGXlWAqysjb1sdEKpfCWjHGIyPNELGVFrtbj3NDEI56ITigW27Wv55d0MbED3d-kP39-bLs2T7OMPl6PzdC3oJ5v5fL21b9XZucppLa7QoXbuKyH-79z2MRqfSkxg25BDaAGDmnK_CiPRIeQ7qAGkSztlH7CN0GFIa9LLn_1GwAA___SYTt7>
>>>>>>>>  I've got a few dozen countries co-sponsoring the thing as well as 
>>>>>>>> several NGOs. It's something I have had on the backburner for years, 
>>>>>>>> until the UK Prime Minister's Special Envoy heard about it, lit a fire 
>>>>>>>> under me, and now it is spreading like wildfire and I can hardly keep 
>>>>>>>> up. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> So here are the questions: 
>>>>>>>> 1) So far we have young people from around 65 countries registered. 
>>>>>>>> Instead of doing three eight hour days, I decided to do one 24 (well 
>>>>>>>> 25 really) hour day so that people can participate from wherever they 
>>>>>>>> are in the world--during work, before or after school or work, etc. I 
>>>>>>>> genuinely have no idea when people will participate or for how long, 
>>>>>>>> and I know that this violates one of the rules of Open Space which is 
>>>>>>>> that it is no good to pop in and out. But for this purpose I really 
>>>>>>>> don't see an alternative. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> So, insane? Any way to mitigate the damage? I did schedule the Opening 
>>>>>>>> Circle for a time when people should at least be awake from LA to 
>>>>>>>> Bangkok (and we don't have many Pacific Islanders registered yet 
>>>>>>>> anyway). And for those who are working we will record that event for 
>>>>>>>> later consumption. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> 2) Does anyone have experience with multilingual Open Space events? My 
>>>>>>>> first instinct was that everyone needs to speak English. But the 
>>>>>>>> result is that we have only three participants from Latin America. So 
>>>>>>>> we are a "global" summit minus one entire continent. So then my second 
>>>>>>>> thought is that, if we could get like 50 people, with enough bilingual 
>>>>>>>> people to cross-pollinate, then we could have a sort of an event 
>>>>>>>> within an event. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Again, crazy? Or totally fine because Open Space is Open? 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Finally, this event is already going to be wild. We have a ton of 
>>>>>>>> Nigerians coming, many of whom have personally seen their friends and 
>>>>>>>> family members stabbed, burned, disappeared, etc., by Islamists. And 
>>>>>>>> then we have Muslims whose friends and families are getting lynched by 
>>>>>>>> Hindus in India, or genocided in Burma and China, and Hindus who are 
>>>>>>>> being persecuted in Pakistan, and LGBTQ youth who are getting bullied 
>>>>>>>> by so-called Christians, etc. etc. etc. Basically, everyone is a 
>>>>>>>> victim somewhere, and everyone is an aggressor somewhere, and I'm 
>>>>>>>> getting them all together in one big virtual room with 50+ breakout 
>>>>>>>> sessions and just one me. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> So, is co-facilitation a possibility? Would anybody be interested? 
>>>>>>>> Also, I do need to sleep at some point. We're going to need mechanisms 
>>>>>>>> to enforce a code of conduct (nonviolence at a minimum), but I think 
>>>>>>>> that I shouldn't be the one to enforce it because I need to hold the 
>>>>>>>> space, yes? 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Basically I could just really use some support, and I read that this 
>>>>>>>> group is good for that. It has been a minute since grad school when I 
>>>>>>>> studied all of this stuff. And while I have taken liberties with the 
>>>>>>>> OST model in the past, this time I'm worried that I might have gone 
>>>>>>>> too far. 
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Thanks for any words.
>>>>>>>> 
>>>>>>>> Patrice
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