Maninder, I apologise for coming on the way I came on in my last E-mail.
I completly respect your choice and view. I got a bit carried away as I had never shared in this way with you all guys and that's why I said what I said, I got that I was not being sensitive to everyone has a choice. My only committment is to share and that's it. I have got a lot and in my sharing with you I am just letting you in my world and what's got created for me. Regards Gurmeet ----- Original Message ----- From: maninder singh To: [email protected] Sent: Sunday, October 12, 2008 2:59 PM Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Acknowledging the truth I know your addressed this to Premjit but i am replying so i apologise for this. The thing is you get too deep into philosophical things may be that's why we used to call you"Dadu" Anyway,we should take life the way it comes. We all have different challenges and we all fight in different manner. So,just take it easy!! Mani On Sat, Oct 11, 2008 at 10:24 PM, Gurmeet Khurana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Premjit, This is so interesting, Thanks for asking this question, How did we become who we are today, We will all say, the upbrining, education and the circumstances that happened in our lives have made us who we are today, I can sum it up as we are a function of our past, Conider that is not true, we are not a function of our past but a function of the future we are living / Walking into. If you win two tickets in a lottery to go to your favourite destination and you have to leave in two days time, How will you be working, " quickly, very hard and efficently so that you can finish your work beause what is in front of us is "Our favourite destination" Lets say two days before the vacation gets over, you check that you have two tickets that take you back home," you will be disappointed and will say" Why do holidays get overo early" Look at this you are in Delhi and you are excited and when you are lets say you are in switzerland thinking of delhi you are disempowered, so what is in front of us is disempowering us or empowering us. Not what is behind us. If you notice than you realize something that how come it be this was it is because we created it like that, let me show you Do you notice a child, A child till the age of 2 to 3 has everything available to him/her, then sometime around 3-5 years we say that the child has grown up, There are decision that we make as little children and in adoloscent and in age of 18-22 that shapes us who we are and also limit us, Let me share a couple of incidents which will give you an insight into how I got to be who i am and the limits that are imposed alongwith. One of the first incident happened when I was four years old" I, papa, Mummy and my little sister Amita were in Kulu Manali and it was in the evening my father said" Jatinder get the bottle of whisky", " I said, Mummy I will get it, Mummy said be careful, do not break the bottle, I said, Okay, and like a little boy I was carrying the bottle and really happy that Papa will be so Happy to see this" That moment I tripped on a stone and the bottle fell out of my hand and broke. Papa lashed out at Mom and said" Why did you send the bottle with Gurmeet, This was the only bottle that I had" I said to myself that I have done something wrong, that day I failed as a little boy to do anything right and at that moment I decided to be a good obedient boy. When you decide something, where do you place it, Lets say you decide to not make a mistake, It does not go in your pat behind you, You put it in front of you , thus end up being careful, cautious most of the time. Guess what happens to me Till now I have no choice in the matter, I have to be an obedient boy all the time, with all teh poeple, always afraid of speaking my mind out and afraid that what will people think. In the Landmark Forum, Not only do you distinguish these incidents but the grip that these incidents have in our lives weakens and we get to be powerful in face of all of this. Another Incident, LET ME SHARE THE ONE THAT HAS ME BE DIFFERENT AND SEPERATE: I am nine years old, I am at Birthday Party of my best friend, Sanjay, " I love this guy and I just love taking care of him" , " On his birthday party" All his friends and I are seated together, at that moment his Grandmother comes in and says" Gurmeet To SANJAY ki POOCHAL hai", I failed to be understood and I decided that " No, I love this guy and it does not mean that I have to be his POochal, I will be different" That day , I became different, Notice I used to talk about all this Big Things, You know why all people would relate to me as DADU, The old wise man, Different from Other children. ". Again. I place the decision in front of me" I have to be Different", IN the future not the past, Incident Happens in the past but decesion always in future, right in front of us. The absurdty is that we think that we have a choice, we do not........ We never did and when these decisions are taken have all kind of got lost in the fog of who we are today. Through this technology you get to see every aspect of teh design of a human being and the limits and how you can cause to go beyond them. What happens as one the aspect of the Landamrk Forum is that people begin to see beyond their fog. NOW LETS LOOK AT HOW IT APPLIES TO US IN OUR LIVES; In Every area of our life there is osme loss of power, freedom anf full self expression, It shows up in various forms, Whether in a realtionship, whether in creating money, whether being fulfilled in our work, whether being insipred to fulfill a future, whether in upbringin of children, whether being powerful in situations. Communication, Personal Productivity etc....... It is endless.In living our lives it gives us an access to truly creating and living that life which we wanted to. The promise of the program is " Anything that you want for yourself or your life is available out of your partciaption in the Landmark Forum." I took in on being trained to lead this program because I got that what my family, my friends, my parents and my colleagues got, I want to spread that joy to people. I shared with all of you and I tell you it took a lot of courage to say what I had to say yet I was clear that I cannot anymore have any distance with you. I am having my children do this too as now my children are grown up to do this course and they do not need to be trapped. I do not know how much I have reached out to you but I would invite you to ask questions so that this conversation is enriched and contributes to all. Thank you Premjit and Charanjit , I apologise for not being able to reply to your message, I am sending in a seprate reply. Love & Regards Gurmeet ----- Original Message ----- From: "Premjit Singh Chadha" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Saturday, October 11, 2008 7:15 AM Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Acknowledging the truth > > Gurmeet > > > I am a little confused and uncllear about what you wrote to Maninder. > > You were quite and aloof no doubt but not a great extent. > > What ever little I know you as an old friend I think you have changed > a lot maybe achived a stage of self contentment !!! > > We at this group would surly like to know reason for this major > transformation as this could maybe help us in understanding ourselves > better. > > Regards > Premjit > > > > On 10/9/08, Charanjit Singh <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> Gurmeet >> >> >> >> This correspondence is really intriguing. Do you mind sharing what are you >> upto and what training you are going through? >> >> >> >> By the way, if your current endeavors bring you to Toronto, do contact me. >> >> >> >> Charanjit Singh >> >> >> >> From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >> On Behalf Of Gurmeet Khurana >> Sent: Thursday, October 09, 2008 12:02 AM >> To: [email protected] >> Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Acknowledging the truth >> >> >> >> Maninder, >> >> >> >> I did not know that I did not even know about that I had this issue or even >> anything close to this, Whenever any such though came I simply out rightly >> rejected the idea that I had any issue. >> >> It is while I was training over here it just hit me.Who am I being ????? >> >> >> >> It is so interesting, In that one moment when I saw how i was being >> inauthentic with all of you and the impact of that conversation on me and >> all of you , my world altered for me, It's like seeing the damage being done >> and got present to the cost that had been paid and what had been lost, >> >> >> >> I could see a new possible way I could be with all of you rather than being >> this aloof and distant guy, That's what happened for me.I got a completly >> new way of relating with all of you, I got love , got being connected and >> being one with all of you. >> >> >> >> >> >> It' s like being in Love, when you are in love it is not like a confession , >> it is that there is love and that's what there.Inside of being in love one's >> world is rocked and one's action get altered. >> >> >> >> That's where I am ,there is no going back my friend. >> >> >> >> and Maninder thank you for your response. I got your love and care. >> >> >> >> Love >> >> >> >> Gurmeet >> >> >> >> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> >> From: maninder singh <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> >> To: [email protected] >> >> Sent: Wednesday, October 08, 2008 7:46 PM >> >> Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Acknowledging the truth >> >> >> >> Gurmeet, >> >> If it is true then you are a good guy. >> >> In my opinion nobody is perfect.We all have an inner world that we deal >> with. >> >> If you are confessing and getting a realisation of what you have been >> missing in life then not to worry about it. >> >> Better late than never!!! >> >> Wish you all the best. >> >> >> >> Mani >> >> On Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 11:49 AM, Gurmeet Khurana <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> wrote: >> >> Dear Friends, >> >> >> >> TIME FOR THE TRUTH TO BE TOLD.... >> >> >> >> I got to see who I am being in my relationship with all of you today, and I >> am not going to hold myself back and I am going to share myself fully with >> all of you today, >> >> >> >> I have been living in this conversation called that I am different and I do >> not belong , Anything that I will share will be laughed upon and they will >> not understand me. >> >> >> >> If you remember the early school day I kept my distance, I would not allow >> you guys in my life. Always trying to be better or different than anyone >> else. >> >> >> >> All of that had me be seprate from all of you.I was Lonely and Sad all >> along. >> >> >> >> All of you were left dominated,made wrong, cut off and kept at a distance. >> >> >> >> I want you to know that I am responsible for having caused this to happen >> >> >> >> and the reason i got to see was that it was a function of a decision that I >> took when I was ten years old and that has been running my life ever since. >> >> >> >> Today I am free and am taking responsibility for this absurdity and have the >> courage to share with all of you >> >> >> >> I want you to know that I love you and I am present to that I cut you guys >> off. I request you to all to forgive me. >> >> >> >> And I want you all to know that I have got you all back in my life. >> >> >> >> I request you to please respond and share and say what's been that like for >> you >> >> >> >> Thank you and once again Love you. >> >> >> >> Gurmeet >> >> >> >> P.S, I may not respond to you quickly becasuse I am in US and undergoing >> extensive training, but I will respond. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> <BR >> >> >> > >> > > -- > Sent from Gmail for mobile | mobile.google.com > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "EX,GHPS,1988,V.V" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/exghps1988v_v?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
