Jatti,thoda jyada nahi ho gaya,Madhu aur Cheti,dono ki aisi ki taisi,bol chandni chowk kab chalna hai.Even Herbi is ready to switch over to feasting, from fasting..........................ip
--- On Fri, 11/14/08, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode To: [email protected] Date: Friday, November 14, 2008, 9:12 AM It could either be choice or majburi but it does not give us the right to start bitching about it in public forum. The point that I was trying to make was not whether India has shortcomings or not ..........it definitely has and even I discuss it with people. All I am saying is that if the Cheti guy wrote what he wrote, he should be ready to listen also. Many of our friends forgot what Cheti wrote and were targeting Madhu on her comments. All I am saying is if Cheti bitched about India, then it was also ok for Madhu to bitch about America. I was all very fair and square. And by the way, due to the global recession, many want to come back to India (A recent study on IIM placements that came in FE says that many students have denied international placements because of global meltdown). They are the same people who once bitched about India and went abroad. We also cannot choose our parents and I know a lot of people to do not get along. But they do not bitch in the open. Staying or not staying in India is a very personal choice. We cannot generalize it. I am staying here by choice and I am sure there are many who can migrate if they want but do not. What I do not understand is that what was the need for that Cheti guy to write the note. If he does not like India .....fair enough .... he can continue to stay in US. But if he has written a note what is so wrong in Madhu replying to it. The debate here is not about whether India has problems or not or whether someone wants to stay here or not. Some people took objection to what Madhu wrote. All I am saying is that if someone writes to you, you have a right to response. If that guy wrote his heart out, he should be ready to listen. Hope you guys understand. Cheers, Jatinder [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent by: [email protected] 11/14/2008 01:13 PM Please respond to [email protected] To [email protected] cc Subject exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode Jati...for many of us living in this country is not a choice but a compulsion by matter of being born here(I include myself).I am gonna invite lotta brickbats but I feel there are more reasons to leave India (if u have a choice) rather than love India!! I am being candid I know but that is how I feel... Sent from BlackBerry® on Airtel From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:43:44 +0530 To: <[email protected]> Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode I understand that Shelly. Till the time people discuss this over a coffee table, it is ok. But if you are an Indian, staying abroad, and start publically bitching about your country, someone has to tell you to shut up. I fully agree with you that every country has problems and issues and it does not help belittling any country. The Cheti guy should not have written a note. And he was not ONLY trying to point out shortcomings. If you look at the way he wrote a note, he was feeling shameful to be an Indian. In such cases, one cannot remain silent. It is very clear that the Cheti guy does not like India. He has already made a choice of leaving the country and staying in the US. He should be happy with that. But if he decides to make his feelings public and bitch about India (which is exactly what he did), then he should be ready to get it back as well. Guys, we live in this country .... and we do it by CHOICE. What little or more we have, this country has given it to us. No one has a right to bitch about the country where we live. Madhu was well within her right to tell the guy to shut up. Remember, she was not the one who started it. She only RESPONDED to his note. This was the point that I wanted to make. Cheers, Jatinder "Shailender Monga" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent by: [email protected] 11/14/2008 11:34 AM Please respond to [email protected] To [email protected] cc Subject exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode I.P has explained brilliantly what I tried with brevity :) Jatinder, when i said it doesnt help belittling another country to help yours shine in comparison, I meant both The Cheti guy and Madhu trehan. Look within should be the mantra. Look out for inspiration , and within for the shortcomings. Cheers! --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "EX,GHPS,1988,V.V" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/exghps1988v_v?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
